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Originally Posted by ianlippert
wows is all excess and no empathy.
this is my main misgiving with regards to wows, the lack of empathy. first, there's no empathy towards belfort's financial victims: not only do we never see any of them onscreen, but the overall ethos is essentially canada bill jones's old saying, "it's immoral to let a sucker keep his money."
and there's certainly no empathy towards women, who are basically all bimbos, gold diggers, and/or whores, usually in various stages of nudity and sexual activity. belfort and his crew are never called out by a single character in the movie for their degrading treatment of women, and we never see any negative effects of that treatment. there are women that work at the firm, but they either actively participate in the male sexual fantasies (the one who gets double-teamed and also blows every guy in the office, once in a glass elevator in view by all) or they just passively accept the openly demeaning behavior around them.
belfort upgrades from his first wife to a much hotter one; she cries and yells for about 30 secs and is never seen or heard from again. his second wife is an airheaded trophy who decides to divorce him when he's finally facing prison time. she abandons him at his time of greatest need; importantly, it is only at this point that belfort hits her, after her true, gold-digging colors are revealed.
look, my initial reaction to the movie was, "man, what a blast!"--i wasn't complaining about the nudity or misogyny or whatever. i'm a guy and i like looking at naked women. but even while i was being entertained by the movie, there was a nagging thought in the back of my mind: what if i were a woman? would i feel the same way watching this thru a woman's eyes? maybe i still would, but maybe i wouldn't--maybe i'd see it somewhat differently. a female friend of mine once told me how she sometimes has to shut off part of her brain in order to enjoy certain movies that casually depict misogyny; i thought to myself, "she's def gonna have to flip that switch for this one."
ultimately, is wows misogynistic? i don't know, but if someone thinks that it is, i can see where they're coming from. i'm certainly not willing to dismiss them as being stupid or ******ed for having different sensibilities than my own, framed thru different experiences than my own. a little empathy will go a long way.