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I have some experience with a failed marriage so I suppose I feel like I'm a total expert. Ask me anything and maybe you can learn what not to do.

Probably not, though.

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09-20-2010 , 05:27 PM

Anais

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What's it like having a failed marriage?

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09-20-2010 , 05:27 PM

Gizmo

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Pretty fail-er-ific, iyam.

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09-20-2010 , 05:27 PM

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09-20-2010 , 05:28 PM

High Time John

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What were the main reasons for your divorce?

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09-20-2010 , 05:29 PM

Gizmo

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I decided I didn't want to be married to him anymore.

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09-20-2010 , 05:29 PM

Tapow Dayok

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Failed marriage sounds a little redundant imo, but congrats on getting out alive.

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09-20-2010 , 05:30 PM

elrey

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so. did you undercook some of his meat before you left?

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09-20-2010 , 05:30 PM

pmags88

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how was the sex

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09-20-2010 , 05:30 PM

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High Time John

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Originally Posted by Snoopydance

I decided I didn't want to be married to him anymore.

That doesn't really answer the question. Why didn't you want to be married to him any longer? Something must have changed to go from "Til Death Do Us Part" to "GTFO".

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09-20-2010 , 05:32 PM

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Anais

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Fasty, pussercat, KILL KILL!

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09-20-2010 , 05:32 PM

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PlainBOSS

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who got the p0rn?

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09-20-2010 , 05:32 PM

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Glo4ming

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stare at this gif and memorize its wonderful lessons and your next marriage will last

Spoiler:

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09-20-2010 , 05:34 PM

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Gizmo

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Originally Posted by elreymichael

so. did you undercook some of his meat before you left?

His meat was always undercooked.

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Originally Posted by pmags88

how was the sex

Clearly not the greatest

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Originally Posted by High Time John

That doesn't really answer the question. Why didn't you want to be married to him any longer? Something must have changed to go from "Til Death Do Us Part" to "GTFO".

Well, to be honest I'm not sure why I married him in the first place. I was really young and not thinking clearly, though. One day I realized I really didn't have to be miserable the rest of my life and that it was okay to admit I'd made a really big mistake. I realized it was a mistake for various reasons. The biggest reason was because I didn't like who he was, his basic personal characteristics weren't a match for mine.

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09-20-2010 , 05:34 PM

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Jackitos

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Originally Posted by Glo4ming

stare at this gif and memorize its wonderful lessons and your next marriage will last

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I giggled.

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09-20-2010 , 05:35 PM

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were you bad at making sammiches os?

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Gizmo

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Originally Posted by Anais

Fasty, pussercat, KILL KILL!

lol.

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Originally Posted by PlainBOSS

who got the p0rn?

He liked "mature" porn. So I was okay with not sharing his pron in the first place.

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Originally Posted by Glo4ming

stare at this gif and memorize its wonderful lessons and your next marriage will last

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I will keep this in mind.

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09-20-2010 , 05:36 PM

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High Time John

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Originally Posted by Snoopydance

The biggest reason was because I didn't like who he was,

Good advice: Don't marry someone that you do not like. Thanks!

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09-20-2010 , 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by EvanWilliams

were you bad at making sammiches os?

I make some excellent sammiches! I may not be able to cook some mean... porkchops or w/e, but my sandwich building abilities are legendary.

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09-20-2010 , 05:37 PM

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PlainBOSS

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are you going to go out a be a total sloot now and live it up? thats what my brothers ex did.

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09-20-2010 , 05:38 PM

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Did you feel guilty trying to pick up other men well still married

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bogan4life

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Originally Posted by PlainBOSS

are you going to go out a be a total sloot now and live it up? thats what my brothers ex did.

i lol'ed

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09-20-2010 , 05:38 PM

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MadeLiefje

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how old were you when you got married and when you got divorced?

how long were you together before marrying?

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09-20-2010 , 05:39 PM

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Gizmo

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Originally Posted by High Time John

Good advice: Don't marry someone that you do not like. Thanks!

You're already married

. But yeah, I didn't really know him before we got married.
Still, if someone has characteristics that really bother you, you should get away. It seems really intuitive, but it obviously isn't since we end up with girls who get beaten and what not.
Figure out what you don't want in a partner and get rid of the people who have those characteristics.

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09-20-2010 , 05:41 PM

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High Time John

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You're already married

When people are young, it's easy to confuse lust with love. But for marriage, I looked for compatibility. Someone I liked being with and hanging out with and not having to go out do things to have a good time. I've been married once, for 14 years so far. We rarely argue.

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