dw it's in the making

£245, for my services.

might consider it if you shaved your legs

Tell her. Take responsibility. It looks better if you man up rather than her finding out from other people.
Um, no. You're a dick.
Oh yeah, no way things will ever be okay. And the chick slept with you just to spite your gf. Yeah, no way...

Ehh... I think if, you know, if you say you're exclusive (or it's implied) then you don't **** around. Otherwise, you tell the person you want out of the relationship if you can't keep your legs closed/it in your pants.
I haven't.
She'd have issues anyways, don't blame it on the girls. You're an idiot and cheated on a girl whom you say you still want to be with. Chances are you don't feel that strong about her anyway. And just because something happens a lot doesn't mean it's okay to do it.

You, sir, are a grade a *******. There is no reason to cheat on anyone you just need to be an adult about it. If you really can't stay faithful to someone who requires it, then breka it off with them. Simple as that. Otherwise you're just a selfish moron.

well ... i met her and told her , was honest about it , and guess what ... GIRLS DONT APRECIATE HONESTY ( LDO ) ... but she left me a small door open . still think a lie was better for both of us . but ty for taking the time to answer ALL i said in here . Have a nice life

You still don't get it.....just because you were honest and told her the truth, doesn't mean you didn't betray her.....taking responsibility for your actions is being truthful and accepting the consequences....maybe think before you bink next time.

Dear the women of B4L,

Do you know why I don't post pics of myself all over here? Partly because I don't want to be identifiable in my home town/at work, but also because I don't want people photoshopping me all over the place.

This rant would be much more suited to the 'quit trainwrecking yourselves' thread, but apparently the women of 4l don't read that thread.

Thinking before you do something, there's a novel idea. Actually, I was just saying...

exactly sir.....so stop photoshopping pics and you won't have reason to rant...

Welcome to "How the internet works 101"..

[ ] got the point of telling her
[x] she was going to find out anyways

lame excuse imo

lol im too lazy to read all the responses but it looks like jizz found someone to hate more than me <3

Meh, I think fairplayJAY was just leveling. His story isn't believable and when asked what he would do if his gf did the same he says instadump yet he thinks he deserves some sympathy because he was "drunk?" Either it is a level or he is just an idiot.

not my intention to be rude , but if you think this is unbelievable... sick life bro .

i'd act like that because its me and its the way i think ... doesnt mean anyone else must think that way .

dont think anyone asked for sympathy


as for the idiot part who knows maybe i am one , but trust me pal , u'd wish u were me .

Listen bro-pal-friend-brah, your story wasn't believable to me because of the way you presented it, not because you cheated. Your lack of logic confirms that you are an idiot, so I will just end the discussion there. Best of luck finding a new gf or mending your relationship with the current gf.

+1 for poast count weeeee!!!

Perhaps this is why I post the signs pictures, not as easy to shop.

And fairplay, being honest was your only hope, you still did a ****ty thing.

Girls appreciate honesty ....
Girls don't appreciate it when you **** their sexual rivals ...

True story.

deny deny deny deny deny

i understand getting drunk and stupid and making a dumb decision, but for the love of god don't listen to the ladies on this forum. no good can come from telling her. wait until she flat out asks you if you cheated and then...

But that's the whole fun of it/here...

fyp

Look, all I'm saying is that you did a thing that violates trust. The only way to begin earning that back would be to come clean and be upfront. It's also about taking responsibilities for your actions, but more to the point... do you know how bad it looks AND feels to find out from another source? It just compounds the lying.
So, what you did was the only thing you could do and I guarantee you what's going through her mind is, "Well... he didn't try to hide it, maybe it was a mistake." Though you seem kinda douchey so I hope not.

Didn't read the whole story about the guy cheating on the gf, but let's say you and I are in a relationship. We have sex on a fairly constant basis (not hourly), and I mention that I'd been thinking about wanting sex from other women.

What do you do?

Leave me? Talk it out? What is my reward for being honest without doing anything?

Talking about it...


So rewarding.