some day you'll be my toothless crackwhore cooter bear

Bond- Where do you stand on the hitting hookers debate?

appreciate the thread Bond. Will continue to read IMO.

Seems like you r pretty serious about what you r saying.Well i have a bit off topic question.You feel that calling women "sluts" and such things is rly bad and i agree but it seems that a big part of society ( like 90% ? ) call em sluts and w/e and if you tell em that this is just shallow and stupid they ll just say ur supaa gay or some other ironic commment about it
So how do u you act in such situations ?

I like slutty girls cause I like slutty girls IMO and I would love it if a slutty girl liked to be called slut in the sack IMO.

i was asking bond btw not you ^_^

I was not posting to anyone in particular I just like to read myself post.

+1

How come you're not married Bond? You say you like to get to know the girls and enjoy their company, what are your intentions when starting the relationship? Just quick flings or ... just see what happens?

Do you want to get married?

This.

Also what is "AA"? Is it alcoholics anonymous or did I miss something?

When this happens I explain that I consider almost zero women sluts and if I do, then she really, really earned it. When people ask me about this I give the same little rant; basically that the Western society double standard for sex is utterly ******ed and makes all of our lives harder.

I'm aware that there are greater health risks associated with women being promiscuous than men and that they are the ones who can get pregnant. However, that men are lauded for sleeping around and women are branded an extremely negative term is such hypocritical bull****.

We're all human, and we all have pretty serious sex drives so let's man up and keep it real. I think a lot of the double standard stems from male insecurity, and that lots of guys are pretty possessive about their women. I think the whole thing puts so much stress on women when making sexual decisions and the end result is that EVERYONE GETS LAID LESS because women wind up holding out, fearing for their image and reputation, unsure whether the guy will treat them respectfully.

I now go the full blown opposite route. I happily talk to girls I date about past sexual experiences and any other guys they're dating. I'll give them whatever advise I can on the situation. I don't judge them for anything they say to me unless it's something truly appalling.

Learn to communicate to women that you won't judge them for their sexual desire and not only do you have more fun and honest relationships, but more women will jump in bed with you because they know you'll never make them feel guilty about it.

I personally don't participate and never have, but I can understand the motivation of those who do. I guess for me it feels like a little bit of a cop out, and I'm worried that if I started I would wind up never stopping. I also don't like thinking about what has to happen to a woman over the course of her life in order for her to consider prostitution as a viable career option.

Guys who go to them are totally cool by me, and many of my friends do so. At least when you pay a woman for sex the interaction is entirely honest and nobody is being manipulated. I would encourage a guy to simply buy sex over lying to a normal girl to get her into bed.

some women are sluts. not as many as the average guy would think.

Approach anxiety. Quite simply, the nervous feeling you get before you go talk to a girl.

sustained

What does folding AA have anything to do with picking up girls???

NM too late.

Hi, how's your night going?

I did a 3 1/2 year relationship with an amazing girl and I guess I just didn't enjoy the feeling of being tied down. I was still very attracted to and curious about other women, and I just wasn't ready for that big of a commitment.

My intentions when I start dating a woman are to date her openly, honestly, and not exclusively for as long as she's happy to maintain said relationship or something goes wrong. I've only broke up with one girl in my life, the girl in Africa, because it was heading towards train wreck. All the others have either been a result of my leaving the country or they've decided to stop seeing me. Of the girls I've dated properly (not just rando one night hook ups), I'm on good terms with all but two.

I'm still "dating", in some capacity, many of those girls. The thing is, I travel so much that most are out of the country, so I chat to them online now and then, shoot emails back and forth, w/e, but don't see them regularly.

Being around poker so long has made me seriously question monogamy's long term likelihood of success. I've seen so many guys cheat on their GF's and wives like it's no big deal at all. I think the best thing for me is to have a GF or wife like Kat, who is my one true girl but also is realistic about it all and doesn't mind things on the side (and I'd allow her the same treatment as well.)

I def want to be married one day. One positive aspect to dating so many women is you get a really, really clear sense of what you're after and find attractive in a woman, so when I marry a girl I feel very confident she'll be perfect for me.

Bond I really wish I could hate you but you come off as one of those people that's just ****ing cool.

I'd snap call the seminar if it were possible.

So how much money have u spent trying to learn to have sex with girls?

Also serious question-- As a guy that finds himself interested in multiple types of girls (I'm guessing you have gone through this as well) how did you figure out which type you were most attracted to?

Would you say that you were a Ninja dater as in you surprise bewilder and then proceed to assasinate the vag slipping into the shaddows after couple days of fun?

Or, are you the Samurai type dater that meets the Vag on equal ground and doing sexor battle with said Vag?, and if you fail do you do a sort of Seppeku A.K.A Rubbing one out in the shower whilst crying?

Just wondering sounds like you have fun either way.

hm you seem like a nice guy
mb d be cool to meet you if/when i come to Vegas when i turn 21
show me clubs & bars

How do you tell a girl about your sebaceous cysts?

I bought an Ebook called Magic Bullets for like $60. Money extremely well spent. I spent $20 on a session with a guy who had been involved in the scene with five years to talk to him about relationship management, namely, when and how do I tell girls this is something I'm involved with, because I don't like hiding **** from them.