POG Code of Conduct Discussion Thread - Page 37 - Puzzles and Other Games Forum

Kami has done nothing wrong in this thread, and the personal attacks toward her are so ridiculously par for the course.

The only kind of “female” this forum can seem to tolerate is a docile one. Can’t ****ing imagine why.

10-23-2020 , 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Crossnerd

Most people seem to like UD and VR. A lot of people like you too. None of you seem too docile and females don't really exist anyways*
*which as you did put it in quotes you understand.

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10-23-2020 , 11:11 AM

#903

Crossnerd

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Yeah, it’s just my opinion that this forum isn’t friendly to “nasty women”.

10-23-2020 , 11:12 AM

#904

HUstylez

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Honestly Kawamii’s posting in this thread seems good and makes me think she’s changed a lot from her extremely toxic past

10-23-2020 , 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Crossnerd

Yeah, it’s just my opinion that this forum isn’t friendly to “nasty women”.

I don't think nasty men are tolerated all that much either though.

10-23-2020 , 11:22 AM

#906

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Originally Posted by Luckbox Inc

I don't think nasty men are tolerated all that much either though.

“Nasty women” are unapologetically feminist.

Nasty men are just men.

10-23-2020 , 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by HUstylez

Honestly Kawamii’s posting in this thread seems good and makes me think she’s changed a lot from her extremely toxic past

A very cautious +1 to this

10-23-2020 , 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Crossnerd

“Nasty women” are unapologetically feminist.

Nasty men are just men.

This might be a correlation/causation thing fwiw...like how crime is linked to ice cream sales. If it is even true-- which I do not know.

10-23-2020 , 12:22 PM

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I can elaborate: if almost all women will claim to be feminists but not all women will claim to be nasty, then it follows that those who do claim to be nasty be will unapologetic about their feminism-- or something like that.

10-23-2020 , 12:31 PM

#910

Kaze13

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If I understand the context correctly, it's not the women that are self identifying as "nasty".

It's others who are proclaiming them to be "nasty".

And that's because crusty old men are vocal and don't like women who challenge old outdated norms.

10-23-2020 , 12:50 PM

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I asked my friend I'm having lunch with (she's on her phone too so it's ok). I asked her in sequential order if she considered herself a feminist, a unapologetic feminist, and a nasty woman. Answers were "yes", "I think so", and "in the right company".

10-23-2020 , 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Kaze13

Look, the stuff relevant to the actual purpose of this thread is 95% solved by implementing birdmans suggestion of making it a standard mod action to "remove someone from the game" for problematic behavior, and to publicly announce they are doing so. This gives the game mod the flexibility to solve the situation in a manner that least disrupts the game, removes the problematic person from the game, and publicly reassures the remainder of the game that action is being taken.

The rest of the thread involving bobo, mets, and pwns concern trolling, and kami/siu vs the world is just the nonsense that happens in pog any time anyone tries to make this place better.

What the **** are you even talking about? I didn't post anything on POG for months, Kami either, when we have it's just been to play in the occasional game. We certainly haven't prevented people from instilling positive change in any way. In fact we've both been advocating for positive change in this thread if you actually read our posts. So trying to vilify us and group us with people trolling is ridiculous. Your part of the problem with **** like this Kaze.

10-23-2020 , 12:58 PM

#913

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Originally Posted by ShipItUp

I should have said the world vs kami/siu?

Kami has said several things in this thread that are important to hear, and I think that overall they are being heard.

10-23-2020 , 12:59 PM

#914

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I feel like if I ever ended up with a beef with Kaze I'd want to stop and figure out where I went wrong.

10-23-2020 , 01:00 PM

#915

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I've gone to bat for kami in the past when I think she's on the right side of things, and I think she is on the right side of things when it comes to issues relevant to this thread.

10-23-2020 , 01:01 PM

#916

Crossnerd

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Originally Posted by Kaze13

Kaze gets it. Not surprised.

10-23-2020 , 01:01 PM

#917

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Originally Posted by Kaze13

I've gone to bat for kami in the past when I think she's on the right side of things, and I think she is on the right side of things when it comes to issues relevant to this thread.

Definitely.

10-23-2020 , 01:03 PM

#918

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kaze for mod

10-23-2020 , 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Kaze13

i havent trolled at all

i havent even said i am against banning the r-word. but i just think if we are going to modkill someone for calling someone the r-word - then you should modkill them for calling someone an idiot, or lame, or a cuck, or a pussy

id rather not modkill for any of it, but let the greens ban or temp ban based on whatever norms are decided

10-23-2020 , 01:48 PM

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my issue with the kami thing is -- the game where she called me a boomer, i said im not a boomer, stop, and she said it again

im a big boy so i moved on. but then when someone trolls her and calls her a princess she thinks its okay to do whatever? meh

we can all grow and be nicer to each other

10-23-2020 , 02:32 PM

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Originally Posted by HUstylez

Honestly Kawamii’s posting in this thread seems good and makes me think she’s changed a lot from her extremely toxic past

Idk much about her, but I think her and SIU are connected? SIU was 18 when he started playing? My deductive reasoning tells me that maybe in the past Kawamii was young, probably impulsive and carefree and acted in a way people didn’t like? She is probably still young but has also matured and she seems more reasonable than some of the much older posters I’ve met here.

Lol at Mets, I think he is mixing me and her up? Idk I can’t tell, did she also get called princess?

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10-23-2020 , 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Uglydelicious

Idk much about her, but I think her and SIU are connected? SIU was 18 when he started playing? My seductive reasoning tells me that maybe in the past Kawamii was young, probably impulsive and carefree and acted in a way people didn’t like? She is probably still young but has also matured and she seems more reasonable than some of the much older posters I’ve met here.

Lol at Mets, I think he is mixing me and her up? Idk I can’t tell, did she also get called princess?

maybe i was mixing it up
i apoogize if so