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01-05-2010 , 07:33 PM
I'm pretty turned off by how easy it sounds to bone chicks that are clearly mental. Doesn't seem like much fun besides the busting of nuts. Like wow I send this chick a PM, meet up with her for drinks, make a sexual remark or two and bone her and then move on to the next sloot.
01-05-2010 , 07:43 PM
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Originally Posted by fuluck
OFFTURN INDEED
Wow, one tattoo on the lower back is that big of a turn off for you guys?

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Originally Posted by Lisa Jonez
Nice TR. I bet Rafiki is getting very jealous.
Thanks. It was fun.

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Originally Posted by ALLTheCookies
I'm pretty turned off by how easy it sounds to bone chicks that are clearly mental. Doesn't seem like much fun besides the busting of nuts. Like wow I send this chick a PM, meet up with her for drinks, make a sexual remark or two and bone her and then move on to the next sloot.
I never said this girl was mental. She was actually fairly intelligent, had a nice place that she owned, drove a nice car, and was stable. She was just a fun girl that didn't have a lot of hang ups regarding sex. I can only wish that every girl I meet is this "mental."

As far as it not being fun. I have been racking my brain trying to think over a better way to spend an evening and can't think of one yet. If anybody comes up with one let me know. Oh wait it just came to me, 2 chicks.

Can I please get a mod to add an NSFW to the title. I'm not used to starting threads. Can I do that on my own?
01-05-2010 , 07:45 PM
playing MW2 and getting a 25 kill streak ldo
01-05-2010 , 07:58 PM
Here is a NSFW pic of the girls tits.

http://i903.photobucket.com/albums/a...1262731096.jpg
01-05-2010 , 08:04 PM
What kind of non-sexual stuff did you do with this girl for the month you saw her?
01-05-2010 , 08:13 PM
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Originally Posted by ALLTheCookies
What kind of non-sexual stuff did you do with this girl for the month you saw her?
We went to a few movies. Went to the Hard Rock Casino once. Mostly just hung out at her house and played around. I met a few of her friends and we all went out for drinks. That was kind of the beginning of the end. We had the "I don't want to see anybody else" talk.

She was looking to get married and have babies and all of that stuff. I explained to her that I didn't want that and certainly not anytime soon and I like to be free to date other women if I so choose. She hated it but actually agreed. After a week I was out with another girl and I didn't respond to her messages. She got mad about that and said she couldn't handle it. Case closed.
01-05-2010 , 08:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Lisa Jonez
Rafiki and Makin Maneys,

Get a room already.

So funny that this turned from a thread about picking up chicks to a love connection between to dudes. Only in bbv4l.
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Originally Posted by Lisa Jonez
It's like, wow, I didn't think this thread could get much gayer and then you two flames come along. lol.
lol pwnt

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Originally Posted by ALLTheCookies
Lisa Jonez is a rl chick?
yah i thought it was a guy this whole time
01-05-2010 , 08:17 PM
What is your occupation?
01-05-2010 , 08:24 PM
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Originally Posted by MadeLiefje
lol pwnt



yah i thought it was a guy this whole time
Lisa told me that she was a dude earlier itt. I was just messin with him.

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Originally Posted by ALLTheCookies
What is your occupation?
Surprisingly, I am in sales. I work in commercial insurance now but have had numerous sales jobs over the years minus a 4yr stint playing poker for a living and living in Vegas.
01-05-2010 , 08:44 PM
I've determined that you do so well on these sites because you are an attractive, muscular, fairly successful and well off dude. Not because you have some sort of magical power or linguistic skills that make you special. I'd also imagine that if you were to go out to a normal place like a bar that you would have the same sort of success and that the reason you go the dating site route is because it is the path of least resistance to getting your needs fulfilled.

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01-05-2010 , 09:03 PM
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Originally Posted by ALLTheCookies
I've determined that you do so well on these site because you are an attractive, muscular, fairly successful and well off dude. Not because you have some sort magical power or linguistic skills that make you special. I'd also imagine that if you were to out to a normal place like a bar that you would have the same sort of success and that the reason you go the dating site route is because it is the path of least resistance to getting your needs fulfilled.
I appreciate the compliments but I disagree. I am sure an element of my success is due to my appearance (I actually do not exercise at all however), my BR has taken quite a hit in recent times so it isn't finances. I drive a 2007 Chevy Equinox.

I have never claimed that I have some magical powers or that my writing is so good as to sweep them off of their feet. I do think you underestimate the fact that because I have always been good with women, I am able to understand what to say to move things along, to sell them if you will. While I will never be confused for Hemingway, it works and it has worked for a long time.

You can give me any girls response and I can give you a good thing to say back to her that will achieve the desired response from her. I hope that makes sense.


