it almost looks like you have a genuine interest in the matter

are you a patriots fan?

I'm very good at feigning interest.

It is a genuinely intersting matter.

Any man that isn't using this tool is having much less sex than he could be having.

I am first and foremost a j2sooted fan. But then The tampa bay Buccaneers and The University of Florida Gators.

Sadly, this info has yet to get me laid but I will keep you posted.

What's the kinkiest sexual stuff you did at first dates?
How many of the women were married / in a relationship?

WTF I can only find fatties... I put thin in advance search but there were barely any chicks

Advice ?

None that I know of. I have never been with a married woman to my knowledge. I don't see a reason and there are too many single girls to do that.

How important is the profile picture pretty much essential for success in comparison with your bio?

As a guy, would you be able to just wait till girls contact you or do you have to go searching yourself?

I guess this could be a regional issue but try searching average or athletic as well. I live in Fl so this isn't a problem.

Plenty of girls that are thin list themselves as average. Thin can have some negative connotations.

Your profile pic is obv important. Anybody can take measures to get a decent pic up there. Get your haircut, get a tan, wear a suit, go out with some friends and take a camera. Appearence is obviously important especially for the girls to contact you. Most that contact me will lead off with an observation about my smile, etc.

I get probably an average of 5 new inbound msgs a day but half of those are from cougars and many are from fatties. I probably get a new good inbound msg from a good prospect 2 or 3 times a week maybe more on a good week. I actaully haven't been sending outbound msgs for a while now because my pipeline is pretty full but initially you will probably want to send outbound unless you are even better looking than I.

When you are sending outbound it is all about being unique but not weird and just getting them to reply. Here is the last outbound I sent. I had sex with this girl many times in less than a week after this msg.

Hi there. I notice you have your occupation listed as Investigator. Are you perhaps an investigatory journalist? That would be really, really, really cool.

Nice picture in the black dress. Are you throwing up a gang sign and if so are you a crip or a blood?

Make it a great day,

Jeff

The girl caught the Zoolander reference and it was over.

post a link to your profile to show us what you doing that gets broads to contact you.

I have no doubt OP is quite adept at getting chicks but agree with the regional issue. A "good looking friend" tried an online dating website in MA and said it was horrible. Said every date the chick was at least 25% heavier than the pic or what she said. Either that or just much uglier than her pic. The hot ones are all gimmicks or are receiving 100 msgs per day.

Haha. Thats funny. Not going to happen. I have already posted the basics of my profile.

Are you just interested in seeing pics of me? YGOS?

Will your 3000rd post be a TR of your most recent Penicillin shot?

Well, if you are in MA your ****ed. lol. I think the girls up there are less attractive then where I live in general. At least where I live, there is about as much diversity as you would find at a popular spot on a Friday night. I have been with some very good looking girls and a lot of good looking girls but you are pulling from your area so if there are a lot of uggos then thats what you will get.

That said, I have definitely been on dates with girls that had old photos. This can be countered by facebook or getting her to send me pics which I almost always do before I meet them now.

We are talking about 2 girls a week so probably long before my 3000th post. lol.

I will also die if I take penicillin (allergies) so hopefully I can avoid that.

I've always been a manwhore and so far so good.

I know for sure the broads on POF in MA/NH are all pretty much nasty.

i will also say that OP is correct - online dating ='s much ass.

ive kind of settled down for having an ongoing fling with this one broad (solid brag, she's 21, im 28, sex is outta this ****ing world amazing and has raised my bar seriously on all future partners that i feel like having an ongoing relationship with) but i'll probably go back to hitting that **** up again soon for some more options.

some girls get nervous when i message them with **** like "lets meet up for drinks" and i learned there's a process you gotta follow - msg back and forth a bit about bull****, then exchange phone #s, txt, call, meet up, get laid, rinse, repeat.

Sorry man. I will do some searches up there for kicks tomorrow. I find it hard to believe though. I mean there are millions of girls there and there has to be some good ones right. There could be more competeion which could make it tougher to land the good ones but there has to be some hot ones, no?

confirmed

ive tried POF and its pretty much been an epic fail. im fairly good looking and have decent success meeting girls, but like 95% girls i message on POF never message back and the only ones that have messaged me have been oldies or fatties (im 31). any general tips?

That is pretty much it. It is all about building it up before you ever meet. By the time I meet these girls I have put in most of the leg work that you normally go through in a normal first date or 2. It is easy, a few texts, some IMs, a few phone calls, they are dying to meet you after a few days of that. As long as you are cool upon meeting, you are in.

Once I start talking to a girl now, I know I am going to close them. It has become a very simple and very repeatable process.

should you put that you have sebaceous cysts in your profile or just suprise the girl?

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you have sebaceous cysts? that's nasty man