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06-10-2009 , 12:19 PM
"Whoever loves more is the inferior one, and must suffer"

True?
True for your current relationship, your last one, your previous ones?
06-10-2009 , 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted by 11beatsperminute
"Whoever loves more is the inferior one, and must suffer"

True?
True for your current relationship, your last one, your previous ones?
Hm. I don't know how to answer this question.

In my last relationship, I often thought I loved him more. Then when it came down to it, I realized I didn't actually love him at all. It was all lust gone wrong.

But I think it takes a lot of strength to love someone, to leave yourself open to the kind of pain that has potential to cause. So, I don't think it makes them inferior, but it does mean they'll suffer more. (simply because they allow themselves to feel more).
06-10-2009 , 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted by MattVanDam
Ladies, please place the following in order of importence to you in a potential long term boyfriend;

1) Likes doing things you want to do
2) Physically Attractive
3) Makes you LOL
4) Great in Bed
5) Personal appearance (grooming, clothes etc)
6) kind, generous, sensitive to your needs
7) Romantic
8) Reliability
9) Wants to have children with you
10) Financially secure
3,8,6,4,2,1,7,10,9

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Originally Posted by pd86
list the order these batman would get to run train on you
Kilmer, Clooney, Keaton, West, Bale

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Originally Posted by Gizmomo
Wait, what? How can I be passive aggressive if I'm actually giving the guy jabs? I don't get it.
Yes, you do get it..you're just being passive aggressive again.

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Originally Posted by Gizmomo
Also, why is it okay for Kylemac to call him a "****ing idiot" and not me?
Because you're not trying to be as funny or aggressive as he is.

You are making well reasoned arguments and then throwing in a "You're fat"
He's saying "I hate you *****" (or something to that effect)

You're trying to compare apples to rancid weiners imo.


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Originally Posted by Gizmomo
The fight pisses you off because everyone ganged up on the guy, despite him being clearly wrong... because everyone else in 4life is sexist... so, like, oh well?
You BELIEVE he is clearly wrong. I actually read his op and saw pretty standard questions for 4life. He's allowed to be wrong iyo without you attacking the very fiber of his being.

ask yourself what you were trying to accomplish with your posts? Were you trying to enlighten him to your perspective? Do you really believe that calling him stupid while doing that is going to achieve your objective? I think it sounded more like you were just trying to prove that you're smart. Which I already know.

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Originally Posted by Gizmomo
You're so hypercritical of the women here, and that's what bugs me.
Yup, 'cause they aren't going to tell you if you're being contradictory or your strategy is flawed. I expect more from you than a sign and pics of a hot hair dye job.
06-10-2009 , 12:31 PM
You seem nice.
06-10-2009 , 12:31 PM
why are mommy and daddy fighting
06-10-2009 , 12:34 PM
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Originally Posted by nham
why are mommy and daddy fighting
because you don't try hard enough in school

it is clearly all your fault.
06-10-2009 , 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted by nham
why are mommy and daddy fighting
[ ] has met his own father
06-10-2009 , 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted by nham
why are mommy and daddy fighting



06-10-2009 , 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Kristy
because you don't try hard enough in school

it is clearly all your fault.
so i'll never be an astronaut now?
06-10-2009 , 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Kristy
You BELIEVE he is clearly wrong. I actually read his op and saw pretty standard questions for 4life. He's allowed to be wrong iyo without you attacking the very fiber of his being.
No... he's wrong. He made the assumption women were inferior and asked a question about it. Therefore... he's wrong. Just because it's the status quo in your mind doesn't mean he's any more right.
However, he can call women inferior and, you know, people need to back off him. If I tell him he's stupid (and, frankly, he is) then my every fiber deserves to be attacked? Much like any other woman on this forum? You are so critical of the women it's disheartening.

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ask yourself what you were trying to accomplish with your posts? Were you trying to enlighten him to your perspective? Do you really believe that calling him stupid while doing that is going to achieve your objective? I think it sounded more like you were just trying to prove that you're smart. Which I already know.
Would you already know that because I already said so in omg last night? Because I did. I said, "I'm a little miffed, but more arguing with him to make myself feel smarter".



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Yup, 'cause they aren't going to tell you if you're being contradictory or your strategy is flawed. I expect more from you than a sign and pics of a hot hair dye job.
Oh, so you hold me to such high standards and that's why you feel the need to be critical?
Though, you feel the need to tear down other women like Jacktay when you're trying to prove how highly you think of me?
It doesn't make sense. You come across hating on women, that's the bottom line. When I read your posts, I expect for you to lambast me, or tay, or whoever. It makes your feminist rants ring just a little... contradictory.

And quit projecting "passive aggressive" onto me and making assumptions. My last post was in no way passive aggressive despite your liking of that insult.
06-10-2009 , 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted by nham
so i'll never be an astronaut now?
If you're going to be, you'd better hurry. They're retiring the shuttle next year.
06-10-2009 , 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted by nham
so i'll never be an astronaut now?
you will be an astroNOT
06-10-2009 , 12:42 PM


cacacat fight
06-10-2009 , 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Mayo
If you're going to be, you'd better hurry. They're retiring the shuttle next year.
i fly soyuz ldo. they'll call me an астронавт.
06-10-2009 , 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted by nham
i fly soyuz ldo. they'll call me an астронавт.
That's the only spaceship that's ever killed anyone in space imo.
06-10-2009 , 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Gizmomo
Hm. I don't know how to answer this question.

In my last relationship, I often thought I loved him more. Then when it came down to it, I realized I didn't actually love him at all. It was all lust gone wrong.

But I think it takes a lot of strength to love someone, to leave yourself open to the kind of pain that has potential to cause. So, I don't think it makes them inferior, but it does mean they'll suffer more. (simply because they allow themselves to feel more).
Sounds about right IMO. It takes strength to open yourself up to a good heart-stomping. Not loving or loving less can be a defensive measure.

Notable problem is that if through games playing or shyness or whatever you make yourself too much of a conquest, it can degrade the relationship to the point that as soon as people win, they're done.
06-10-2009 , 01:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Mayo
That's the only spaceship that's ever killed anyone in space imo.
i'm the only space killer 'round these parts.
06-10-2009 , 01:16 PM
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Originally Posted by ILikeBunnies
Actually, I'm more a minigolf and movies on the couch type of girl (because then I can pause the movie and do somethign else with you.)
giziknow.jpg

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And I'm a cubs fan.
06-10-2009 , 01:18 PM
i saw the ninja edit

Last edited by kylmac85; 06-10-2009 at 01:18 PM. Reason: dramaments ftw
06-10-2009 , 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted by kylmac85
i saw the ninja edit
this

oh **** now i have something in common with a platinum star rigged waejiof4ierogji
06-10-2009 , 01:21 PM
I missed the ninja fml.
06-10-2009 , 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted by nham
this

oh **** now i have something in common with a platinum star rigged waejiof4ierogji
lol i wonder what your opinion of me will be when i stop being lazy and hunt down supernova
06-10-2009 , 01:23 PM
ssh guys, I edited it because it's her birthday...

Last edited by lostandgone85; 06-10-2009 at 01:26 PM. Reason: all happy thoughts on birthdays.
06-10-2009 , 01:23 PM
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Originally Posted by kylmac85
lol i wonder what your opinion of me will be when i stop being lazy and hunt down supernova
awe

and i'll probably have to follow you around to warn all your opponents of the "supernova microstakes luck" curse
06-10-2009 , 01:26 PM
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Originally Posted by lostandgone85
ssh guys, I edited it because it's her birthday...
FFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUU

      
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