Update I am heading out with the girl that I wrote the extensive msg to in post 211 that got so ridiculed. I am going to her house for wii bowling. No kidding. I will update with a TR later. Hopefully I will be gone all night.

Have a great night.
01-05-2010 , 09:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Lisa Jonez
It's like, wow, I didn't think this thread could get much gayer and then you two flames come along. lol.
you rule lisa.
01-05-2010 , 09:04 PM
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Originally Posted by makin maneys
Wow, one tattoo on the lower back is that big of a turn off for you guys?
no. she's a hot slut.


i was merely making fun of 11bpm's rare grammatical error.
01-05-2010 , 09:09 PM
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Originally Posted by fuluck
no. she's a hot slut.


i was merely making fun of 11bpm's rare grammatical error.
**** you, I'm a foreigner!
01-05-2010 , 09:29 PM
THAT IS WHY I SAID RARE YOU KRAUT
01-05-2010 , 09:37 PM
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Originally Posted by makin maneys
I had cialis aided sex with her for many hours.
is that like viagra or something?

honest question here not trying to be an ass
01-05-2010 , 09:46 PM
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Originally Posted by makin maneys
I appreciate the compliments but I disagree. I am sure an element of my success is due to my appearance (I actually do not exercise at all however)
How the fook do you get a body like you have with out exercising? I just started to exercise because I have a body of a 12 year old girl, but if I can sit on my ass and get a body like you that would be awesome.
01-05-2010 , 09:50 PM
grunching a lot of this thread but...

You ever got tarped? Like you saw her facebook/pics whatever and she ended up looking much different?

The problem I have with POF is the pics are way too small (for no good reason really) and you can't block hos from showing up from future searches I don't think.

Last edited by Kevroc; 01-06-2010 at 03:50 AM.
01-05-2010 , 10:50 PM
updates on the hot 30 year old lawyer?
01-05-2010 , 11:27 PM
OMG. Anyone who is hating on OP is an idiot.

he is not claiming he has magical powers. WHY THE HELL DOES IT HAVE TO BE MAGICAL POWERS TO SLEEP WITH SOMEONE. DO YOU GUYS EVEN READ THE STUFF HE IS SAYING? ITS THE MOST BASIC FRIENDLY CONVOS EVER BECAUSE SINCE ITS ONLINE "DATING" ALOT OF THE PRESUMPTIONS HAVE BEEN SWEPT AWAY.

I'm not thirty five, i don't have ripped abs, and although I do get laid semi-regularly I am not very succesful with women (like most of you btw).

But all I know is within about 12 hours of making my profile and messaging ten girls I have like 3 replies from pretty hot tail asking who I am and what I am up to this weekend.

So everyone just STFU... hes not trying to be pretentious, maybe it feels good and makes him proud to share this secret but comon... hes taking questions and teaching losers to get laid... ONLINE OF ALL PLACES. you can literally approach, comfort and seduce the girl without ever having to see her until you meet up, and both get ****faced at a bar and **** five minutes later. I don't see how this is getting so much hatred, it seriously is the best thread in 4l for quite some time.

4l is some wackness for sure.
01-05-2010 , 11:36 PM
tl;dr
01-05-2010 , 11:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Aggrocaller
Wow. So much overkill on trying to be funny.

Maneys - keep up the good thread. I live in a part of the world where Dating Sites are not permitted but I find it really interesting and if I return to civilisation, I will definitely look into the online dating thing.
This, rafiki sounds like a stand up comic and come off as trying to hard and girls will see thru. Op comes off as genuine in the thread and semi-clever/witty enough and to the point in his game.

maneys>the haters.
01-05-2010 , 11:52 PM
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Originally Posted by makin maneys



Ass it pretty epic, but I'm not jealous per say.

NSFW link: http://img11.imageshack.us/img11/1234/pics07t.jpg

is pretty much only "celeb" hottie I've shipped. One on right, not Ariel (but met Ariel). Although tbh the above ass crushes all asses. Pretty hot even with the stamp.

Last edited by rafiki; 01-06-2010 at 12:01 AM.
01-06-2010 , 12:47 AM
great success, i've shipped 2 phone numbers from POF since i opened this thread
01-06-2010 , 01:54 AM
Not to sound too arrogant but I'd think I'm very attractive and have done well with girls throughout HS/college. I think I'm running pretty terribly at POF but I could just be an online dating fish.

This is a convo I currently have going I omitted the opener and her response as they were both pretty vanilla.


M: I went out to LA and saw some friends. I really liked Venice beach
and the city was fun.

Being a big sports fan do you play anything?

H: i played sports growing up... now just a fan

M: Well since you have a great smile I'll let the whole Lakers thing slide. (blatant steal from you)

Now here is my problem... where do I direct the conversation so its not boring and I get NSA sex? Also she is a cosmetologist and I try to steer clear of work convos but she looks hot w/o much substance.

      
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