So here's what's going on when I play poker. Bigger is in my brain, or rather he is my brain, trying to figure out everything - bet size, opponent tendencies, board texture, etc. etc. But on my shoulder is this nit. He's old and he's been around since I started playing. He tells me things like "you need to see a flop before betting anything" and "you don't have the nuts so don't raise" and other such nonsense. Then some new guy named Annie sat down on my other shoulder and he yells stuff like "bet dammit" or "you're ahead so raise dumbass" Annie brought his buddies with him - Filthy, buadib1, soah, fnord, etc.
So in that hand I posted here's what's going on. I flop a set so I bet. Nit doesn't really have a problem with that and Annie is happy. Then the villain raises. Bigger is trying to sort this out. He thinks the possibilities are an overpair, flush draw, made straight, or bigger set. He sort of rules out overpair with this villain. Definitely not a big pair because this guy would never limp with that. Nit is yelling "fold because you can't possibly be ahead here". Annie and filthy are yelling "lol dumbass, you have a set - get it in now". Bigger wants to listen to Annie and Filthy but Nit is old and big and mean and doesn't like the new kids one bit. Bigger is confused so he calls, pissing everyone off. Villain 2 shoves then Villain one tries to shove. Nit says "see, you should have listened to me". Annie and filthy are saying "well, this is a gross spot but probably just get it all in when you can". Bigger is convinced at this point that this particular villain isn't playing a draw so the best possible outcome is villain has straight and the board pairs but worse is bigger is waaaaay behind. Bigger folds.
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