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01-03-2010 , 09:53 PM
Been thinking for a while about what I could give back to the community. I have derived dozens of seconds of pleasure from 4L so I want to help if I can. It is a sign from above that right as I get to my 1000th post there are 2 POF threads running on the front page right now. That is the only site I have ever used and it has been very good to me.

Okay a little background. I'm 35, never been married, and a chronic philanderer. Getting women has always come easily to me and because of this I was reluctant to use on-line dating because I found it kind of pathetic and a refuge for those that couldn't do well out in the real world. Boy was I wrong. It is soo easy as to be almost comical. You get to prescreen girls and do almost all of your work before you even meet and many times sex is a forgone conclusion and happens very shortly after meeting.

It can be used for whatever you want whether you want a long term relationship, a stable of **** buddies, one night stands, whatever.

The number of girls I can get from this site is really only limited by time and resources ($). I have no doubt I could have a different date every night of the week if I chose to. As it is I probably average about 2 girls a week or so. I have been on this site for about 9 months.

If you have any questions about how to set up your profile, what to say in your outbound msgs, how to get their interest, how to progress through the various stages, etc, fire away.

Oh, in before tl;dr or pics or gtfo.

I'm not going to be posting pics of girls that I have been with. I have been with a lot and i would say the average is a "solid 7". Seriously though, a few 8's or better, lots of 7s and 6s and a few 5s or so. Hey, not all of the girls look like their pics but I was already there so whatever.

flame away
01-03-2010 , 09:56 PM
why would you even start a thread like this without pictures?
01-03-2010 , 09:56 PM
So how many women turned out to be a man?
01-03-2010 , 09:57 PM
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Originally Posted by elreymichael
why would you even start a thread like this without pictures?
valid question
01-03-2010 , 09:57 PM
**** pics?
01-03-2010 , 09:59 PM
**** thread without pics or baller tr of dates
01-03-2010 , 10:03 PM
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Originally Posted by elreymichael
why would you even start a thread like this without pictures?
I have already manipulated these poor women into sleeping with a degen like myslef. Many of them multiple times before I showed them the door with little and oftentimes no explanation. I will not post pics of the girls. If you are interested in learning more about how to easily get girls from POF or other sites I can help. That was my only intent. I have received numerous PMS requesting help based on other posts I have made, so help is certainly wanted by some.
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Originally Posted by poster
So how many women turned out to be a man?
None so far but if that is what you are into I think they have sites for people like you as well.
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Originally Posted by allinontheturn
**** pics?
I loled
01-03-2010 , 10:03 PM
Which girls are the easeist?
01-03-2010 , 10:05 PM
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Originally Posted by adizzle13
**** thread without pics or baller tr of dates
That is a fair point. I will not post pics but I will post a few TRs of various dates I have been on recently. I will get on that shortly.
01-03-2010 , 10:06 PM
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Originally Posted by 11beatsperminute
Which girls are the easeist?
I hear college girls are eazy.
01-03-2010 , 10:08 PM
Craziest bitch you've met?
01-03-2010 , 10:08 PM
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Originally Posted by allinontheturn
I hear college girls are eazy.
Eazy said so.
01-03-2010 , 10:10 PM
Pms?
Ask questions and gve advice here fool
01-03-2010 , 10:10 PM
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Originally Posted by 11beatsperminute
Which girls are the easeist?
All of them are easy but the ones that see my profile and contact me are the easiest. I have yet to close an attractive girl that contacted me and normally sex is discussed before we meet and it is a "watch a movie at your house" date.

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Originally Posted by allinontheturn
I hear college girls are eazy.
Yes, although I am 35 so I tend to focus on 25 plus but I have been contacted by college girls and felt obligated to show them a good time as well.
01-03-2010 , 10:12 PM
so how do u master online dating?
01-03-2010 , 10:14 PM
What's your profile like?
How long does it usually take before you meet them?
How many of them have you met more than once?
01-03-2010 , 10:21 PM
2 at once ever?
01-03-2010 , 10:24 PM
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Originally Posted by Bagonirix
Craziest bitch you've met?
How much time do you have? lol

I will post some Trs shortly but I will take this one now. Lots of choices here.

A good looking 23yo contacted me and we started chatting. The convo quickly turned to sex and I knew it was a forgone conclusion. I go to her place that she shares with a male roommate that was home but in his room when I got there. She answers the door and is walking me up the stairs to her room. I stop her on the steps, pull her panties off and **** her right on the stairs 15 feet from her roommates door. It was pretty hot actually.

