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10-19-2008 , 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted by MrWookie
Katy,

I chose the words in my speculative diagnosis for maximum sarcasm and cliche, but that doesn't mean that I automatically am assuming that your claims are illegitimate. It's important that your man pay attention to you and listen to you. Some women do make a mountain out of a molehill if their man doesn't take them to the right restaurant. More often, there's a big underlying problem that was never addressed, and everything blows up over something that would be insignificant on its own.

I understand, Wookie. Your examples were pretty funny because I saw myself in some of them (like the restaurant one).

Believe it or not, I've learned a lot over the years from 2+2 and am sincere when I say you guys have helped me in my relationship. Because of the input from the 2+2 men, I probably try a lot harder now to see things from the man's point of view than I ever did before.


In response to Nut and diebitter, if my man were ever to ask me if something was wrong (heh that'll be the day!) I'd be like "Well hell ****ing yeah something is wrong! " and then I'd tell him outright. I'm not one to pout.
10-19-2008 , 02:24 PM
Katy, you really need to sit your guy down and have a serious talk with him if it's as serious as you say. Hoping it gets better won't change anything.

Or, you can just dump his ass and move to Vegas. I'll treat you right, Baby.

10-19-2008 , 04:39 PM
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Originally Posted by daveT
Negs for men:
2- More likely to have a physical altercation at some point in the near future, either with him, or one of his friends.

5- More likely to be an alcoholic/ drug addict.
These are very problematic. Reasons why I don't want to live with other humans. I'm not sure that either of these is more likely with a male than a female, but either way they are no fun to live with and make life a major drag.


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Negs for girls:
4- Have to listen even when I am not in the mood. Questioned about why I am quiet, like can't I do a crossword without talking?
haha this is a good one. We hate it when you guys are quiet when we feel like talking Drives us nuts.
10-19-2008 , 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted by daveT
I give massages, Katy.

There are inherent problems living with both men and women.

Negs for men:
1- usually more dirty.
2- More likely to have a physical altercation at some point in the near future, either with him, or one of his friends.
3- Hits on your female friends.
4- Hits on your girlfriend
5- More likely to be an alcoholic/ drug addict.

Negs for girls:
1- Have to smell all that hygeine/ beauty stuff.
2- More likely to interact with wild mood swings.
3- Always sexual tension.... always.

4- Have to listen even when I am not in the mood. Questioned about why I am quiet, like can't I do a crossword without talking?
5- Can't really think of five.
false. just get an ugly roommate
10-19-2008 , 04:41 PM
Katy, maybe you're just not supposed to live with THIS guy. It doesn't mean you're not compatible with EVERY GUY out there.
10-19-2008 , 04:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Count Chocula
false. just get an ugly roommate
But that would mean I have to make myself ugly, ldo. I suppose I could dip my face in a vat of gasoline and light it on fire.

and #5 was knick-nacks. Why do I need to see so many damn pictures of people I will never care about?

There are definitely decent girls and guys to live with out there. I am so glad our culture prefers us to live together before marriage. I wish I knew the specifics of the problem here, but yeah, I could see it any many perspectives.

My last roomate was a vegetarian. If, all of a sudden, I came home and found a pound hamburger meat laying on the pan, I would probably wonder what that is about, and why all of a sudden, this person would be so pro-killing people after having a soft heart for animals.
10-19-2008 , 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Dominic
Katy, maybe you're just not supposed to live with THIS guy. It doesn't mean you're not compatible with EVERY GUY out there.
shhh. Lets encourage her to go lesbian instead, then we can get more interesting tr's.
10-19-2008 , 04:47 PM
Dom, what is that ring all around your jawline in the picture? How do you do that - is it drawn on?

katyseagull...let me be honest: I don't understand why you're with the guy you're with. From what you've said, he doesn't seem to be a good match for you and causes you a lot of anxiety, stress and heartache.

Though this is what all males do since it is wired into their XY chromosomes, what's the point of staying if it isn't making you happy?
10-19-2008 , 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted by HobbyHorse
Dom, what is that ring all around your jawline in the picture? How do you do that - is it drawn on?
that is my new look, don't hate. The chinstrap-goatee is da bomb, yo.
10-19-2008 , 04:51 PM
I swore you look different. Are wearing make-up?
10-19-2008 , 04:53 PM
Seriously, in my experience if you're unhappy in the relationship, it will not change for the better in the long run. You CAN be happy with someone, though....maybe just not this person. But I'd certainly exhaust all communicative possibilities with him first. Talk to him, make him understand where you're coming from. That's all you can really do, in the end. Hopefully he will listen because he loves you.

But if he chooses not to respond or care about your feelings, that is also an answer.
10-19-2008 , 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Dominic
Seriously, in my experience if you're unhappy in the relationship, it will not change for the better in the long run. You CAN be happy with someone, though....maybe just not this person.
I agree.

Since you don't seem to get along well in relationships with men, perhaps you should try experimenting with other women instead.
10-19-2008 , 04:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Count Chocula
I agree.

Since you don't seem to get along well in relationships with men, perhaps you should try experimenting with other women instead.
Wat?

Who is this directed toward - Dominic or katy?
10-19-2008 , 04:59 PM
Hobby...here's me with my new crew:





Next time back on the East Coast you and me should go hang out down at the Jersey Shore, imo.
10-19-2008 , 05:19 PM
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Originally Posted by HobbyHorse
Wat?

Who is this directed toward - Dominic or katy?
katy... lol.
10-19-2008 , 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Dominic
Hobby...here's me with my new crew:

Next time back on the East Coast you and me should go hang out down at the Jersey Shore, imo.
Well, this isn't going to happen because I am prejudiced against you, your kind, and New Jersey as a whole - stinkin' armpit of the US that produces spiky-haired, diamond-stud earringed, stripe button-down shirt wearing FREAKS!
10-19-2008 , 07:04 PM
BTW, Dominicky, which one are you supposed to be in the first pic - are you wearing a headband?
10-19-2008 , 07:17 PM
Not much different from the typical Rhode Island look, Dom. I can almost smell the cologne.
10-19-2008 , 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted by HobbyHorse
BTW, Dominicky, which one are you supposed to be in the first pic - are you wearing a headband?
same guy i am in the first pic, ldo....can't you see the chin strap? I'm also in the 2rd pick, ldo.
10-19-2008 , 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Dominic
same guy i am in the first pic, ldo....can't you see the chin strap? I'm also in the 2rd pick, ldo.
No, they all look the same. It's a huge puzzle of "where's dom the guido"?
10-19-2008 , 07:24 PM
guy on left in 2nd pic is same as my first pic....guy is in pink shirt on right side and in back of 3rd pic
10-19-2008 , 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Dominic
guy on left in 2nd pic is same as my first pic....guy is in pink shirt on right side and in back of 3rd pic
WOW. You really are a NJ native because I don't know anybody else who would be able to be able to tell these guys apart....so how did you not end up like this, Dom? (Or maybe you were like this back in the 70s/80s? What were the douchey trends then...or are they still the same?)

You are now my expert on the B&T crowd, Dom.

EDIT: Is one of those guidos related to you?
10-19-2008 , 07:37 PM
lol....haven't you seen those "NJ Guido" sites???

they all look like this:






10-19-2008 , 07:43 PM
Young Dom

10-19-2008 , 07:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Fishwhenican
Young Dom

i did not try the Flock of Seagulls look. I did have a huge "jew-fro" though, even tho I am Italian.

      
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