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Originally Posted by TurnUpTheSun
drunk tr:
(editors note: these are all exact quotes, cell phone is out and being copied exactly)
texted her tonight:
me: are you going out tonight? my costume is awesome
girl: hah what are you? and yeaaaa i am
me: im a baby lol its the best costume ever. we are probly going to fe tonight
girl: samsies
me: cool. see you there
1:00 am : me: just got in, where are ya?
2:00 am : me: called her
2:07 am : me text: jus seein if ya wanna smoke
tl, dr cliffnotes: girl that showed signs of interest tells me shes gonna be at the same bar and i dont see her, i show desperation signals, girl doesnt respond, my life is awful
drunk n high tho
I am going to be honest with you. There are many different things that could have happened. 1) Her phone died so therefor she wasn't able to get your text. 2)Did show and just never saw each other. 3) She and friends decided to go to another party. So those are the 3 positive scenarios. But sadly there is a bad scenario. 4) She didn't respond on purpose. If this is the case I would say she is a lost cause. If she didn't respond then she is just not interested. My advice to you is to just leave it alone. Don't text her and just leave her alone. If she wants to talk to you and text you, she will do that. So sorry to say unless she talks or text you saying "sorry I didn't see you my phone or *insert another excuse*" she is a lost cause.
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Originally Posted by nbaaddict
i just wanna check and am hoping against hope that i am wrong.
i was grinding on this girl tonight at a party and got her number. after the party was over, she left with her friends. i soon after texted her that if she ever wanted to hang out, then just text me back. she texted back with "ah that's cool". that's a no, right? any way that could possibly be a yes?
Yes, that is definitely a no. The problem is you were doing great up until you texted her right after the party. You came off almost stalkerish. When you get a girls number at a party, and it ends and everyone leaves, you only text her right after the party for 1 reason. And that reason is if you are going to another party you can text her and say "Hey me and my friends are heading to *insert party* you should join". Besides that 1 and only reason you should leave it alone and text her in 2 days.
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Originally Posted by nbaaddict
something else i forgot to ask.
at a party, if you wanna dance with a girl, do you a. approach them and talk to them and ask if they want to dance with you b. just gently touch and hold her and move your body toward hers without asking or c. other alternative?
and does your answer depend on the slutiness level of the girl you're approaching?
i tried a and b with mixed success for each and am seeking an optimally +ev strategy.
Well the problem with this question is many girls are different. You need to get yourself comfortable enough to be able to know which option to use on each girl. For example some girls think choice A is great while they thing choice B is douche bag like. So if you don't feel like trying to figure this out before you dance with them go with the simple solution.
Choice C:
Walk up to her, and say "Hi, I am Bob. Would you like to dance?" This is simple sweet and short. I suggest figuring out what you are going to say. You may choose to add something witty and funny, or something like "I saw you from across the room and couldn't help but come over and ask you to dance". That is something charming you could say. But be sure to always rotate what you say. For example don't use the same line on too many girls. It gets old and your game will get rusty.
Cliff: Learn to decide what line is best or phrase is best suited for each individual girl.