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are you getting half of his stuff? why didn't you boot his ass after the 1st time? how can you honestly think you can be objective about a relationship when you've known nothing else?

01-26-2009 , 04:23 AM

#2803

Gizmo

Guest

Posts: n/a

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fubster

are you getting half of his stuff? why didn't you boot his ass after the 1st time? how can you honestly think you can be objective about a relationship when you've known nothing else?

Neither of us had much coming into the relationship. But the stuff we do have, he can have, I'm not very attached to it. He was in Iraq after I found out about most of it. Figured he deserved chances, but I never felt the same.
I can't. But at the same time, there is a lot more to the relationship than what I've said on here. The bottom line for me is that I don't want him to be the father of my children, based on many many things. I think that trumps my inability to be objective. Simply put, I know what I don't want and that is a relationship like ours has been

With that, I'm headed to bed. If you're really interested in the inner workings of my failed relationship (don't know why...) feel free to pm me. I'm pretty open.

01-26-2009 , 04:27 AM

#2804

Fubster

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 8,950

generally i prefer to get drunk and expose flaws in others to make myself feel better

01-26-2009 , 04:33 AM

#2805

jmitchell42

mother****ing photoshopper

Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 16,313

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fubster

shut the hell up, what do you know? i'm the only one asking halfway decent questions itt.

ummm. not even close to halfway decent questions. i am sorry, those don't qualify.

btw,

Quote:

shut the hell up, what do you know?

nicely done. zing indeed!!

01-26-2009 , 04:40 AM

#2806

Fubster

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 8,950

01-26-2009 , 04:43 AM

#2807

jmitchell42

mother****ing photoshopper

Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 16,313

ummmmmmm. yup.

01-26-2009 , 04:48 AM

#2808

Fubster

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 8,950

do you want to throw down because i will throw down right now. do you have aim? we should throw down over aim and post the logs here. i don't want to have to deal with 30 second delays.

01-26-2009 , 04:48 AM

#2809

Fubster

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 8,950

and by throw down i mean sloppy kissing

01-26-2009 , 04:49 AM

#2810

Fubster

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 8,950

aim in profile i will be drinking if you need me

01-26-2009 , 04:55 AM

#2811

jmitchell42

mother****ing photoshopper

Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 16,313

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fubster

do you want to throw down because i will throw down right now. do you have aim? we should throw down over aim and post the logs here. i don't want to have to deal with 30 second delays.

really? that much hostility on the internet?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fubster

and by throw down i mean sloppy kissing

mmmmm. maybe. hehe.

01-26-2009 , 05:35 AM

#2812

Fubster

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 8,950

i don't know if you have autism or something like that but when someone offers to throw down it's usually more about comedy than about hostility.

you strike me as someone who's really new at the whole internet thing. it's okay, old people have a place in society too.

01-26-2009 , 10:56 AM

#2813

SomeoneElse

old hand

Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 1,941

ITT: Fubster interacts with women for the first time.

Coming up next: Fubster grows his first pubic hair

Question for the ladies: If you had to pick between being happily married but childless for the rest of your life, or having kids but no boyfriend/husband, which would you pick? (may have already been asked, not crawling back through 28 pages to find out)

01-26-2009 , 11:13 AM

#2814

getterdone36

dreaming of sheeps

Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 18,470

Quote:

Originally Posted by johnny 187

So... i'm a quiet but fairly confident guy. I am extremely intelligent and also very sensitive. I was raised by my mom and my sister from about 7-15.

I do okay with girls. I've had a 5 year relationship (i'm 26), and I can basically get laid if i really want to... i had a girl tell me she'd give me a bj if i went out dancing with her the other night, and i actually turned her down.

But I struggle with relationships at this point. I am too hesitant about being physically intimate with women and I tend to be too "sweet". I'm not though. I'm a dominant individual but also very easygoing. I dont like to force things on girls. I dont hit on girls at bars because to a certain degree it makes me feel like an *******.

But I met a girl tonight. She is ****ing 100% what I want. how do I not mess this up? we danced for a while, I put my hand on her back/hips a few times and we were definitely getting down at some points... I feel like I should have been more aggressive. There was mild grinding at times but i'm just too hesitant to be aggressively physical without some major green lights.

If i'm dancing with you, and you invited me to the bar somewhat randomly (i gave you a card with my number on it a week ago) is it ok for me to get extremely close? I found I was constantly trying to find a balance between getting close to her (cause I knew she at least sorta wanted it) and not trying to make her uncomfortable. Does doing that make it seem like i'm not interested/less of an attractive male? Her sister got a little molested by a dude at the club... he actually had his leg wrapped around hers at one point. He didnt know her, didnt know if she liked him, but she still let him do that. I just dont get it. It seems like being overbearing is effective.

So should I go against my sensitivity and be more aggressive? I still wouldnt be an *******/grope/be overbearing. But I feel like nice guys finish last. And girls are so used to aggressive guys that they perceive hesitance as a negative sign.

Would you rather I:
Went for a kiss at an awkward moment on the 1st date
or
Waited till the second date and expressed some hesitancy about going for a kiss?

yeah if there were more obvious signs i'd go for it before then. The last girl I dated we slept together on the 4th date. but I also walked her home from the bar after the first date and she invited me up so it was pretty clear what she wanted.

