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Question about RGT overlording/ Jibninjas bitch thread [July 2011] Question about RGT overlording/ Jibninjas bitch thread [July 2011]

07-22-2011 , 10:34 PM
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Originally Posted by bunny
I think the changed name of the images thread probably deserves some comment. Plus - why was the prayers/special intentions thread unstickied?

They both seemed like peculiar decisions in the current climate, unless I missed some discussion about them somewhere?
Madnak and I discussed this and came to the agreement. It was never an open forum debate.

The reason behind the name change was that the thread was never an atheist thread from day one. It was a thread dubbed atheist thread, but then was quickly turned into a funny pics thread about religion/atheism etc. So the title was no longer a representation of what the thread was, and it was too good of a thread to lock or even unsticky.

The prayers thread was unstickied because it was a thread where 75% (if not more) was two posters, one of which doesn't even post here anymore. It was a thread that was more of a blog than anything. Again, it was not a representation of the forum at all, therefore does not belong as a sticky.
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07-22-2011 , 10:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Arouet
I haven't spent much time in RGT lately as I used to, so I'm not up on the current state of the forum, but I've got to agree with Jib that there are a few posters (who have posted ITT) who have basically had a hate-on for Jib since before he was a mod and - from my perspective anyway - relentlessly went after him subsequently, attacking both his posts and his modding at every instance. Frankly, it got a little tiresome (IIRC I made some posts about this back then when things were pretty bad).

At the time anyway, Jib was often virtually the lone theist handling dozens of substantive posts from various atheist posters. While he didn't get back to everyone, and either abandoned - or forgot about - a number of posts, given the sheer number of posts to respond to I think he gave it a good faith effort. (Keep in mind that I'm an atheist and pretty well always disagreed with jib, but I appreciated his effort).

Jib put up with an astoninshingly high amoung of abuse from some of these guys, and I was surprised he let them get away with it.

So while I'm not completely up to date with these recent complaints against Jib, they seem to be the same old same old. Is Jib perfect as a mod? Of course not. But the people who attack him are not always, imo, objective when it comes to jib, and quite frankly are lucky they weren't banned a long time ago for the abuse they heap on a mod, who gives his volunteer time to help run this forum.
Find me one post in the last year where I've "abused" jib.

Being critical is not abuse. There is ONE time I can remember where I lost my **** and went off on him. And he gave me infraction points, and I apologized. That was over a year ago.

Since then, have I been critical of him at times? Sure. Critical != abusive.

Can we please focus on the facts and not on what people feel someone will do based on their past?

Jib locked a 500+ post thread because three people supposedly trolled him upon bumping it. Now he's saying he locked it because he thinks it would have been derailed had he left it open. Which is quite funny since the thread had sat stagnant for three months (not two, three), and the last time Jib posted he said he didn't have an answer and needs more time. And what did me, and all the other horribly "abusive" posters say? Fine! Go ahead, and good on you for just saying so!

But yeah, he just totally knew that we were going to abuse the **** out of him had he done anything other than lock that thread up.
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07-22-2011 , 10:41 PM
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Originally Posted by loK2thabrain
This is completely false.

I have made a very specific point about your modding style, and all you have to say is, "well, surely poster X, Y, and Z would have derailed the thread so I locked it before that could happen."

That is the worst reason I've ever heard for locking a thread.

I've told you multiple times to stop living in the past. To start fresh and understand that I've realized I was a bit too negative with my posts. That was a long, long time ago, yet here you are acting like I just told you to **** off yesterday.

Why can't you just let the past go?
You do realize that thread was in the past, right? And when was the last time that I deleted one of your posts or infracted you?

If you want to move forward, then let's move forward.
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07-22-2011 , 10:45 PM
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Originally Posted by loK2thabrain
Find me one post in the last year where I've "abused" jib.

Being critical is not abuse. There is ONE time I can remember where I lost my **** and went off on him. And he gave me infraction points, and I apologized. That was over a year ago.

Since then, have I been critical of him at times? Sure. Critical != abusive.

Can we please focus on the facts and not on what people feel someone will do based on their past?

Jib locked a 500+ post thread because three people supposedly trolled him upon bumping it. Now he's saying he locked it because he thinks it would have been derailed had he left it open. Which is quite funny since the thread had sat stagnant for three months (not two, three), and the last time Jib posted he said he didn't have an answer and needs more time. And what did me, and all the other horribly "abusive" posters say? Fine! Go ahead, and good on you for just saying so!

