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Originally Posted by xtiangold
If you never check back any FDs (most of which will be nuttish, in your 3betting range) that would inherently be the first problem. The second problem is that I think you're ignoring concrete information in favor of speculation and wanting to be in control of the hand. 1. If you trusted your read that this was a solid player who had a reasonable level of awareness, that confirms that he has very little incentive to be getting OOL here. He's in a multi-way pot with a perceived fish and a player who has demonstrated that they are capable of making 'big' calls under the right circumstances. Most decent players in this spot are going to be heavily weighted towards value because there is little incentive to be bluffing, and certainly not a spot where V will ever be betting a worse hand this aggressively. I highly disagree with people saying that you are obligated to call, and i'm even in some disagreement with people who think that this has to be a demanding/challenging spot - when, if you are able to be present in the moment, and trust yourself and the information which you have the ability to interpret correctly - this fold becomes quite simple. I think it's quite possible in this spot that you allowed a very subtle but malicious form of tilt to sink in - in which you stop trusting yourself and start rationalizing (i'm top of range, phantom bluffs, etc.) as a means of regaining control.
I don't know how much it's regaining control vs. the simple fact that folding top set sucks, and I try to talk myself into calls in these situations.