Afterwards, we go out to a local bar and she drives. We have a few drinks but she gets wasted. We get a cab back to her house and she is cursing at the cab driver and using racial slurs which makes me very uncomfortable. I tell her to stop and she slaps me. At this point I want to dip but I don't. I go back to her house and **** this girl for like 2 hours roughly, I mean like really roughly. Nothing illegal but dirtier than I have ever been. Then when she falls asleep I get dressed and dip. She must have sent me 50 msgs in the next 3 days telling me how much fun she had etc, how we were soulmates, etc. I never responded to 1 msg. She eventually told me that she loved me and begged me to call her. I did not.

I have plenty of others but I will put some of those in a TR soon.
01-03-2010 , 10:28 PM
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Originally Posted by qwertyu121
so how do u master online dating?
Trial and error. I have refined it to a scienc at this point. Most of my material is routines that I have used that worked and so I kept using it.

You know, you tell a girl a story it works and you make a mental note to use that one again. Im like the San Fransico 49ers in the 80s, the first 10 plays of the game are always scripted.
01-03-2010 , 10:35 PM
I found POF was fairly annoying by the end. Just about all my friends having the best web-dating sex right now are doing it thanks to eharmony actually.

That said, a friend who had the POF thing down to science actually created a spreadsheet with his standard cool questions. He'd then paste the replies into each spreadsheet column so that for example, when he'd be on question 6 with girl X, she'd think he was so attentive since he'd remember all these little details she'd mentioned in question 1. He also maintained that the trick was to never ask them out. He'd have like 50 conversations on the go, and eventually the girls would always crack and ask him out. By keeping them always wanting more and always thinking he was so attentive, he was porking a few a week. It got to be pretty hilarious, but eventually he was exhausted and broke from it.
01-03-2010 , 10:37 PM
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Originally Posted by 11beatsperminute
What's your profile like?It is short and funny. I talk about mytravels briefly. I have lived in a lot of places. I talk about how nothing is more important than family and friends and it isn't what you do but who you're with that determines how much fun you have doing something. I talk about how nice it is to be back in my hometown after being gone for a while. I have a few funny lines in there but nothing crazy.
How long does it usually take before you meet them?Sometimes the same day. Most times within a week. Rarely longer than that
How many of them have you met more than once?
I would say I have had sex with about 66% of the girls on the first date. A few of the ones that I didn't, I never called again, but most of the others I had sex with on the 2nd date. I have dated a few of these girls for a period of time. The most I have ever seen one girl was probably 15 times or so. I have been with many of these girls 5-10 times.
01-03-2010 , 10:39 PM
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Originally Posted by adizzle13
2 at once ever?
Yes, many times but never from this site unfortunately. I generally don't stick around long enough for that to become a reality but if the perfect storm ever happens I will post a TR.
01-03-2010 , 10:41 PM
Do you tell the girls that you only want sex?
01-03-2010 , 10:48 PM
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Originally Posted by rafiki
I found POF was fairly annoying by the end. Just about all my friends having the best web-dating sex right now are doing it thanks to eharmony actually.

That said, a friend who had the POF thing down to science actually created a spreadsheet with his standard cool questions. He'd then paste the replies into each spreadsheet column so that for example, when he'd be on question 6 with girl X, she'd think he was so attentive since he'd remember all these little details she'd mentioned in question 1. He also maintained that the trick was to never ask them out. He'd have like 50 conversations on the go, and eventually the girls would always crack and ask him out. By keeping them always wanting more and always thinking he was so attentive, he was porking a few a week. It got to be pretty hilarious, but eventually he was exhausted and broke from it.
I may actually have to check out the eharmony thing, thanks for the tip. This pond isn't fished out yet but why not expand your horizons.

It can be exhausting to be a manwhore but I make do. I have actually dated a few girls longer than I wanted to and kept a few **** buddies because I got a little tired of the grind but inevitably the girl will start wanting more than I want to give and I will be back on to find her replacement.

I've never used spreadsheets but I do have set material. I never ask a girl for her number and I usually have them give it to me within the first 6 or so msgs. Once I get the number it goes to texting or talking and it is game over.

I disagree with your friend about the asking them out thing however. I normally will be going out with them within a week of first contact. I don't like keeping their buying temperature up for much longer, that is too much work. Strike while the iron is hot so to speak.
01-03-2010 , 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted by 11beatsperminute
Do you tell the girls that you only want sex?
No, because I don't. I have had LTRs in the past and I'm open to the possibility now. I just have a pretty high standard for what I want for that and am not willing to settle for less.

That being said, I don't tell a girl before I have sex with her that she isn't a candidate for a relationship if I have already figured that out.

      
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