But yeah, he just totally knew that we were going to abuse the **** out of him had he done anything other than lock that thread up.
Do you honestly believe that I was wrong in assuming that? I might even go back and check, but if I remember correctly that all happened in the midst of one your/rize etc gang ups on me.

Even if that is not the case, can you tell me that it was that bad of an assumption given my history with you and rize? Do you believe that rize is also respectful of me? I mean, say what you will, but saying that is a baseless assumption of what that thread would have turned into is not being honest imo
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07-22-2011 , 10:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
You do realize that thread was in the past, right?
Yes, thank you, I'm quite aware.

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And when was the last time that I deleted one of your posts or infracted you?
A long time, but one wouldn't know that from reading your post itt you made just today. The one where you've "let the abuse go on for too long."

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If you want to move forward, then let's move forward.
Great lets move forward.

Now why did you lock that thread? Because you were A) trolled, or B) going to be trolled?

You've given two different answers at two different times. This is a specific complaint about your modding, and has nothing to do with whether or not I like you as a person (as you incorrectly suggested).
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07-22-2011 , 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
Madnak and I discussed this and came to the agreement. It was never an open forum debate.
You will recall a common refrain of mine that RGT is not a democracy - I don't expect decision by committee. I only mentioned it since you said you'd addressed all the relevant points and I suspect that this was one which was quite important to many.

I guess it seems strange to me given both changes were made during a period of a 'the mods are terrible' uprising. Neither seems terribly momentous though.
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07-22-2011 , 10:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
Do you honestly believe that I was wrong in assuming that?
Yes. See our response to your previous post in that thread where we gave you props for saying you didn't have an answer. Rize even responded to your post with a nifty hand clapping gif.

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I might even go back and check, but if I remember correctly that all happened in the midst of one your/rize etc gang ups on me.
Sounds kinky, but I don't recall our discussions from a year ago beyond the deist thread.

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Even if that is not the case, can you tell me that it was that bad of an assumption given my history with you and rize?
Yes, see my point about our response to your previous post in that thread.

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Do you believe that rize is also respectful of me?
Depends on how you define "respectful." I don't think its respectful for you to leave threads at the drop of a hat (not the deist thread, the many others where this happened) but others don't seem to think its an issue.

To directly answer your question, I'd say most of the time he's respectful enough based on what forum etiquette is around here. Sometimes he crosses over to disrespectful, yes. Locking threads because you're predicting someone will act a certain way is lolterrible.

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I mean, say what you will, but saying that is a baseless assumption of what that thread would have turned into is not being honest imo
It is being honest. See my first point. The last time you posted itt that you didn't have an answer, all us big bad abusers gave you a pat on the back and let you do your thing. You even commented on how surprised you were that we didn't jump down your throat for not having an answer.

So for you to assume that the next time you said you didn't have an answer that all hell would break lose is the definition of a baseless assumption.
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07-22-2011 , 10:58 PM
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Originally Posted by loK2thabrain
This is completely false.

I have made a very specific point about your modding style, and all you have to say is, "well, surely poster X, Y, and Z would have derailed the thread so I locked it before that could happen."

That is the worst reason I've ever heard for locking a thread.

I've told you multiple times to stop living in the past. To start fresh and understand that I've realized I was a bit too negative with my posts. That was a long, long time ago, yet here you are acting like I just told you to **** off yesterday.

Why can't you just let the past go?
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
And when was the last time that I deleted one of your posts or infracted you?
You listed him in this thread as one of the three troublemakers in RGT. You also stated that you would be treating him (as one of the three) more harshly in the future. That's what he was responding to.
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07-22-2011 , 11:09 PM
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Originally Posted by bunny
No - which is why I think the following rule is bad:

If I'm allowed to continually bump a thread (and I have bumped threads several times over a period of months until the poster I'm debating says or implies "we're done") then the rule is obviously not targetting the problem.
Rules are not based around the reasonable people. They are based around the trouble makers. If everyone was like you bunny we would not need rules at all.

