His loss, and about his stuff. Nothing to do with either of you.
Also re: "daddy issues": I always figured it was men compensating for women who don't trust or don't like them, sometimes inappropriately, sometimes because we have dead on nailed them. Notice how we NEVER hear "mommy issues"...even though there are plenty of crappy moms out there?
I am NOT defending your dad, but some of us are crappy daughters. I called my dad today to wish him Happy Father's Day and his wife picked up his cell phone because they were just cleaning the kitchen after breakfast. So then my dad came on and we talked for 20 minutes and I forgot it was Father's Day. He had to remind me.