Fwiw, there's a difference between a girl only having guys as friends and a girl who hates other women. In general, it's just easier to meet guys and befriend them because they'll be more receptive to a relationship with you. Granted, they're more receptive to a relationship because they want to **** you, but they're more easily approached anyway.
If this girl has to bad mouth every other girl ever brought up, she probably just has a lot of male friends to build her self esteem and will be nothing but head aches.
I dated a girl like this. You're going to hate it, you'll feel threatened 24/7 feel insecure 24/7 cause you know there are multiple guys trying to get with your girl. It sucks don't do it
I dated a girl like this. You're going to hate it, you'll feel threatened 24/7 feel insecure 24/7 cause you know there are multiple guys trying to get with your girl. She sucks don't do it
I dated a girl like this. You're going to hate it, you'll feel threatened 24/7 feel insecure 24/7 cause you know there are multiple guys trying to get with your girl. It sucks don't do it
Have you ever mentioned the fact about her only having guy friends? There may be a reason that isn't "omg i hate girls"
LOL at her having relations with most of them at some point
However, if she has had girl friends in the past and no longer has them (and is still in the same physical location so that spending time with said exfriends would be possible) then you might have a problem.
And if she is a serial guyfriender you may want to make sure she's actually interested before trying something, she may just want to be friends...
Girls like this are deeply insecure. Without exception. Any other justification she gives you is BS, I promise you. And they dont have girlfriends because they are intimidated by, and feel inferior to, all other girls.
Her just liking a lot of dick is not the reason. Sluts can still be secure enough in themselves, and those ones have girlfriends too amongst the guys.
If you are even close to being a normal, non-loser guy, just move on. I wouldnt even bother hanging out with her if I were you.
BTW, straight guys that only have female friends are similarly insecure.
However, when I get the text each nite, "Ya me and joe and jim and steve are all gettin durdy again, theyre so much fun!!!" I just instantly think UGH. Im always invited but I just dont feel like having to hang out watching 3 dudes inside see this girl. Yet shes so proud of the fact that she can accomodate 4
I always tend to hang out guys. I do have a few girl friends but at work and school it was always a group of just guys I hung out with. I was never involved with any of them though.
I think we need clarification here..there are a variety of different women who could all be lumped in to this category.
Basically you have to figure out which of these your girl is:
1. Too averse to girlishness to handle the inevitable hair/makeup/he said-she said drama.
2. Attention whore-ish (which can be slutty or unslutty)
3. So hot that guys seek her out
1. I think these girls can be awesome partners. You will probably have to eat all your "Make me a sammich wearing nothing but a pink apron and blow me while I eat it" dreams, though. This is the girl who understands your 12 hour halo sessions and will drink her face off with you. It is a trade off.
2. The unslutty attention whores are pains in the ass, they will demand more of you than is entirely reasonable... once exclusive with her you will be entirely responsible for nurturing her broken sense of self esteem. It requires a lot of cuddling, affirmation, and you must completely give up porn/strippers for the duration of your relationship. I would avoid this one.
b) The slutty attention whores are not keepers..but for awhile they are the gf's that never turn you down. You can not call her for 5 days and show up at her place at 3am hammered, get a blow job and pass out in her bed taking it up entirely and she will sleep on the couch and then cook you breakfast the next day...
..but eventually she will cheat on you OR her spinelessness will remove your ability to obtain an errection.
3. If she's that hot she's going to be nothing but trouble..you will always have to be on your A-game and fending off other guys. But definitely a trophy.
I personally won't hang out with a girl that I have no interest in sleeping with. It's not because I'm a dick, it's because pretty much any girl that is cool to hang out with is also cool to sleep with.
Girls (not all) love to hang out with guys that they have no intentions of sleeping with. Why? I personally I think they like using the line "I only wanted to be friends". But maybe it has something to do with them being better than us.