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Originally Posted by HobbyHorse
It's like Betty wants to be like Don and have affairs with whoever happens to catch her eye...yet, she wants something more from her affairs than Don does. Don seems to be perfectly happy with the temporary nature of an affair while it seems like Betty wants a more permanent affair in the sense of something that would completely destroy her marriage and lead to a new life for her. Or maybe that's just me reading too much into it...
I think these are pretty much the standard differences between why men and women cheat. Women are into the attention; men just want some strange (until it stops being strange and then we move on).
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And this is the first time I thought of Don's own actions as kind of childish.
Don's behavior is, and has always been, somewhere between childish and cowardly (if there is much difference between the two). He unleashes his misfortunes on those around him and he runs from responsibility. He is not an enviable man. He is not much of a man at all.
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I had a major problem with the reintroduction of the Roger/Don conflict last week.
Roger knows Don; he is perhaps his closest (only?) friend. Roger knows that Don is a very private man - one who is inclined to do things like disappear to California for weeks.
Roger also knows people; everything in the show has portrayed him as the master accounts man. His only suspect people judgment has come in the arena of women, a very standard male inadequacy. However, when it comes to business, Roger is a master.
For Roger to involve Betty in the contract process:
1) coming on the heels of his recent conflict with Don for meddling in his private affairs
2) knowing Cooper had and was willing to play the gin card
3) knowing the general distaste any man (and especially
this man) has for involving his spouse (and the probable subsequent nagging) in business affairs
was out of character and generally baffling. This was a scorched earth move for their friendship and Roger should have (and would have) known it.
It did not seem like payback and there was poor business motive established. This move would have made more sense if they hadn't sold the company; why is Don's contract a big deal now? The entire contract play was out of place and weak, though I expect this to be revisited and clarified.