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Originally Posted by DalTXColtsFan
So let's say a guy saw the woman in that photo, thought "what a fat pig" and didn't pay any attention to her, but saw her again after a couple years where she'd been training and now looked super hot and was suddenly interested. Does he deserve to get to go out with her?
The better question is, if she knew his opinion of her pre hotness, should she still give him a shot? And the answer is no.
If someone gives you a pass because of poorness or fatness or whatever objective reason, if (or when) life takes a 180 in your financial and/or looks department, and now the same person is interested, it is imperative that you shoot them down in return. Sure they had good reason to pass initially when you were fat and poor, and it speaks to reason that their attitude should be different now that you're well-off and attractive, but it's only fair that you find another hottie (who probably also would have passed on you when you were fat and poor if they knew you then.) In a sense, the first person just ran bad in this spot for declining you before you were a catch. How could they know? They couldn't. But thems the breaks.
(Obv this doesn't apply if you're easy-going, forgiving, understanding, not interested in vengeance, etc.)
Last edited by Oroku$aki; 05-07-2016 at 11:19 PM.