pics or you know where to go

**** you

But it does explain their divorce. I think this sort of thing is normal in dysfunctional relationships that are doomed to eventually fail.

wat

Looking back on it, I should have sen the signs much sooner than I did. She WAS a great woman to me. I was just out of college, was and am disabled (stroke FTW), and had/have zero confidence with women. We intially lived in TX, but she hated it, so we moved. After a few years, I blew my life savings to put a down payment on our home, etc etc etc etc tl;dr. This is a mistake i will not repeat...like, ever.

Trust me, I'm no prize. I AM, however, worthy of respect. Basically, what you've said is that if I'd just gone with a generic message of despair, I would have been granted an equally trivial, and therefore maningless placating statement of encouragement.

I could not for one second morally auction off this woman, simply because I won't sell a false bill of goods. I wouldn't be selling a wife, I'd be selling an old leather cockbag with matching STD accessories.

Honestly, because I got totally tired of being turned down, but ONLY after years upon years of having sex with a woman who would repeatedly tell me how bad I was in bed.

Nope, and I tried to tell her, before we got to the point of no return, that 30 year old guys didn't typically wait around for the affection of their wife. I figured that would be worth something to her. It wasn't. Live and learn.

It does. I can honestly say that I think that if the marital bed had stayed spicy (gay, I know), that I wouldn't have felt the hostility I felt up to the point she got exposed.

People can sugarcoat it all they want, but sex is an absolute must in a good functioning relationship. Sadly, I think many women withhold it to force their men into thinking in line with them. The days of it being a woman's responsibility to keep her man's balls empty are long gone, and therefore we see the breakdown of far too many relationships that might have made it otherwise.

Three words. Kegels for men.

Will solve any sexual problem. Permanently.

Haha your despair is entertaining. But seriously man rejoice for getting rid of that beast.

Your post made me smile. Thanks. I'll feel 100% better once I've either:

A) knocked it out with some rando, which I find improbable

OR

B) crossed the state line heading away from the hell I've been living in towards a new life.

I too am getting divorced. I just received my decree nisi from the court on Friday - in 6 weeks I am single again

Congrats on the divorce.

I think the talk about gold diggers was pretty funny. I'd say most women are. Including my wife (just a little bit).

Evolutionary biology dictates that the woman must accrue enough resources - preferably with, but can also be without the aid of a male - to ensure the successful development of the offspring. This potentially explains some women's strong desires for money and wealth in their men. The richer a potential mate is, the higher the chance of offspring survival after all.

I just think they like men buying them expensive things.

I dunno.

Edit : I worked with a younger guy (25 or so) and one night we were just talking at work in a group of guys and someone mentioned women being golddiggers (no women were working with us that night) and the kid turns around and says "ALL women are gold diggers bro. All of them, even my mom." I started laughing and asked what he meant, and he explained his mom was married to his biological father and he made a lot of money, and during the entire time she always said how she didn't care about money. Then they got divorced and she married a guy who made significantly less, and she confided in him how much easier life was with his biological father because he was so much wealthier. It actually made us all laugh.

I wouldn't go that far to say they are all gold diggers, as I've met women who really don't care that much about money, but I think most would have the attitude of "the more the better" when it comes to the money aspect.

This post is exactly why I <3 4L

It just not true. Don't make a law of a few examples.

ouch.

wait,

- you married a girl pretty young?
- with her for many years
- during that time you said she was "good to you"
- and yet she would constantly tell you how bad you were in bed, and
- thus not have much sex with you?

where's the "good to you"? where's the loving support (i.e. taking time to show you what she wants in bed, communicating, and showing you how to be a better lover so sex is better all around)?

all in all your ex wife sounds like a pretty crappy wife/gf/lover/etc.

This is definitely a brag thread after what you've been saying about her, she sounds like a horrible person.

Where are the pics btw?

Pretty much all women are gold diggers, but you can't hold it against them, it's just the way things are. Sorry feminists. OP you should crack a bottle of champagne and buy your self something baller as a congratulatory gift.

more good points. I guess I just got accustomed to it. She was crappy, and she'd admit it. She's not filing a response to the petition, and I'll walk outta here with everything I want. All I'm leaving is enough so that her 17 year old isn't left in need. God willing, he'll be able to refinance the house into her own name, and I can walk away clean.

If I had or could get pics, I would have posted them. Interestingly enough, she deleted her FB the night she asked for divorce.

I was all feeling sorry for you and then I got to this point.
SMH.
Being honest and saying money makes aspects of life easier does not a gold digger make.