Dear wimminz of 4l:

What does 'boobs on glass' mean?

Oh my blood is starting to boil at this, like he's trying to set you up in case you want to say anything. No freakin way, document this every single incident. Oh hey you just did But yah document exactly as things happen, dates, times. Say once to stop, after that if it continues go streight to his higher ups. **** that.

Like when you were little and you'd smoosh your face on glass to make your face look all funny? Imagine that, but with boobs!

It's when you press your boobs against glass! IDK me and a friend made that up while drunk and pressing our (my) boobs on a car windshield.

It really took off from there! Nationally syndicated show, etc etc

heehee women spend all this time and energy making their boobs do this do that to be sexy well I say shape 'em funny! Get 'em on glass! heheh

Glass is typically colder than body temperature, so, also, hard nipples!

On the one side, I see what you're saying. On the other, some guys are just friendly in this way. I know I've said something similar to both male and female coworkers. Of course it's a judgement call for you to make, and I don't want you to think I'm trying to diminish your feelings on the subject.

My last boss was a very large guy about 6 years older than me. We hugged on a weekly basis at work. I was just very comfortable with him. If any of the managers that were there now tried to touch me, I'd probably recoil in horror.

Anyway, my point is that there are some people who try to get around the tension of not being able to talk about sex at work by making vaguely veiled comments like that from your boss. There are other people who don't care and ask a girl out, followed directly by telling her, and all the people sitting next to her, that he ****s on the first date.

If you're not comfortable with any sort of shenanigans, you should let that be known. But on the scale of offenses, unless the guy was eyeballing you when he said it, it was probably meant fairly innocuously.

If you confront him about it and he's a dick, then yeah, he's probably the ******* type that would eventually go to far. If he's cool, he won't mind and will be light-hearted about it.

I am pro-boob on anything imo

Well, I already said he's a touchy feely guy according to most people I've spoken to about it. At the same time, I've had bosses who would make with the innuendo, but I've never had bosses who would come up behind me to tell me something and place a hand on my lower back.
After hearing he's a touchy guy I was like, okay that's all there is to it. But tonight after the comment it just seemed like he was probing into something.
I'm certainly not one to shrink away because someone brought up some sort of sexual comment at work.

But, yeah, the only right answer is to tell him it bugs me if it's bugging me.

I was thinking.....your boss might actually think you're interested in him and has this fantasy thing going on in his head. Add to that the stress of a new home and baby...viola, he wants a little somethin, be it flirting or more.

Anyhow no matter what's going on in his head, that kinda behavior is wrong in the workplace.

Sometimes though I wonder if people just make excuses for others (oh he's a touchy feely guy) because they do not know how to handle stuff themselves.

There was this guy who worked in the same building as me who would literally stalk me- he'd come looking for me making excuses why we should talk, follow me outside the building any given chance, ask people who didn't even know me where I was, etc. I told my boss about it and he was like, oh he's just a friendly guy. I told a coworker and she gave me the lowdown, he comes onto women without indication of mutual interest, even when they are clearly avoiding his ass, and even when they say go away. Haha...I told him I wasn't interested and he played it off like I was being unreasonable and playing hard to get.

So yep, be direct. "I'm not interested in you that way" should pretty much stop whatever he's fantasizing about. If he's not a complete moran like the example above.

im good mates with my boss and on facebook and stuff and we go out sometimes

a couple of the older girls at work might smack me on the ass once or twice a year when they're in the mood and its all good.. i dont touch em back cos meh

your boss giz, that **** is not on! I think you need to think up something tactful to say and maybe just say it before something worse develops?

Couldn't just be that he tried to make a joke that she misunderstood and upon trying to clarify, it, like any joke you have to explain, was less than funny?

****, why won't edit work?

Anyhow, if it doesn't pop up here, I was going to say, Occam's razor imo

Yeah...why wait for another uncomfortable situation, letting the mental tension build. Once the plan is clear and enacted, relief.

Otherwise u be like this kitty and he is like mon cherieeeee where are zoouuu my leeetol pooozycat, why u r running from me?? :

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Qcibi_n3CA

I was really hoping Heaven Scent would have the Esthero song dubbed over it

Possible, but IDK. Kinda doubt it since it's not one incident, right?

Ladies

Who would you rather go out on a date with?

[ ] Kirk
[ ] Picard

Who would rather have sex with?
[ ] A Klingon
[ ] A Vulcan

Why do girls always insist on committing themselves to one person so easily? Lately I have been trying to expand a little, the one night stand thing gets kinda old and I hate having to go out to get laid.

So I started taking down and giving out phone numbers, then after sleeping with some of the girls twice and almost haven't even talked to them yet they start to bombard with texts and want me to come meet their friends and come out with them all the time and it's driving me ****ing nuts I just want a harem god dammit

^^^ We should all be so lucky.

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girls...so there are tits men and ass men right...

any girls more fond of there ass than boobs?

Try being less attractive to women

A lot of women, in general, have a hard time separating feelings and sex.

women need a reason to have sex and men just need a place

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