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Originally Posted by Andynan
Very cool to read all your answers atak, respect.
Was/is having a son the best thing that happened to you iyo?
I have a test on monday will I pass? Its chemistry, thanks
Advice on what you think are the most usual problems for stable couples in their mid-late 20's, as in, they have to face in a relationship.
Do you think travelling as much as you did is worth it? Dont you feel like the world is inside you already sometimes?
When are you meeting TL?
What advice would you give me to improve my villager game at ww?
epic!
Having K: Maybe the best thing; I thin that book is still being written. Raising him is one thing that makes me feel like I'm a good person. It didn't come automatically, either — I believe I have essentially no natural parenting instinct. It's all learned. But over the years I have come to believe that I really am pretty good at it. (certainly could be better,a and I am always trying)
Of course you'll pass, silly. Aspire to more than passing.
I have never had a stable relationship, so I doubt I'm the best one to ask. One thing you may not realize, I will say: people don't change, at least not in the ways you expect. you cannot change for her, nor her for you, so if youa ren't happy with how things are then you need to accept that you won't be happy, or move on. (It's different when you are fully committed, which basically requires marriage — imo in that case you can each reasonably ask the other to change, though never in fundamental ways.)
Another thing: sex gets better as you learn about each other, but if it isn't pretty damned good to start with, it never will be. There's something a bout how people cick sexually that can't be learned.
Re traveling: yes, but no. More on this later.
Re TL: when I somehow get the money to go see her. It is important for the stability of my home situation that i not seem to be profligate in my spending, so this is tricky, but I'll figure out a way.
Your villager game is really pretty good. Is there a particular problem you're concerned about? I'll think more on it, but I know that you're definitely someone I want on my team when I'm village.