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Old 06-22-2008, 04:38 PM   #26
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Re: Brag: Ex Husband Attempted Suicide By Cop this AM

wow you insensitive cu*t

People who cared about him could have lost someone they loved and that's a brag to you?

you are the reason why men think all women are malicious psychotic bitc*es
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Old 06-22-2008, 04:42 PM   #27
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Beat: They didn't fall for it.


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my previous high level of respect for you just dropped to zero. This is the sickest post I have ever read on 2+2. What the **** is wrong with you?
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Old 06-22-2008, 04:42 PM   #28
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chalk one up for rule thirty four



i'm never gonna married and this is a huge brag imo
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Old 06-22-2008, 04:43 PM   #29
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Re: Brag: Ex Husband Attempted Suicide By Cop this AM

It would be tl/dr ldo but I'll try.

We met about 10 years ago, dated for 3, married for 5, seperated/divorced for the past 2. Throughout the entire relationship there was never any signs/symptoms of mental history but found out during the divorce that he had once been diagnosed bipolar yet failed to tell me or needed to take medication during the first 8 years.

So we break up/seperate at my request, he didn't want to but the marriage just wasn't what I wanted and wasn't going where I wanted it to go and I just wasn't happy. We remained friends though, even moving out together at the same time, sharing a moving truck, living about 1 mile from each other, etc.

Then he gets depressed, stops working. He was one of the best web site designers, making major bucks, but then just dropped all his clients, returning no phone calls, no emails, just major depression. I tried to help him and ended up paying his rent, car payment, all utilities, food, cigarettes, etc for about 7-8 months. Got tired of that and told him to snap out of it, get help etc. During this 7-8 months he took off at one point, but called me and came back in about 1 week and asked me to take him to the mental hospital. I did.

He got out and went to counseling, it really seemed to work for him, he started working again, even got a girlfriend and then BOOM

1. GF breaks up with him
2. Computer crashes
3. Check from client bounces

All in the same day. So he goes mental again and takes off. We (his best friend, me and his father) report him as missing, takes about 2 weeks, they find him at a rest area. While he was missing I had to personally move his house for him as he was being evicted for not paying rent. So I rented Uhaul.....

You know getting way too long, I'll summarize:

1. Never told me of past mental illness/history
2. Refused to get medical help or medication
3. I paid 7-8 months worth of his living expenses out of guilt (I freely admit this)
4. Had to report him as a missing person that was suicidal/homicidal three times.
5. Tried to help him by taking him to mental institution, they only kept him for 4 days
6. Had to pay out $1500 to move all his possessions out of his house back in Jan, took me until March to talk to him again.
7. Takes off again but this time leaves all his prized possessions at home (camera, guitar and carton of cigarettes so we assume that he took off to commit suicide.

and the worse of all:

8. His ex wife died of AIDS not cancer as he always told me and I didn't find out until this past year during him being missing and his father suddenly wanting to unload all his dark secrets.

So yeah, I'm a little bitter. I feel totally sorry for him and I truly hopes he gets the help he needs, but he just seems like a lost cause and I guess I have too many pent up feelings of betrayal due to nature of lies.

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Old 06-22-2008, 04:45 PM   #30
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wow you insensitive cu*t

People who cared about him could have lost someone they loved and that's a brag to you?

you are the reason why men think all women are malicious psychotic bitc*es

Calm down gf, you have no idea what you're talking about. He literally has/had 3 people that care for him (or used to until he kept using and abusing) and then he ****ed it all up.

Even his father won't help him out anymore. That left me, his ex wife, and his best friend who called me a month ago to call me a saint for putting up with his **** for 10 years.

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Old 06-22-2008, 04:47 PM   #31
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my previous high level of respect for you just dropped to zero. This is the sickest post I have ever read on 2+2. What the **** is wrong with you?
See post #13 and #29, I'm just venting and decided to do it in BBV instead of OOT or the Lounge, my bad.

Serious, it's been a rough/bad AM and this is how I choose to vent today.

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Old 06-22-2008, 04:48 PM   #32
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I feel totally sorry for him and I truly hopes he gets the help he needs, but he just seems like a lost cause and I guess I have too many pent up feelings of betrayal due to nature of lies.

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speaking of lies--these statements are irreconcilable. You suck, im(brand new and reluctant)o
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Old 06-22-2008, 04:49 PM   #33
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Re: Brag: Ex Husband Attempted Suicide By Cop this AM

Those should account for about 1/20th of the hatred I'm sensing in your OP.

You talk as if being diagnosed as bipolar is a big deal. I know plenty of normal people like that.
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Old 06-22-2008, 04:50 PM   #34
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Re: Brag: Ex Husband Attempted Suicide By Cop this AM

First post was me venting, I've been worried sick for the past 3 weeks wondering when I get the call that they found his body and then I ge the phone call this AM while browsing 2p2 so I posted.

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Old 06-22-2008, 04:50 PM   #35
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get an AIDs test

stop being a HUGE *****
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Old 06-22-2008, 04:51 PM   #36
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Re: Brag: Ex Husband Attempted Suicide By Cop this AM

Number 8 is unforgivable, iyam people that pull THAT b.s. should be drawn and quartered.
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Old 06-22-2008, 04:51 PM   #37
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Those should account for about 1/20th of the hatred I'm sensing in your OP.
Reason #8 put my life in jeopardy and being a single parent, risked my daughters well being as well.

I think that's reasonably well enough to say it's worth at least 100% of my anger.