Edit: so me worrying about making her "uncomfortable" is something of a cop-out... in some ways i feel that NOT getting more physically aggressive made her feel more uncomfortable than if i had

Quote:

Originally Posted by johnny 187

yeah.

i've known this girl for 6 years, we hadnt done anything until about 2 weeks ago. i guess she just likes sucking dick? not trying to be an ass but i was annoyed that frozen turd posts get more responses than a legitimate question. I do appreciate your response, although i dont think you really got it.

LOL welcome to 4L, If this girl is somebody that you are really interested in then let her know, nothing worse then a guy not knowing what he wants or being to much of a pansy to let others know what he wants. Ask her out on real date, not some drunk bar meet up, let her know your interested. Not sure a first kiss is something that should be planned out, when it's right you just do it. Sounds like you already know if you want this girl your gonna have to be a little more aggressive.

OK now back to cum shots, rimjobs, rape fantasies and pissing and crapping on each other

Last edited by getterdone36; 01-26-2009 at 11:21 AM.

01-26-2009 , 11:14 AM

#2815

msbtterswrth

adept

Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 934

Quote:

Originally Posted by cwar

preferred method of birth control?
pill/patch
condoms
pill/patch + 2nd method?

Patch ftw. it's great.

Quote:

Originally Posted by SomeoneElse

Question for the ladies: If you had to pick between being happily married but childless for the rest of your life, or having kids but no boyfriend/husband, which would you pick? (may have already been asked, not crawling back through 28 pages to find out)

thats a seriously tough question, and while i love kids and def want to some one or two later on, if there's no papa around, i don't think it's really fair to the kid. I was raised without a dad for half my childhood, and it wasn't that great. and besides i'm perfectly happy atm with my boy and my tiny kitten, on whom i shower lots and lots of motherly affection.

01-26-2009 , 11:20 AM

#2816

getterdone36

dreaming of sheeps

Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 18,470

Quote:

Originally Posted by j2sooted

would u rather **** an ostrich or a ******?

****** need vagina too

Quote:

Originally Posted by case sensitive

How do you make important and less important decisions in your
life?

heads I want dick in my vagina, tails I will take it my ass, those are really the only 2 important questions for a girl anyways right?

Quote:

Originally Posted by theskillzdatklls

if your vagina had a super power what would it be

prints money and it already does that DUCY?

01-26-2009 , 11:27 AM

#2817

ilikepeople

centurion

Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 168

fubster irritating me ITT

do u fantasize about things u would never do? if so, what?

would u be more inclined to experiment sexually with a partner u trust, or a stranger u won't see again?

if u could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?

what do u think happens when we die ( heaven, reincarnation, worm food, etc. )

do u think a person should be judged by the lowest point of their life?

if your partner asked, would u stick something weird up ur butt? ( fruit, bottle, etc. )

01-26-2009 , 11:28 AM

#2818

emmemere

moderatrix

Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 8,255

Quote:

Originally Posted by SomeoneElse

Happily married

01-26-2009 , 11:43 AM

#2819

Gizmo

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Posts: n/a

Quote:

Originally Posted by SomeoneElse

I'd be happily married.

Quote:

do u fantasize about things u would never do? if so, what?

No, not really.

Quote:

would u be more inclined to experiment sexually with a partner u trust, or a stranger u won't see again?

Trust.

Quote:

if u could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?

Sometimes I wish I had more walls up.

Quote:

what do u think happens when we die ( heaven, reincarnation, worm food, etc. )

worm food. I really hope there's reincarnation though.

Quote:

do u think a person should be judged by the lowest point of their life?

No. Nor should they be judged by their highest.

Quote:

if your partner asked, would u stick something weird up ur butt? ( fruit, bottle, etc. )

probably not.

01-26-2009 , 12:35 PM

#2820

emmemere

moderatrix

Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 8,255

Quote:

Originally Posted by ilikepeople

fubster irritating me ITT

do u fantasize about things u would never do? if so, what?

yes

would u be more inclined to experiment sexually with a partner u trust, or a stranger u won't see again?

trusted partner

if u could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?

physically, i want to be skinny and stay that way, as for personally I would want to be able shut up once in awhile

what do u think happens when we die ( heaven, reincarnation, worm food, etc. )

heaven

do u think a person should be judged by the lowest point of their life?

no

if your partner asked, would u stick something weird up ur butt? ( fruit, bottle, etc. )

probably not, those don't sound very sanitary

01-26-2009 , 12:43 PM

#2821

Tartufo

banned

Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 17,329

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tartufo

What do you put on your fries? Mustard, ketchup, mayo, piccalilly, gressingham ducks?

Same question, but now for your nipples.

Why is this question being ignored?

01-26-2009 , 12:58 PM

#2822

11beatsperminute

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 6,108

In which kind of pants/skirt/... does your ass look best iyo?
Same for your boobs and shirts/sweaters/...

How are your cooking skills?

01-26-2009 , 01:08 PM

#2823

emmemere

moderatrix

Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 8,255

Quote:

Originally Posted by 11beatsperminute

In which kind of pants/skirt/... does your ass look best iyo?
Same for your boobs and shirts/sweaters/...

I'd say I look best in a skirt (mind you i don't have much of a bum anyways), boobs probably look best in a button up shirt (though they never totally button up but I guess that helps.

Quote:

Originally Posted by 11beatsperminute

How are your cooking skills?

I prefer to bake, but i can cook. My best cooking ever was definitely for the BBV4L cookoff

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tartufo
What do you put on your fries? Mustard, ketchup, mayo, piccalilly, gressingham ducks?

Same question, but now for your nipples.

ketchup. whipped cream.