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Originally Posted by fairplayJAY
so i cheated on my girlfriend last night and there are 60 % + chances she will find out , dont ask me how . i dont wanna break up with her , whats my play ? also we've been together for over a year .
Tell her. Take responsibility. It looks better if you man up rather than her finding out from other people.
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but is there any way i can blame it on her without being an ******* ?
Um, no. You're a dick.
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meh... im not the crying type so she wont buy it... perhaps blaming it on alcohol might do it . whats ****ed up is the fact that the gf and the other girl kinda hate each other in a rivalry way .
Oh yeah, no way things will ever be okay. And the chick slept with you just to spite your gf. Yeah, no way...
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wtf... its not like people REALLY expect the other one to be faithfull for eternity . This things happen . What matters most is the fact i still wanna be with her.. imo .
Ehh... I think if, you know, if you say you're exclusive (or it's implied) then you don't **** around. Otherwise, you tell the person you want out of the relationship if you can't keep your legs closed/it in your pants.
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And to the people who blame me for cheating ... tell me one person who hasnt done it .
I haven't.
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I dont mean that its impossible for one to not cheat , but you must agree this things happen frequently in todays society and while i agree i've made a big mistake , i dont think its a major reason to braking up .
Sigh , if it werent for the mutual hate...
She'd have issues anyways, don't blame it on the girls. You're an idiot and cheated on a girl whom you say you still want to be with. Chances are you don't feel that strong about her anyway. And just because something happens a lot doesn't mean it's okay to do it.
You, sir, are a grade a *******. There is no reason to cheat on anyone you just need to be an adult about it. If you really can't stay faithful to someone who requires it, then breka it off with them. Simple as that. Otherwise you're just a selfish moron.