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11-10-2017 , 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted by well named
That was before I was a P7 mod, and it's an example of something being related but over the line imo.
do you honestly believe someone reading that description would have an accurate picture of what happened? iirc wil basically talked about stopping a man following his daughter in to a washroom. painting a picture where wil is attacking trans based on political belief is absurdly misleading imo. would it be fair to say that wil "physical assault" has a broad definition also? touching someones shoulder is different than their crotch. spitting vs punching. etc etc

this goes back to a mouth frothing mob claiming virtue in order to justify their endless desire to go around looking for people and things to attack. instead of discussing the idea of rambo with a bra following your pre teen daughter in to the washroom, we now paint a picture of wils desire to assault trans people. its just a mob of loons that have lost the plot. everyones phobe, supremacists, or nazi these days. god forbid someone speaks about their primary concern being their own daughter when a man followers her in to the washroom. speak up and get attacked for your wrong think. its just endless examples of hysteria on here

so the idea "should we ban for racism" is really unclear, right? i mean statues are racist now. last night the California NAACP chapter says national anthem is racist. i'm serious. this is why you let people speak and think.... and be wrong sometimes
11-10-2017 , 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted by well named
I thought that, in P7, people should have been allowed to express the position that they were not obligated to recognize transgender identities. That is, they should have been allowed to express the position that they were unwilling to call someone "she" if they thought the person was male. I think it's a bigoted position to take, but given that it's both the dominant view in our culture, as well as being a contemporary cultural/political issue, it doesn't make sense to me to forbid the discussion, despite the fact that I consider it to be a bigoted and ignorant position.

Other examples I can think of would be stuff like
- Expressing support for voter ID laws
- Denying the existence of racial bias in policing, employment, education, or etc.
- Denying the existence of the gendered wage gap
- Denying that men, white people, or other groups are privileged.
- Denying that gender gaps in various occupations are a result of sexism

Note that I think all of those positions are misguided/ignorant at minimum, and often reflect underlying prejudices and biases. Also, if it's not obvious, there are ways in which people might express similar views that I think would cross the line. It's hard to describe in a perfectly clear way. But just from the P7 discussion about trans I think it's clear that you are much more strident than I am in wanting to forbid the expression of some opinions, although we agree about them being bigoted.
It looks like you are trying to apply an outlier standard. This seems wise, since things that a large proportion of the populace believe are things that need to be discussed.
11-10-2017 , 01:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Trolly McTrollson
Just to be clear, you had a guy in P7 who posted fantasies about physically assaulting trans people in bathrooms. Framing this as a guy who just "wanted to express opinions" seems very generous.


Yeah, having a prejudicial opinion, expressing discomfort from ignorance, and actively promoting abusive discrimination all fall into distinct, but related categories.
11-10-2017 , 01:55 PM
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Originally Posted by CharlieDontSurf
TS clearly seems to be a Trump fan/supporter, and while I don't have the same politics I do see a trend of that alone making him a racist in many forum posters eyes if he argues a position from that side's perspective.

If you are going to constantly ban people site-wide for racism you are going to go down a slippery slope as you have to clearly define what you consider racist posting and it will be a constant moving target the way things are going with the world and PC culture today.

I'd wager a huge chunk of the mods would have completely different interpretations of what does constitute bannable offenses for racism and what doesn't. That's not a recipe for success if you are perma banning valuable posters for saying something offensive or stupid in a random forum - esp one like Politics or SMP which invites that type of debate.

All I know is Tooth is one of if not THE most valuable contributors to the BFI forum, in part because he is willing to answer/debate so many random posters and is so active in sharing his thought process. Many take umbrage by his tone or claims but that is their problem not his.

I'd appreciate it if you would unban him from BFI immediately since it does not appear that anyone on the forum, including the mods, have a clue wtf he did that was deserving of a lifetime ban from the entire site and especially BFI.

#freeTS
+1
11-10-2017 , 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Mat Sklansky
Quite right. However, it is threads like this help us make the final decisions.
I have a feeling my response to this was deleted.

May be wrong though.
11-10-2017 , 01:57 PM
Also, it's not a mainstream political opinion. Most people are respectful towards trans men and women. In fact, 7, yes 7 trans men and women just won elections yesterday. A guy that authored an anti trans bathroom bill lost his seat

Spoiler:

to a trans woman



It is minority, fringe political bigotry.

