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Originally Posted by Mr_Donktastic
why are women so into guys that are taken?
example - i recently got engaged. since then a bunch of girls have made it clear that they want to bang, all of them know that i just got engaged and some are even casual friends w/ my fiancee. prior to being engaged they were only flirty at most.
so is it that they just see diamonds and it makes them all wet and horny or is it that they are really jealous of my gf and want to trainwreck me...or both?
One thing you should be careful with is the "made it clear that they want to bang" thing.
Fact: many things a woman considers being friendly and flirty and close friends with the significant other of a good friend are interpreted by men as signs of wanting to have sex. For many women, once you are clearly off the table, flirting with you is a fun and safe way to acknowledge that they like you as a person.
When you are single and a woman does this, it often means she wants to sleep with you. When you are committed and she does this, it usually means, "great, now the sex thing is off the table, I can be outrageous and flirty and he won't take it the wrong way."
The problem here is for many men the sex thing is never really off the table in the sense of "not crossing their mind/taking it the wrong way" (even if it absolutely is out of the question because he is committed and 100% loyal) .
So my first response to you is, unless these women have come out and said, "so, let me know if you ever want to **** around on your fiancee", you are probably misinterpreting their signals. In fact, even if they actually HAVE said this, there are lots of women that would say this to you and mean nothing more by it than "this is my way of congratulating my friend for landing a great guy".