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Old 06-22-2008, 04:53 PM   #38
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wow you insensitive cu*t

People who cared about him could have lost someone they loved and that's a brag to you?

you are the reason why men think all women are malicious psychotic bitc*es
r34 is officially my favorite poaster atm
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Old 06-22-2008, 04:53 PM   #39
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get an AIDs test
Done, every 6 months for the past 2 years.

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stop being a HUGE *****
I'll try my best.

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Old 06-22-2008, 04:53 PM   #40
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Re: Brag: Ex Husband Attempted Suicide By Cop this AM

can you guys stop being so sensitive? this is BBV4L
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Old 06-22-2008, 04:54 PM   #41
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Re: Brag: Ex Husband Attempted Suicide By Cop this AM

Maybe I didn't understand it correctly. Are you saying HE has AIDS? I just assumed it was his wife and that they were careful about it or whatever. If he had it and didn't tell you then I completely echo your original sentiments.
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Old 06-22-2008, 04:56 PM   #42
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Re: Brag: Ex Husband Attempted Suicide By Cop this AM

No, his past wife died of AIDS and he told me she died of cancer. She caught AIDS during a surgical procedure in 1982 but they didn't diagnose it until 1993, she died in 1995. That's about 12 years of him having unprotected sex with his infected wife and not telling his new wife, me, at any point during relationship/marriage.

He refuses to get tested btw, so I have no idea if he has it or not.

I know, at this point, that I don't, but with false negative tests.....

See where I'm going here?

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Old 06-22-2008, 05:00 PM   #43
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Re: Brag: Ex Husband Attempted Suicide By Cop this AM

And this hate for what wasn't really all that spiteful of a post is beyond me, especially in bbv4l. Nut up you pansies, not like he actually got the cops to kill him. Bunch of nits, I'll come back to this forum when it finds its lost nuts. I think its just because its a woman posting about a man. If it was some bbv4l hero coming in here spouting off about his crazy pyscho ex tried to have the cops shoot her, everyone would be "omg what a nutjob" "screw that *****, too bad they didn't" "try hitting her" "should have done it yourself and saved taxpayer money" etc etc. Seriously no one died here, its not Brandi, you don't know this guy, and for the **** he pulled I'd definitely vent about it. That whole my died of AIDs, not cancer! You let me find out some **** like that and you better hope the cops get to you first because I will show you how much life can really hurt, really. For a long time, in my basement, with the electrodes on your nipples and a small alligator attached to what is left of your manhood.

Sorry you had to be put through another round of bs by this asshat Miss T.
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Old 06-22-2008, 05:01 PM   #44
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Re: Brag: Ex Husband Attempted Suicide By Cop this AM

I gotcha now I think.

I wish the cop hadn't used pellets.
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Old 06-22-2008, 05:03 PM   #45
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TY for that King, I really expected "try hitting him" as answers as well, but I forgot I'm just a woman trying to get along with BBV4L.

It's OK though, I've been through hate before and usually come out OK. I think the original anger in the OP is what got people all worked up and they should all calm down now since more details have been released.

IMO, LDO.

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(Still getting over the c*nt comment though)

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Old 06-22-2008, 05:04 PM   #46
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Well even though you're still not giving a concrete answer, I assume that means he's HIV positive. That is about the most ****ed up thing I've ever heard if he had unprotected sex with you after knowing about it. On that note, how is it possible for you to not be HIV positive as well?
Concrete Answer: No clue if he has it or not, he refuses to be tested since I found out. However, I'm clean afaik and test every 6 months.

He told me he had been tested before he met me, several times, and was always negative, but I don't know if I believe that. That he was tested, period.

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Old 06-22-2008, 05:05 PM   #47
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And this hate for what wasn't really all that spiteful of a post is beyond me, especially in bbv4l. Nut up you pansies, not like he actually got the cops to kill him. Bunch of nits, I'll come back to this forum when it finds its lost nuts. I think its just because its a woman posting about a man. If it was some bbv4l hero coming in here spouting off about his crazy pyscho ex tried to have the cops shoot her, everyone would be "omg what a nutjob" "screw that *****, too bad they didn't" "try hitting her" "should have done it yourself and saved taxpayer money" etc etc. Seriously no one died here, its not Brandi, you don't know this guy, and for the **** he pulled I'd definitely vent about it. That whole my died of AIDs, not cancer! You let me find out some **** like that and you better hope the cops get to you first because I will show you how much life can really hurt, really. For a long time, in my basement, with the electrodes on your nipples and a small alligator attached to what is left of your manhood.

Sorry you had to be put through another round of bs by this asshat Miss T.
GJ on playing the gender card. I think you'll find that all the other women who post in BBV4L don't get any worse treatment...
Also, take note of the fact that the hate for OP has gone down after the details were released.
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Old 06-22-2008, 05:05 PM   #48
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ya we all hate women and have serious problems but I mostly just laughed at the tr. gg misst.
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Old 06-22-2008, 05:07 PM   #49
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Re: Brag: Ex Husband Attempted Suicide By Cop this AM

meh he sounds like a **** - esp wrt the aids thing...could have killed the OP.

still... harsh view of him but we didn't have to live with him.

it's like when a relative has a terminal illness and finally dies... can be a relief.

OP was NEARLY rid of him today...
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Old 06-22-2008, 05:08 PM   #50
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lol @ people freaking out over this post in BBV4L

is all the hate because of the post or the OP?

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