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Originally Posted by well named
You're not making any sense. The part you quoted, which is not actually from the book but a paraphrase, is not the author's argument.
I cited your source, man.
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The main argument of the book is that women are not and cannot be satisfied by societal conceptions of "womanity", to use your term. She argues that women have to forge a new identity and social norms and that women need the same kind of fulfillment in work and intellectual activity that men do.
I interpreted the wiki summary as her saying that woman's need for "womanity" was not satisfied by archetypal female roles.
Mix in a little Herbret Marcuse, and you got free love baby.
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You characterized second wave feminism as belief that women were different and should pursue their woman-ness, and third wave as the rejection of gender norms. Friedman is actively rejecting both the notion that women are fundamentally different as well as rejecting those norms of "womanity." Simone de Beauvoir's work (especially in the 70s) is exactly the same.
Not necessary gender norms, rejected by third wave. But hard-cast images, I believe. It was a demand for more individualized fluidity wrt womanhood, rather than a quest for The womanhood.
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Your characterizations are closer to being backwards than correct. Many third wave feminists embraced the idea of re-appropriating traditional gender norms (for example of beauty or sensuality) but taking ownership of them, while many second-wave feminists utterly rejected them. Hence the bra-burning myth about 60s and 70s feminists, while pop starlets in the 90s might refer to themselves as feminists while producing music videos that your average 70s feminist found horrifying :P
I think you are misunderstanding what I said, which is my fault.
If the second wave is about breaking the housewife mold, then the third wave would have no problem saying "I want to be a housewife, and that doesn't make me a 'bad woman'".
It actually sounds pleasant to be a full-time housedad (no kids atm), but freedom is nice, too.
Last edited by iamnotawerewolf; 06-02-2016 at 01:18 PM.