Last edited by AllCowsEatGrass; 11-10-2017 at 02:04 PM.
11-10-2017 , 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted by juan valdez
do you honestly believe someone reading that description would have an accurate picture of what happened?
I'm accepting the premise of Trolly's question for the purposes of trying to clarify my opinion about how site-wide rules might work in the future and where the line might go. I don't see any point in arguing about what wil actually said or didn't say here.

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Originally Posted by BrianTheMick2
It looks like you are trying to apply an outlier standard. This seems wise, since things that a large proportion of the populace believe are things that need to be discussed.
That's more or less accurate, and how I've described my opinion on this question in the past.
11-10-2017 , 01:59 PM
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Originally Posted by AllCowsEatGrass
Riiight. And then like, maybe trans men and women might see these posts, decide to raise a stink about them, have nothing done, and then feel unwelcomed on the site ...

Spoiler:

which wouldn't really matter because trans people are such a small portion of society so it doesn't matter if you don't provide a service to them.

DUC?
Uh,

1. You still post on the site.
2. Not moderating some post is not "not providing a service to transgender people."
3. We are specifically talking about politics forums (and maybe politics-dedicated threads on other forums). People who are easily offended should probably stay away. Obviously that post shouldn't be allowed elsewhere on the site.
11-10-2017 , 01:59 PM
I have to sleep. Post 100 is the greater point, for anyone reading.
11-10-2017 , 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted by AllCowsEatGrass
I have to sleep. Post 100 is the greater point, for anyone reading.
We know. Good night!

Of course we like trans people, like others.
11-10-2017 , 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted by CharlieDontSurf
TS clearly seems to be a Trump fan/supporter, and while I don't have the same politics I do see a trend of that alone making him a racist in many forum posters eyes if he argues a position from that side's perspective.
This is kind of off-topic, but there might be a reason for that. Such as, y'know, the arguments he makes.
11-10-2017 , 02:02 PM
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Originally Posted by AllCowsEatGrass
Also, it's not a mainstream political opinion.
See for example Pew Research



My position is that a politics forum ought to allow someone to express the opinion that "whether someone is a man or a woman is determined by sex at birth", despite the fact that I think that this demonstrates an inadequate understanding of the issue.

I realize that you can draw a distinction between holding the above belief and yet being willing to address people in the way they want to be addressed, and in fact I think people who hold that belief should make that distinction. But it's clear that someone who doesn't want to address trans people by their preferred pronoun is probably motivated by the above very mainstream belief.
11-10-2017 , 02:03 PM
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Originally Posted by CharlieDontSurf
TS clearly seems to be a Trump fan/supporter, and while I don't have the same politics I do see a trend of that alone making him a racist in many forum posters eyes if he argues a position from that side's perspective.
again with the lying and misinformation. TS posted some really reprehensible stuff. the idea that he was only slightly racist or that ppl falsely ascribed racist tendencies to him bc he supported Trump/conservatives is just not tethered to reality.

this is a guy that claimed gay/trans is a mental deficiency. on multiple occasions he compared it to bestiality.

he claimed that lynching was not a big deal bc whites were lynched as often as blacks in the post civil war era.

he has repeatedly demonized Muslims.

and there are tons of other blatantly racist posts and others that were only provocative.

so I just dont get why ppl want to try to rewrite history and act like TS did not put out some pretty heinous opinions.

now, just so BoredSocial doesnt get on my case for "shutting down free speech", I am in no way saying that I want him banned. I really dont care.
11-10-2017 , 02:05 PM
ACEG -

So here's the question. What is acceptable difference of opinion in regards to discussing Trans issues in a political aspect?