[/quote]As I said to rizeagainst above - I think the problem is tone, not content/opinion. Inevitably, it seems to me, the issues arise when people stop talking about what people say and start talking about why they say it. Note that you accused Hopey of hating you - I would dispute your ability to know that, unless you've had lots of discussions I'm not privvy to. I pretty much agree with his characterisation that he is sarcastic but not abusive. Similarly with lok2thabrain, though I tend to scan past the 'you-said, he-said' threads so perhaps I'm just missing bits.[/quote]

Well, I disagree. Hopey (even if not as of late due to him not posting) and I have a long history together. In any event, I am not claiming to know his inner most thoughts, but how I perceive them. If I told you that I believed Our House like me, would you question my judgement? Probably not.


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"Do you have an answer?" posted every few weeks in a debate thread with some unanswered questions doesnt sound like harrassment to me. "Do you have an answer or are you hiding like usual you intellectually dishonest, moronic, lolbad-moderator." seems unreasonable.
Again, I agree. But the problem is that the later is why we are here, not the former. What my rule is there for is to prevent the latter.

And I know that it was offered to you before, but if you have changed your mind about being a mod shoot me a PM.
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07-22-2011 , 11:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Hopey
You listed him in this thread as one of the three troublemakers in RGT. You also stated that you would be treating him (as one of the three) more harshly in the future. That's what he was responding to.
I never actually said that I would treat anyone more harshly, just that I was no longer going to allow them to be abusive and disruptive. If he, or anyone else, is not or will not be in the future abusive or disruptive, then there will be no issues.
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07-22-2011 , 11:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
I never actually said that I would treat anyone more harshly, just that I was no longer going to allow them to be abusive and disruptive. If he, or anyone else, is not or will not be in the future abusive or disruptive, then there will be no issues.
You implied that I've been abusive to you right up to this day, when that's clearly not the case. It was a false characterization in an attempt to strengthen the notion that we're only out to get you because we don't like you.
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07-22-2011 , 11:26 PM
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Originally Posted by bunny
You will recall a common refrain of mine that RGT is not a democracy - I don't expect decision by committee. I only mentioned it since you said you'd addressed all the relevant points and I suspect that this was one which was quite important to many.

I guess it seems strange to me given both changes were made during a period of a 'the mods are terrible' uprising. Neither seems terribly momentous though.
I didn't realize that this was a issue that was posed in this thread.
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07-22-2011 , 11:31 PM
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Originally Posted by loK2thabrain
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Now why did you lock that thread? Because you were A) trolled, or B) going to be trolled?

You've given two different answers at two different times. This is a specific complaint about your modding, and has nothing to do with whether or not I like you as a person (as you incorrectly suggested).
both A and B
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07-22-2011 , 11:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
Rules are not based around the reasonable people. They are based around the trouble makers.
I think they should be targetting the troublesome behaviour, not the people. If reasonable people break them they should face the same consequences as 'trouble makers'. The infraction system will mean they're likely to receive different tangible punishments since, assuming they expire over time, any reasonable person will probably never suffer any actual punishment beyond the warning implicit in receiving an infraction point or two.
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And I know that it was offered to you before, but if you have changed your mind about being a mod shoot me a PM.
I'm not reliable enough. When Mrs bunny decides I'm wasting too much time 'arguing with those stupid geeks on the internet' then I tend to disappear from the forums for a while - "happy wife, happy life" and all that
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07-22-2011 , 11:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
both A and B
Thank you for your answer.

Now, if what myself and the two other posters who replied after I bumped that deist thread were "trolling" then you've got your work cut out for you because there's a whole lot of troll posts you need to address right now.

Do you honestly still think locking that thread was justified?

(btw, you didn't address any of my other points which were tied into this very issue. I'd appreciate if you would take a moment to reply to my entire post regarding this issue.)
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07-23-2011 , 12:12 AM
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Originally Posted by All-In Flynn
Untrue.
+1

I for the most part have no problem with Jibs modding. I dont think they speak for most regs.

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You're not following. I said after i bumped it, had he said, "still looking into this guys, but thanks for the interest" or whatever there is no other reasonable response besides, "ok."
My misunderstanding. His post saying he would need more time was #571. Your post quoting Rize asking him if there were any updates was two days later at #580. So it wasn't a bump. Though it was an example of the consent attention you two gave him at that time.

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Yes. See our response to your previous post in that thread where we gave you props for saying you didn't have an answer. Rize even responded to your post with a nifty hand clapping gif.
And then both of you took jabs at him right after that.

