This summer I started messing around with this black chick and wasn't sure where things were going to go with us but we are still in touch and have been continuing hooking up lately which seems to make both of us happy. Here is the catch though: I am white and she spent the night at my place once during the summer and my dad told me he walked in my room in the morning when we were both asleep and told me later in the afternoon " do not bring those type of people to the house again." By those type of people I am pretty sure he meant black people but I never really asked for confirmation.
To make a long story short she lives with her family too and just moved to a new place and doesn't have a lot of space there for us to chill and have fun like she did at her old place. In the past, this wouldn't stop us from hooking up in my car, outside, friends place, etc. or wherever else but it being wintertime that cuts out a lot of those decisions based on the cold factor.
So basically what I am asking you 4lifers is what my best coarse of action is to continue seeing and hooking up with her so that everybody is happy and comfortable. I really do not want to have this discussion with my father because he is nearly impossible to persuade into something that he doesn't agree with from the beginning. She wants to spend the night with me ASAP and I suggested a hotel but she was against it so I need some ideas.
If talking to my father is the only viable option, what is the best way to bring up the conversation and ask him in a respectable way where he will most likely be understandable?
He prolly assumed she was a hooker and he meant that he does not want hookers in the house (understandable).
Best bet is to ask him exactly what he meant by saying 'those people'. If it is becasue she is black, buy him a KKK outfit for his next b'day or make it a belated xmas gift.
I am white and she spent the night at my place once during the summer and my dad told me he walked in my room in the morning when we were both asleep and told me later in the afternoon " do not bring those type of people to the house again." By those type of people I am pretty sure he meant black people but I never really asked for confirmation.
By "those types of people" I'm sure he meant drug dealers and prostitutes.
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Originally Posted by 4lifepro
To make a long story short she lives with her family too and just moved to a new place and doesn't have a lot of space there for us to chill and have fun like she did at her old place.
this^^^^^.
By an overwhelming margin.
Oh, btw, next time ur dad mentions "those kind of people", invite me over.
He obv. hasn't met a real live Portuguese azzhole.
- First tell your dad that if he gave you a proper allowance you'd be able to afford top shelf escorts.
- Then when he gives you more money, use it to hire a humongously donged black gigolo to bang your mom silly.
- Make sure your dad walks in on them, and to passionately kiss the gigolo on his way out.
- Then curl up on the kitchen floor next to the waste bin and tell your dad it's all his fault for turning down your sexual advances when you were a toddler.
1. Become a man.
2. Move out of your father's basement.
3. Move out of the racist south.
4. Pictures of your gf naked posted on 2+2.
5. ????
6. Profit.
Hire a white hooker and make sure that your dad knows she spent the night and see if he makes a similiar comment. worst case scenario you find out your dad's a racist but even then you're still getting laid so what of it