Yes, it would be fantastic if everyone thought the same way you do, but they don't. Where is the line, for you, in what is okay to discuss (and maybe persuade people to change their minds) and when does that become bigotry that crosses a line and should not be allowed in a public space?
Certainly there is a space for discussion? If someone is open with saying "no, I don't think I feel comfortable with my daughter using the same bathroom as a transwoman". Do you think there's room to discuss or is this language that should never be allowed?
11-10-2017 , 02:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Gizmo
Certainly there is a space for discussion? If someone is open with saying "no, I don't think I feel comfortable with my daughter using the same bathroom as a black woman". Do you think there's room to discuss or is this language that should never be allowed?
*cough*
11-10-2017 , 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted by juan valdez
do you honestly believe someone reading that description would have an accurate picture of what happened? iirc wil basically talked about stopping a man following his daughter in to a washroom. painting a picture where wil is attacking trans based on political belief is absurdly misleading imo. would it be fair to say that wil "physical assault" has a broad definition also? touching someones shoulder is different than their crotch. spitting vs punching. etc etc

this goes back to a mouth frothing mob claiming virtue in order to justify their endless desire to go around looking for people and things to attack. instead of discussing the idea of rambo with a bra following your pre teen daughter in to the washroom, we now paint a picture of wils desire to assault trans people. its just a mob of loons that have lost the plot. everyones phobe, supremacists, or nazi these days. god forbid someone speaks about their primary concern being their own daughter when a man followers her in to the washroom. speak up and get attacked for your wrong think. its just endless examples of hysteria on here

so the idea "should we ban for racism" is really unclear, right? i mean statues are racist now. last night the California NAACP chapter says national anthem is racist. i'm serious. this is why you let people speak and think.... and be wrong sometimes
bolded is more lies and distortion. I think that everyone agrees it is ok to be concerned if a man follows your daughter into the bathroom.

the argument was actually about if it is OK for a trans person to use the bathroom of their choice.
11-10-2017 , 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted by TiltedDonkey
Uh,

1. You still post on the site.
2. Not moderating some post is not "not providing a service to transgender people."
3. We are specifically talking about politics forums (and maybe politics-dedicated threads on other forums). People who are easily offended should probably stay away. Obviously that post shouldn't be allowed elsewhere on the site.

2p2 is a business. Businesses make accommodations to their customers. A business that does not make accommodations to customers create an unwelcoming environment. Allowing transphobic bigotry on the site is effectively a "transgenders are not welcome here" policy.
11-10-2017 , 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Mat Sklansky
First, I want to reiterate my pressing issue in different words. There seems to be a greater and greater call for people to be banned from the entire site over perceived bigotry.

I don't care when people want to confront someone over perceived bigotry. I don't care that the politics forum so tightly moderates for bigotry either. So this isn't about how that forum is run.

I use toothsayer as an example. The reason for his actual ban hasn't been explained yet to me. But for the purposes of this thread, let's just say he was banned for making multiple racist posts.












So, 1 and 2. Using the toothsayer example.
How does that ban affect business?
Was it just the right thing to regardless?
Not trying to shut people up today.







So, again. It's the calls to ban people outside of politcs for their politics I want to hear about. And maybe, hopefully, i'm wrong about it being such a big issue.

If everyone pretty much agrees that the individual forums can be treated independently, then there won't be many requests to ban people from the site, rather requests for exiles from specific forums. That's an easy thing to grant if a moderator asks.
This is framed so bizarrely. If a poster is banned for violating site-wide rules, they should be banned from the whole site. If they are banned for violating forum-specific rules, they should be exiled from the relevant forum. This all seems obvious.

Should there be a site-wide rule against posting racist content? This is conceivably debatable, but it also seems like an obvious yes.

Should posters in specific subforums who like a banned poster get to reverse a sitewide ban because they like the poster? No, of course not.

Framing this as a question about "politics" is bizarre. Yes, virtually everyone from that forum hates TS because of his many horrible posts, but assuming that he was banned somewhere else for violation of a site-wide rule, it's really got nothing to do with the politics forum or politics in general.
11-10-2017 , 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Victor
bolded is more lies and distortion. I think that everyone agrees it is ok to be concerned if a man follows your daughter into the bathroom.

the argument was actually about if it is OK for a trans person to use the bathroom of their choice.
You lock the bathroom when taking a dump (or a piss). You think people are watching?

Last edited by plaaynde; 11-10-2017 at 02:20 PM.
11-10-2017 , 02:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Noodle Wazlib
I see that rafiki has an expired infraction for racist posting, I wonder why this topic is an issue for him...