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07-23-2011 , 12:53 AM
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Originally Posted by Mat Sklansky
i'm going to defer all decisions regarding rgt to bunny. at least until i come back from dinner and maybe forever.
That would be a massive step in the right direction but I doubt this is serious
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07-23-2011 , 12:53 AM
I never really had a problem with jibninjas during my rgt posting days.
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07-23-2011 , 12:56 AM
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Originally Posted by bunny
This is one bit I dont understand, to be frank. Without expressing an opinion one way or the other on Jibninjas in particular - what difference does it make if the moderator is a shoddy poster?
because his opinion matters since aesthetics is grounds for removing "content". so a better poster would probably not moderate so ****tily since they probably have better opinions in general.

and ty Mat.
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07-23-2011 , 01:03 AM
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
First I want to say that as I mentioned in another thread, I have been out of town on business. I just got back today. Both my browser at home and at work have 2+2 app tabbed so it is always up, plus I have been following the thread on my phone. I am going to attempt to address every issue in this thread, but being that it is now 148 posts long it might take a bit and I might miss something. So if I do just let me know. I am going to do this in multiple posts.

I want to first address the issue in the OP about my original deletion of the post and subsequent infraction points given to tpir.

The original post that was deleted was one in which tpir quoted my and then just put a "?" as his comment. The post was deleted because a "?" is hardly content rich post.

Once that happened and OP noticed tpir immediately posted this :



Many Mod's probably would have infracted him for this post alone, but the reason was that he broke rule #5 of the HC threads:



I received no PM about the deleted post, so he was infracted.

The second and third posts that he got infracted for was the following:





I think that these posts speak for themselves and doubt that there are many if any Mods on two plus two that would not infract for these posts.

The irony of all of this is that the original post that I deleted was one in which tpir quoted me and made changes, although because he did not bold his changes (which is common practice when quoting someone and changing their words) I didn't even notice that he changed my post at all. I thought it was exactly the same. If tpir would have PM'd me (as he was supposed to) and questions me deleted his post I would have found out very quickly what he had done and would have simply undeleted the post as I would have realized that I had made a mistake.

Now I will try and go through this thread and answer the questions brought up throughout the thread.
Why didn't you just undelete it on your own and apologize to me instead? I don't even know my posts get deleted until days after the fact sometimes. That was not the only post of mine that was deleted either and what about everyone else's? I am not PMing you about a mistake you know you made. Why would I? You can fix it, I can't.
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07-23-2011 , 01:08 AM
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
You are right that I am most often the target of this, but the fact remains that it is a disruption of the forum. And I do not think that because I am a mod that I should be allowed to be harassed constantly. Not to mention that this harassment was occurring long before I became a Mod.
Links to a long history of constant harassment please. This didn't happen unless you redefine harassing into something really watered down and lame.
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07-23-2011 , 01:08 AM
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The reason behind the name change was that the thread was never an atheist thread from day one.
Uh yeah hi there, I'm the guy who created the thread and I'm going to have to go ahead and disagree with you there

Get this...I titled the thread as "Images for atheists"
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07-23-2011 , 01:09 AM
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Originally Posted by tpir
Links to a long history of constant harassment please. This didn't happen unless you redefine harassing into something really watered down and lame.
Yup
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07-23-2011 , 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
So in closing, I would say that my biggest mistake as a Mod has been to be too easy on these posters throughout the years and allowing this to go on as long as it has. Their posting history speaks for itself. I don't think there there is another forum on 2+2 that would not have banned these posters long ago.
OOT, BBV, BBV4L, NVG, Sporting Events, This forum(?), probably lots of others. And are you going to ban Splendour too? There is no way what she does isn't abusive regardless of "oh just ignore it". There is absolutely not another forum anywhere that would not have banned her long ago, admit it. She even conceded to using RGT as a blog. And is the "Jib doesn't like his feet being put anywhere near the fire" rule going to be abolished?
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07-23-2011 , 01:17 AM
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Originally Posted by rizeagainst
Uh yeah hi there, I'm the guy who created the thread and I'm going to have to go ahead and disagree with you there

Get this...I titled the thread as "Images for atheists"
Yeah I hate to pile on about this point because at the end of the day it is just an lol image thread, but it is pretty clearly Jib taking "revenge" on a poster who was mean to him in the past AINEC.
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