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Originally Posted by Sdid
how come girls always want to be extremely good friends but never gfs?
this is hard to answer since half of all men would ask why do girls always want to be good friends but never gfs, and the other half would ask why do women always get so attached. i think you've had a string of bad luck maybe. it sucks but you really dont want to be with a girl who isn't into you. then you are just wasting your time as well as hers. the girl who is worth it will come along even if you need to wait a while.
on the other hand, maybe you just aren't trying hard enough? when a man wants something he gets it. are you doing everything possible to try and get this girl? (just talking in general, i dont know your specific situation) if not, maybe you should be. or maybe its just that shes not worth all the effort. in that case, why would you want to be with her anyways? if you really do want to be with a girl but you aren't willing to put in the effort to win her over, why should she let you pursue her? so you can half ass a relationship too as well as your pursuing (or lack of)?