See this right here is part of the problem. Am I a racist? I'd hire any black person, I'd date any asian person, I see no race that's superior to any other (outside of maybe black people in some sports?).

Simultaneously I used to be a stand-up comic. I think race jokes are hilarious. I think all jokes are hilarious, but race jokes particularly. I think posting memes of black women snapping their fingers is funny. I disagree with this:



So if somewhere a racist joke was taken as more than a joke, now all of a sudden my backstory on 2p2 is I'm racist?

Na man that stinks. What I'm not is a snowflake. I make jokes about being disabled (I'm darn near it myself). I make jokes about being Jewish (I am one), I make jokes about the small penis on the Asian guy in our fantasy football league. I'm not going to stop doing that, certainly not because anyone in here asks. In a world full of crazy, I'm not going to stop with the funny. And it's very possible that my funny isn't funny to you. But it doesn't make me a racist. And this is exactly the black/white/grey stuff I was talking about. You don't KNOW me. You don't know what I stand for. But you make crazy assumptions because of a joke here or there, or because I like Tooth? lol.
11-10-2017 , 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Gizmo
ACEG -

So here's the question. What is acceptable difference of opinion in regards to discussing Trans issues in a political aspect?

Yes, it would be fantastic if everyone thought the same way you do, but they don't. Where is the line, for you, in what is okay to discuss (and maybe persuade people to change their minds) and when does that become bigotry that crosses a line and should not be allowed in a public space?
Certainly there is a space for discussion? If someone is open with saying "no, I don't think I feel comfortable with my daughter using the same bathroom as a transwoman". Do you think there's room to discuss or is this language that should never be allowed?

"I wouldn't feel comfortable with my daughter using the same restroom as a black person."

What do you think of this quote?
11-10-2017 , 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Noodle Wazlib
mrbaseball sure is being very vocal and screaming louder than others about how offended he is in that post.

This is the problem with people who pretend they’re sick of all the politics. They’re not sick of politics, they’re sick of being confronted with ideas they don’t agree with. They prefer that their viewpoints be accepted as the norm and try to shame others who have differing viewpoints. Just a different version of "spot the racist" where the racist is just anyone who disagrees with you. (See also the post above mine)



Judging by that BFI thread, Zeno and augie



Citation needed
Right. Ive never called for any of the deplorables to be banned but they still dont like me expressing an honest view they are bigots or racists. Basically they want to be able to say what they want without harsh criticism coming back at them. Here is a link for them.
11-10-2017 , 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted by bobman0330
This is framed so bizarrely. If a poster is banned for violating site-wide rules, they should be banned from the whole site. If they are banned for violating forum-specific rules, they should be exiled from the relevant forum. This all seems obvious.

Should there be a site-wide rule against posting racist content? This is conceivably debatable, but it also seems like an obvious yes.

Should posters in specific subforums who like a banned poster get to reverse a sitewide ban because they like the poster? No, of course not.

Framing this as a question about "politics" is bizarre. Yes, virtually everyone from that forum hates TS because of his many horrible posts, but assuming that he was banned somewhere else for violation of a site-wide rule, it's really got nothing to do with the politics forum or politics in general.
Marijuana is illegal in Nevada and Colorado. Correct?

I'm letting moderators interpret, or even ignore, the site wide rule. Does that make more sense? We always reserve the right to intervene from above.
11-10-2017 , 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted by well named
I'm accepting the premise of Trolly's question for the purposes of trying to clarify my opinion about how site-wide rules might work in the future and where the line might go. I don't see any point in arguing about what wil actually said or didn't say here.
what wil did and didn't say and the resulting misleading hysteria isn't a defence of wil, its for the purpose of conceptualizing useful site wide rules. wil talked about intervening if he saw a man follow his pre teen daughter in to a washroom. this got twisted in to some hysteria where wil wanted to punch tans. you could go over this situation endlessly and thats why its relevant to how the forum is moderated

ps the national anthem was declared racist by the NAACP last night. don't be singing that racist chant now. and don't stand proud when others sing it. dont be defending like some apologist either. dont be racist. the point is, we clearly need to evaluate what is at the core of accusations, what is racist, what can be discussed, etc.
11-10-2017 , 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted by plaaynde
You lock the bathroom when taking a dump.
stop posting in this thread.

      
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