Ask me anything about having a failed marriage
09-21-2010
, 03:10 PM
09-21-2010
, 03:17 PM
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Snoop, when you get married that young and it fails, it's not a big deal at all. In a few years, you'll look back on it and just shake your head and wonder what in the heck you were thinking - if you don't already.
Now, I was 46 and got married to a woman who was so completely wrong for me that it was silly. And 4 months later we got it annulled.
The older I get the less I know.
Now, I was 46 and got married to a woman who was so completely wrong for me that it was silly. And 4 months later we got it annulled.
The older I get the less I know.
Porn star?
09-21-2010
, 03:54 PM
09-21-2010
, 04:44 PM
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It's really not my intention to sound like a condensing dick when asking this next question, but I can't think of a better way to ask it, so sorry.
Have you ever consider that you aren't really any wiser from the experience and that this "I was so young and naive back then" bit is just a cop out?
Let me clarify: I've got female friends who play a game and it sounds similar to one you are playing ITT. Here's how the game works: If you are in a long term relationship with a guy, it's "love." The second it ends, "Nope. I was young and naive when I said that. It wasn't really love. It was just "lust." Man, it's awesome I have such a better perspective on things now."
Isn't is possible that you're (possibly subconsciously) discounting the feelings you used to feel now retroactively? I mean, you got married. Isn't it possible that it's easier to blame everything on being young and naive rather than admit that you felt just about as strongly as you could possibly ever feel for another person and then it feel apart?
Have you ever consider that you aren't really any wiser from the experience and that this "I was so young and naive back then" bit is just a cop out?
Let me clarify: I've got female friends who play a game and it sounds similar to one you are playing ITT. Here's how the game works: If you are in a long term relationship with a guy, it's "love." The second it ends, "Nope. I was young and naive when I said that. It wasn't really love. It was just "lust." Man, it's awesome I have such a better perspective on things now."
Isn't is possible that you're (possibly subconsciously) discounting the feelings you used to feel now retroactively? I mean, you got married. Isn't it possible that it's easier to blame everything on being young and naive rather than admit that you felt just about as strongly as you could possibly ever feel for another person and then it feel apart?
people should be learning something and growing when they have relationships though. I was 19 when I got married, I hardly knew anything. I'm 24 now, I can say I know a lot more (and still hardly know anything)... if I haven't gotten wiser in this time then... well... I suck.
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I don't get this...I went to a wedding on May 29th this year and I just heard that the marriage is in trouble. Both people are 23. Obviously the problems did not start after May 29th but what makes people go through with a wedding that they know is wrong at the time?
Saying you made a big mistake is not really an answer. Why didn't you back out? Did you not have the courage to back out or say no?
Saying you made a big mistake is not really an answer. Why didn't you back out? Did you not have the courage to back out or say no?
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[QUOTE=animal_chin;21693729]So let me get this straight.
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You turn 19 and get married.
Get divorced at 23.
Did you go to college? How was it being married and in college (if you did go to college)?
When did Ryan Beal come into the picture? I thought you were with him for about a year. So that would mean you just broke up with him recently, which did not happen afaik.
Ever cheat on your husband? Did he cheat on you that you know of?
Did you live in a state where everything is split 50/50 or was it an equitable distribution state?
What did you get in the divorce? Anything real sweet?
Number one thing that you guys fought about in the marriage?
Why get married so young? Did you guys date in high school or something? How big was your high school? I'm really bored, am I boring you with these questions? What did you guys do for money if you were that young? How long did you live together before you got married. How many boyfriends prior to this guy did you have? What makes Low Key so much better than this guy?
Get divorced at 23.
Did you go to college? How was it being married and in college (if you did go to college)?
When did Ryan Beal come into the picture? I thought you were with him for about a year. So that would mean you just broke up with him recently, which did not happen afaik.
Ever cheat on your husband? Did he cheat on you that you know of?
Did you live in a state where everything is split 50/50 or was it an equitable distribution state?
What did you get in the divorce? Anything real sweet?
Number one thing that you guys fought about in the marriage?
Why get married so young? Did you guys date in high school or something? How big was your high school? I'm really bored, am I boring you with these questions? What did you guys do for money if you were that young? How long did you live together before you got married. How many boyfriends prior to this guy did you have? What makes Low Key so much better than this guy?
RB and I weren't "together". We weren't talking for a year either.
I never cheated he did. He got pretty much everything because I wasn't going to fight over anything. We didn't know each other long before we got married.
I haven't compared LK to anyone. He's head and shoulders above anything that it isn't comparable.
Your mother.
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Snoop, when you get married that young and it fails, it's not a big deal at all. In a few years, you'll look back on it and just shake your head and wonder what in the heck you were thinking - if you don't already.
Now, I was 46 and got married to a woman who was so completely wrong for me that it was silly. And 4 months later we got it annulled.
The older I get the less I know.
Now, I was 46 and got married to a woman who was so completely wrong for me that it was silly. And 4 months later we got it annulled.
The older I get the less I know.
This
No.
He would never fist me! Of course it was a major factor!
09-21-2010
, 05:00 PM
09-21-2010
, 07:03 PM
+1
Not even close, you have no idea of what you're even talking about. And you're delusional if you think that I care what you think of me.
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quit hating!! you tilt me and so many others bad... you and a couple of other unmentionables are the reason why randoms come and then quickly leave omg.
you suck at life. you suck at poasting. your undertitle sucks.
omg is supposed to be a place where people can discuss general things and have fun. you are not helping this standard being met. you fail terribly at so many things. why?
quit hating!! you tilt me and so many others bad... you and a couple of other unmentionables are the reason why randoms come and then quickly leave omg.
you suck at life. you suck at poasting. your undertitle sucks.
omg is supposed to be a place where people can discuss general things and have fun. you are not helping this standard being met. you fail terribly at so many things. why?
Last edited by Jackitos; 09-21-2010 at 07:14 PM.
