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Originally Posted by fanmail
What did you mean here?
This is hard to succinctly put into words, and any attempt I make will lose some meaningful and necessary context, but I will give it a shot
I think up until about 5 years ago I was under the impression that there were more or less a shared set of beliefs and values that most Americans had and were attempting to advance. There were individuals who fell outside of that sure, and there were plenty of cases where our leaders did not actually work towards those ends, but they all at least pretended to share them as well. The main differences between Democrats and Republicans seemed to come primarily in 3 areas - how those values applied to individual circumstances and cases, which of those values were most important generally and specifically, and which tactical solutions were more likely to achieve the ends that we all generally agreed upon. While this description is missing A TON of needed caveats and context, it was nonetheless the framework on which I believed, writ large, our country generally adhered to. Implicit in this was the belief that those people who I disagreed with on issues or more broadly were, by and large, arguing things in more or less good faith.
Over the past 5 years specifically (although this overstated the suddenness of the shift) I have come to believe/realize that this is definitely not true now and I am far from convinced that it was true before, although I think reality has shifted along with my perceptions to some extent. I think much of the tactical discussion is a front and a distraction, and I think many (perhaps most) of the arguments deployed by those I “disagree” with are borne of either deep ignorance or genuine deceit and deception and attempts to mask the fact that their true values, aims, and goals are nothing remotely like mine, and their attempts to cloak those aims in language that is generally palatable to people like me is more or less akin to a long con gaslighting and obfuscation of reality.
More broadly, I think more strongly than ever that division, strife, and turning both governance and our society into a zero sum game where you either “win” or you “lose” and you have to “pick a team” based not on your opinions about issues or tactics but based on some deep seated feelings and emotions about which “team” you want to identify with and then adjust your views and beliefs to fit your “team” rather than Vice versa is by far the dominant mode of making political decisions by individuals at this point
So when Birdman asks you “are they psychos?” And “wouldn’t you want democrats to do the same if the roles were reversed” and you answer yes and yes, to me that’s a perfectly consistent and not at all hypocritical answer despite the fact that on the surface it seems contradictory, but only if you consider things to be roughly balanced and of equal moral weight on each side. When you believe the other side is the enemy instead of someone you disagree with that kind of surface hypocrisy is inevitable, because it’s no longer a tactical contest but rather a question of morality and decency.