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i have a Q: for teh ladies:
me and my gf of 2 years have not had sex in a long time. her reasoning behind this is bc it hurts too much (yes i am above avg). what do i do? it hasnt always been this way.. we took a break then when we got back together it started hurting her we tried it twice and havent since. and i dont want to seem like a total perv but i need her to fix this prob so what do i tell her? (for all intensive purposes lets assume she is not lying to cover up some other reason that she may/may not have behind her not giving it up).

- lube doesnt help, apparently
- and when i say a long time, i mean a looong time. plz help.
- hidden barg itp

Get her really, really aroused before hand. The vagina can expand, so it could just be a matter of making her turned on enough. Also, still try lube.

03-10-2009 , 05:45 PM

#6027

Mayo

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 50,967

looooooooooooooooooool

Last edited by Mayo; 03-10-2009 at 05:45 PM. Reason: jacktay for mod!

03-10-2009 , 05:45 PM

#6028

slicktorine

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 4,649

Quote:

Originally Posted by jacktay

how old is she? like 11?

hot.

03-10-2009 , 05:48 PM

#6029

emmemere

moderatrix

Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 8,255

Quote:

Originally Posted by luckfactor

i have a Q: for teh ladies:
me and my gf of 2 years have not had sex in a long time. her reasoning behind this is bc it hurts too much (yes i am above avg). what do i do? it hasnt always been this way.. we took a break then when we got back together it started hurting her we tried it twice and havent since. and i dont want to seem like a total perv but i need her to fix this prob so what do i tell her? (for all intensive purposes lets assume she is not lying to cover up some other reason that she may/may not have behind her not giving it up).

- lube doesnt help, apparently
- and when i say a long time, i mean a looong time. plz help.
- hidden barg itp

was going to answer...then read this

03-10-2009 , 05:53 PM

#6030

jacktay

dancing in the dark

Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,847

Quote:

Originally Posted by emmemere

was going to answer...then read this

yep should have been for all intents and purposes

but a level nonetheless

03-10-2009 , 05:54 PM

#6031

nham

34oz

Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 10,649

is yarbles a legitimate authority on the subject of sex?

03-10-2009 , 05:54 PM

#6032

Gizmo

Guest

Posts: n/a

Of course he is.

03-10-2009 , 05:56 PM

#6033

Kristy

The Canamerican Opinionatrix

Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 7,999

Thanks for the welcomes!

Is it ok if I help answer now?

"but i need her to fix this prob so what do i tell her? "

You should be fixing the problem together.

My friend is in pr0n and his gf couldn't take 'it' at first. They worked up to it with increasingly larger toys and lots of lube, and in the meanwhile she did other stuff to keep him happy..

It is easy for a nice guy to get none in this situation, but it is important that you are BOTH sensitive to each others needs. When you talk to her just make sure she knows that you want her and support her, but sex is obviously an important part of a relationship, she should understand that this cannot continue forever.

03-10-2009 , 05:56 PM

#6034

allinontheturn

'Merican Dullard

Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 22,649

Quote:

Originally Posted by luckfactor

i have a Q: for teh ladies:
me and my gf of 2 years have not had sex in a long time. her reasoning behind this is bc it hurts too much (yes i am above avg). what do i do? it hasnt always been this way.. we took a break then when we got back together it started hurting her we tried it twice and havent since. and i dont want to seem like a total perv but i need her to fix this prob so what do i tell her? (for all intensive purposes lets assume she is not lying to cover up some other reason that she may/may not have behind her not giving it up).

- lube doesnt help, apparently
- and when i say a long time, i mean a looong time. plz help.
- hidden barg itp

It could be one of two things:

1) It really is painful for her, in which case do you really want to make this a long term thing? Imagine how less frequently you'll get laid several years down the road.

or much more likely because of the spots I bolded

2) She is in a bad spot emotionally about the relationship and doesn't want to have sex with you.

In case of (1) obv what Giz said lots and lots of foreplay and lube.

In case of (2) you should have a serious and thoughtful discussion with your girlfriend about the spot you find yourselves in, in this relationship.

If you really think about it you should know which of these scenarios you're dealing with.

/Eric is a lady of 4life

03-10-2009 , 05:59 PM

#6035

Gizmo

Guest

Posts: n/a

Quote:

2) She is in a bad spot emotionally about the relationship and doesn't want to have sex with you.

This is probably the truth of the matter, though.

03-10-2009 , 06:06 PM

#6036

slicktorine

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 4,649

Hi Gizmomo

03-10-2009 , 06:09 PM

#6037

Gizmo

Guest

Posts: n/a

Quote:

Originally Posted by slicktorine

Hi Gizmomo

Hey slick.

03-10-2009 , 06:12 PM

#6038

getterdone36

dreaming of sheeps

Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 18,470

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kristy

good answer

ship the pics of the enormus ****

giz I saw a good mom joke there but we missed it

03-10-2009 , 06:17 PM

#6039

slicktorine

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 4,649

My penis isn't large enough to hurt anyone.

03-10-2009 , 06:26 PM

#6040

cajunaimee

banned

Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,626

Quote:

Originally Posted by getterdone36

lol, NO U

4l does not have enough appreciation for rajun aim imo <3

thanks for the shout GD! <3 ya

03-10-2009 , 06:26 PM

#6041

diebitter

Grotesquely Handsome

Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 65,711

ladies

want some?

03-10-2009 , 06:27 PM

#6042

case sensitive

banned

Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 2,790

yeah bro my **** hurts women too but they still like it to hurt so good, so she is either bangin somebody else or gettin ready to, u better ditch her and post pics

03-10-2009 , 07:07 PM

#6043

swingbomb

grinder

Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 418

i wish my dick was thicker !

03-10-2009 , 07:38 PM

#6044

Low Key

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 33,327

Dead Slick,

your new avatar is so full of win

Never change it

Signed,

Everything with a penis everywhere

03-10-2009 , 07:54 PM

#6045

swingbomb

grinder

Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 418

could be bigger (the pic)

03-10-2009 , 07:54 PM

#6046

pelicanpoker

World's Best Dad

Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 21,377

i have a nice penis

03-10-2009 , 07:57 PM

#6047

ALLTheCookies

half a brain

Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 23,373

Quote:

Originally Posted by slicktorine

My penis isn't large enough to hurt anyone.

Large enough to hurt my feelings

03-10-2009 , 07:59 PM

#6048

pelicanpoker

World's Best Dad

Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 21,377

girls bring out a condom then when they see my penis they forget to put it on, hence all the pregnancies

03-10-2009 , 08:02 PM

#6049

case sensitive

banned

Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 2,790

Quote:

Originally Posted by swingbomb

i wish my dick was thicker !

playdoh

03-10-2009 , 08:05 PM

#6050

slicktorine

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 4,649

Quote:

Originally Posted by Low Key

Dear Slick,

your new avatar is so full of win

Never change it

Signed,

Everything with a penis everywhere

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