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Originally Posted by gettym
hey michael i think alot of ppl in this thread wanna know if ur a legit pedo or if u just peed in a park one night when u were drunk, otherwise gl getting ur $20k refunded.
Is there such a thing as a "legit pedo"? I think not. There are some cases that are much worse than others however, and some that, without fully investigating the case, would make you want to puke.
My case involved a 32 year old (married) woman (Lisa) that I was actually sleeping with. She was best friends with my (then) wife, (Valerie). When Valerie found out about the affair, she threatened to tell the woman's husband unless Lisa fully cooperated with Valerie.
Valerie soon left me (which I probably deserved), but when the child custody battle heated up, Valerie had Lisa come forward with allegations of Felony Sexual Battery against her, and a misdemeanor count of Child Annoyance (alledging that I gave her 16 year old daughter a pat on the ass).
Several months later, I was arrested, bailed out, and waded through the court system for two years. By that time, I was in a new relationship, and my (then) girlfriend (Maria) was pregnant with my child. The prosecutor saw her in the back of the courtroom, and made me an offer.... Plead GUILTY to the charges, and I would get a very short jail term, a couple of years probation, and then at the end of probation, I could have the record expunged.
Maria urged me to take the deal, so that I would be home when our child was born. I took the deal, which was a "deal" at the time, but not much of a deal in the long run. Half way through the probation period, the prosecutor ended up pulling an "Epic" move on me, and sent me to prison for three years.
During that three years, I studied and educated myself. Instead of hanging out on the weight pile in the yard working out my body, I stayed in my cell and worked out my brain, my addictive personality traits, and my personal demonds. I learned who I was, and what I was all about.
During that time, Maria had left me and moved on with her life. Again, I couldn't blame the woman for taking that road, but I did want to have a relationship with our child, a boy named Giovanni. When I went to court and applied for visitation, I was first given Supervised Visits with my son. As time progressed, the supervision was reduced more and more. Eventually, the Court ordered that an investigation be completed as to my ability to raise my son on my own. When my son was only 9 years old, after a long investigation into my prior case, extensive psych testing, and many interviews with social workers, I was awarded sole legal and physical custody of my son. He has lived with me ever since.
My son turned 18 just two months ago. Through most of his academic years with me, he was an honor student due to our "team effort" approach to his studies. That team consisted of my son, his teachers, and me. I was even elected President of the School Site Counsel for two years in a row as my son passed through Middle School (7th & 8th grades).
There is so much more to this story than what people have read in these forums, but people are going to believe exactly what they want to believe, no matter what the actual truth may be. I would have no problem volunteering for a polygraph test (lie detector) at any time regarding these issues. I am also open and available to continue to answer questions from the general public about these matters, as again, I have nothing to hide now, as I've had nothing to hide over the years.
I look forward to your reply...
Michael J. DiVita
Post Office Box 1492
Banning, California 92220
(951) 207-1100 (24 Hour Message Line)