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Originally Posted by Kristy
You make a lot of sense. I agree that I'd appreciate many of the philosophies that you spout, and I've no doubt that you're a great partner..
but..
Please stop laying this "Sex is about closeness" crap on the generic female's doorstep and approaching males as dissenters. It is unhealthy for women to have to bear that burden.
-Closeness is a conversation, an understanding, protection and support. I have that with a variety of people regardless of their proximity to my vagina.
-Sex is a series of actions that cause a heightened sense of pleasure..a back rub also fits that description. I'm not interested in the arbitrary love/sex correlations that were placed on either of them..I'm just doing what feels good.
Love/closeness/intimacy is in my brain not my junk.
Men don't know how to treat women, but that is neither new, nor causally related to sex.
Obviously, I'm speaking in generalities - look at my audience!
Of course women can have casual sex and enjoy it as much as men do. My point is not to think of casual sex as wrong, but to maybe aspire to something greater when having sex with someone who is more to you than a way-station for your genitals.