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Originally Posted by SuperNooB
Sex Pat ..
It's all sad, meaningless and empty and, what's really tragic, is there are thousands of these guys. You see them all over Bangkok. In their 50s and 60s, overweight and bald, with a Thai girl barely out of her high school uniform hanging on their arm. They're loud and rude and despised by the Thais, yet they walk around with the colonial mentality that they're God's gift. After all, they must be. They have an 18 year old Thai girl on their arm, a bottle of $1 beer in their bag, and all's right with the world.
But deep down, when you get one of them alone and they think they're talking to a sympathetic ear, the floodgates will open and it all comes out. They hate their jobs, and their girlfriends treat them like dirt. They don't understand what's going on around them, they're living from paycheck to paycheck but don't have the money to go home even if they could. They thought their life in America, the UK, Australia, Germany was bad, but this is even worse.
Sadly I have to agree with you a bit here, I see it a lot in Pattaya, all they have is their retirement check each month and living in the cheapest condo's they can find. They can't keep a man/lady as all they can get are the biggest sluts that have zero intentions to stay with someone for longer then a few weeks to hook tourists as sugar daddy's.
I often get a bit angry stares of them as I pay the hookers to much, mostly 3000 baht for longtime cause I think they are worth it and I have sex multiple times with them. Old sexpats don't like that as they think I'm driving the prices up. Also when I go to the bars I sit with 4-5 hookers and we're having fun and a bottle of whiskey in front of us or individual drinks, depending on my generosity.
Now am I any better then them? Not really I guess, just have a lot more too spend as my company does very well and I don't really care much about money.
The life in my home country was pretty bad for many years due to a bankrupt company and not able to find new work, however that quickly changed with the new company I set up and it allowed me to move to Thailand, that's probably why I'm degening it now, just to compensate the poor years.
My work comes with new challenges all the time as I run an SEO business so that part never gets boring.
If I reach let's say 50+ and I would lose my company again I would probably leave Thailand, can't imagine to live like a cheap ass here, it will get boring real fast, even with plenty to spend it becomes boring sometimes, that's why I started travelling and playing poker again.
I've made the decision to quit looking for a fixed relationship, I'm definitely not handsome so all I can get is people who are out for my money so nowadays I treat them for what they are: prostitutes.
No love, no special gifts, just very well paid sex, compared to what most give, and I like to take them out to the club and get drunk, or I take them out to a nice restaurant or to visit one of the islands on my jetski, make it a nice experience for them and I enjoy it obvious as well or I wouldn't be doing it.
Do I give them false illusions that way? Not at all, I have a reputation here of not being able to keep them and I get jealous easily so a relationship simply doesn't work as they need their freedom to stay with someone 20 years older and I have difficulties with that as I know they are big sluts however nowadays I am probably an ever bigger slut so I can't blame them really
Lately I've been made aware that someone really likes me here, he never asks for money or anything like that, I almost never see him go with customers, partly because he works as bar tender, when I see him with customers they are always good or decent looking, he picks them, they don't pick him, he would be real good boyfriend potential but I have no feelings for him, which is ashame really.
My Thai friends advice me the same thing, stop looking for love, you won't find it here in Pattaya, unless you perhaps look for someone of the same age.
The long time relationships between Thai and farang that I know here look very dull and boring, the farang hangs out with his farang friends while the Thai hangs out with his Thai friends, they hardly spend time together, often they have a bar and the Thai is flirting with the customers and ****ing around at night when going out with his friends, seen it all, young/old relationships don't work in 99% of the cases.