why is everyone against the ditching with the bill idea? i'm too lazy to do something like that myself but...

bitch has been stringing him along and flat out lying. what else can he do? it's either make a big scene/fight new dood/possibly go to jail, or ditch her with a fat bill which overall is harmless although slightly mean/childish, but it will provide him with a bit of satisfaction to look back and chuckle after ripping the 4 footer.

this isn't BBV it's 4L and there is plenty of strategy in here

Try rohypnol

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I'm the only one who likes the restaurant idea? My suggestion is to order the lobster and some top shelf wine, then don't even tell her you're leaving. Just make like you're going to the bathroom. Make sure you drive her there too so she has no way to get home after.

Also, **** her sister.

If you're anything like a man, you just tell her you know, that you're extremely pissed off at her and allthough you really like her, you're not gonna put up with such bs.

See how she reacts, and act accordingly.

The restaurant idea is pathetic, She probably won't even know why you left her hanging there, so she will call and i can see a real awkward situation, in which you look like the loser not her.

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OP you're a fish dude, get out of the water now and swim another day

lolllerrs @ your "moving on" ultimatum. she already moved on when you broke up sucka.

rofl

The restaurant idea is stupid. If your goal is to get back together with her then that goes to zero after a stunt like that. If you goal is to tell her to go f***herself then you fail at that. All you do is show that you've been hurt and that you still care. You basically admit she has won.

You guys are not together so free to see other people. If you want to do something start dating someone else. Preferably someone hotter than her.

1. grow balls
2. ???
3. profit

Your first plan is sososo awful it's actually funny.

how come no one has asked for pics yet, this thread is really worthless without pics.

nvm jules did, my advice then OP tits or get the **** out

I bet she cheated on you when you were together.

She dumped you for a reason.

If she started dating a guy right after she dumped you, you have no chance. Stop being pathetic and leave her alone.

Or else stalk her until you get a restraining order.

i broke up with her.

ive asked her two or three times before if she is seeing anyone else, to which she replied no. its not that she was just avoiding telling me, she just straight up lied.

and whats really gay is that when she came home from school i took her to the nicest restraunt in town, spent a lot of money on her and hung out a lot with her, all the time she was dating this other dude.

1. She might not be exclusive with the other guy. Most dating is not exclusive.

2. When you spent time with her did anything physical happen?

Take her to the restaurant in richmond.
Order most expensive thing.
Go to bathroom.
Leave....
Profit????

So let me get this straight...

-you broke up with a girl
-you remained friends with her for some reason
-you spent ******ed amounts of money on her for no reason
-you didn't have sex with her after the break up
-you still want her
-you're upset about her lying to you even though you've been lying to her
-you ask her things you shouldn't even care about (i.e. if she's seeing anyone)

and

-you don't see her for extended periods of time because she goes off to school some place far away from you


You need to cut off all contact with this girl immediately.

Your best line would be to accept some personal responsibility. You made a mistake and dumped her. Now you are trying to make her look the bad guy when she has done nothing wrong and just gotten on with life. Dont give me that crap "oh she didnt tell me she was seeing someone else!" Its a personal thing and you two being friends doesnt mean she has to tell you everything. She doesnt tell you when she just took a dump.

Would you tell her if you screwed her best friend? Of course not because you would worry it would affect getting back with her. Would you tell her even if you hooked up with a stranger? Well actually you probably would just to rub it in her face and make her jealous.

She has no reason to keep another guy a secret from you. Why would she? Telling you would be the perfect "**** you!" Guess what, it sounds like she is a real friend and was trying to be nice and spare your feelings even after you dumped her.

You should just forget it. You blew it. Learn from it and move on. (Thats actually the best way to get her back anyway. Look what it did to you. You are not very good at this game tbh.)

OP is pathetic

Your line should be to whack off with a noose around your neck

yes i sexed her numerous times

im meeting her to grab lunch with her tomorrow at some mexican place. what now?

try to be nice, ask her if she is seeing someone, just say...

"ah ok, don't worry, someone just told me that they saw you with this xxx guy"

gauge her reaction, and go from there

I wouldn't do anything. You broke up and now you have a f*** buddy. Why does it matter if she is dating someone else? You are not a couple so you obviously are not exclusive.

Come on seriously. Did you really think she would stay single long? The vast majority of women I have known could not be single for more than a week. They are too dependent and needy to ever stay single for even the shortest length of time.

This girl is never getting back with you. I know this from experience. I bet during your time as friends post break up, she was like, "Do you still have feelings for me, blah blah blah. Tell me what you love so much about me..blah blah blah." All the while she was seeing someone else on the side.

She was A. Getting her revenge on you for dumping her, or B. She's so needy, she has to have two guys in her life telling her how wonderful and awesome she is, which goes back to my previous point about all women being super needy.

Move on OP. Things will never be the same again for you with her. Sorry, but take my advice from someone who made the same mistakes as you.

siihp