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Question about RGT overlording/ Jibninjas bitch thread [July 2011] Question about RGT overlording/ Jibninjas bitch thread [July 2011]

07-22-2011 , 07:08 PM
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Originally Posted by bunny
I think a big problem seems to be that those who have had their posts deleted can't really judge whether it was deleted for 'good reasons' or not. Being the saintly sort, I've never had a post deleted, however if one were I would expect some kind of PM or moderator-post in the thread (even if terse) just to tell me why. Maybe that's too much effort - I have no idea how much work is involved in modding, but given it's an ongoing issue at least the potentially controversial deletions could adopt this practise.

Another problem has also seemed to me to be the implicit assumption of some kind of democratic right. I think it's much better to assume a forum is a dictatorship - you either like it or you don't but attempts to change it should be focussed on persuading the moderators, imo, rather than in public demands for 'a fair go'.
Unfortunately this would require a quite a bit of work. And considering that pretty much all of the posts that are deleted that I do not give a reason for should be wildly obvious why they were deleted, I don't know if this would help the situation. This is shown ITT with tpir having no clue why he would get infracted for the posts that he made.
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07-22-2011 , 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted by loK2thabrain
Here is a great example of lolmodding by jib

He claims the thread was locked because we were trolling him after I bumped that thread. Instead of deleting the "troll" posts, and/or giving infraction points/warnings, he locks the thread. wtf is that?

This is also the thread where he challenged everyone to change his position from theist to deist, and if you look at his post before the one where he threw a mini-tantrum, you will see that he got to a point where he needed time to look into things because he didn't know how to respond. Here we are almost a year later and he still hasn't honored his word about coming back. A lot of people put in a lot of effort into that thread, and he just bails because he wasn't treated with kid gloves when I bumped it.

He will up and leave a thread after going back and forth with someone for quite some time, never to return, and if you call him out on it he busts out the "I have a job, ya know! I don't just sit around all day thinking about RGT!"

This has caused some animosity amongst Jib and several RGT regulars, including myself. If you need more time to think about something, fine, just say so. There's no need to be childish about it and lock a thread when its bumped just because it wasn't bumped with a, "excuse me, good sir, by chance have you had sufficient time to continue this conversation?"

His latest lulz moment was when he recently started a thread complaining about the lack of high content discussion in RGT. Never mind that he barely even posts there anymore. And never mind that when a high content discussion does take place with him involved, he will flee with no notice. Why should anyone start a conversation with him when they have no way to know if he will see it through? If he wants high content conversation, a good place to start would be the "make me a deist" thread that he last left 11 months ago after needing more time to research and think about things (allegedly).

Look, Jib's clearly a decent guy, he's just annoying to have as a mod based on how he carries himself as a poster.
To address this first it needs to be made aware that the bump of the thread was 2 months after the thread had died. So I did not just randomly lock the thread. The reason that it was locked was the invitable bitch fest that it was going to turn into from posters like loK and rize (possibly others) about what terrible person that I am and how stupid I am etc. There is a long history of this happening in RGT by these posters. I wasn't going to continue with that thread at that time, and the last thing that RGT needed was yet another thread where these guys bitched about.

As to loK stating that this action of mine caused animosity, well that is not really true. I will get into this later, but people like loK and rize and Hopey have a long history of hating me and this was way before I became a Mod. I will get more into this later thought.
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07-22-2011 , 07:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Mat Sklansky
i have to agree it seems strange to lock a 500 post thread. i wouldn't mind knowing a little more about the rationale behind that.
Hopefully my above explanation cleared things up a bit. I did not lock it out of the blue, it was bumped 2 months after it had died off, and if it were other posters how had genuine questions for me or interest in whether or not I had made progress I would never locked the thread. It was only because it was the posters that were involved had a long history of derailing threads to complain about me. And if I remember correctly this was not an out of no where bump, but that there was another thread at the time where they were ganging up on me to bitch about what a terrible person I am for not talking to them (or whatever).

All of this can be confirmed by Madnak.
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07-22-2011 , 07:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Mat Sklansky
Are you sure this is true? I know it wouldn't be true in all the forums.
I don't have any specific rules about this. If the OP asks to have their thread locked and it has degraded so bad beyond any sort of rational discussion but is mostly insults then I will lock the thread. If there is still good conversation going on I will not.
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07-22-2011 , 07:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Mat Sklansky
to moderate a forum like rgt when you have strong opinions on the subject has to be very difficult. i don't know much about jib, but i expect he would be very open to constructive criticism.

however, i fully support him banning, infracting and deleting posts which are merely insulting for the sake of insulting. if people can be civil and they have suggestions they should go ahead and post them here.
I am more that willing to take constructive criticism about my modding. In fact the regulars of RGT can tell you that I have changed the rules and my modding style multiple times based on what I felt the majority of the Regs wanted. Most recently was the creation of HC threads and to have a very light style of modding for the rest of the forum in order to try and please more people and compromise.

But I think that you will see that for some (loK, tpir, rize, hopey etc) it has nothing to do with my modding style, but the fact that they don't like me as a person.
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07-22-2011 , 07:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Justin A
I think the latest rules are pretty bad. Specifically the stuff about bumping a thread to ask for a response being referred to as harassment. This seems to be pretty clearly a rule suited to jib's own preferences since this pretty much only happens to him as far as I can tell.

As far as the rest of the modding goes, I agree locking that long thread was bad. I don't really know what posts are getting deleted so I can't comment much on that. My only other complaint is that the poster Splendour wasn't exiled years ago. Any thread she enters generally becomes quickly worthless (although I also blame the posters that respond to her ramblings).
The reason that rule exists is because there are certain people who when are not responded to will quickly bump their own posts and then there is a huge derail about how the poster doesn't respond and avoiding the question (usually this is joined in by 2-3 other posters some of which had no posts in the thread previously but joined only to complain).

As far as whether this is to only suit me, no. But of course it affects me as I am one of the most consistent theist posters of the forum. Rize and loK will often pull this in a thread even though I have told them on multiple occasions that I will not engage in a discussion with them as I do not feel that it is fruitful. So they know good and well why I don't respond to their posts.

The rule as is with all of the rules, is directed at the most common ways that threads are derailed.

Me personally, I get pm's plenty with people kindly asking me to respond to a post that I have over looked or had not gotten to. Not in one instance (that I can remember) have I have not obliged and went straight in and addressed their posts.

I am sorry that you felt this way Justin, but hopefully this post as helped to clear up my reasoning.
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07-22-2011 , 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted by bunny
I hadnt seen this rule (I was thinking about the "HC Guidelines"). It's hard to think of anyone other than Jibninjas who gets pestered in this way, so I guess I have to concede that point.

Sure. They should be free to not admit it without abuse though.
You are right that I am most often the target of this, but the fact remains that it is a disruption of the forum. And I do not think that because I am a mod that I should be allowed to be harassed constantly. Not to mention that this harassment was occurring long before I became a Mod.
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07-22-2011 , 07:54 PM
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Originally Posted by rizeagainst
Once again, me pointing out that you are not an RGT regular and have likely set foot in there 1 or 2 times or not at all and therefore have little to no input on this threads matter is not "antagonizing."
Doing that is wrong, but not antagonizing. How you did it is antagonizing. "If you had any idea ..."

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Stop playing the hurt feelings card. I will be calling spades spades.
Stop making bad assumptions.



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Yeah, except it is. If someone punches you in the face while walking down the street I can tell you you are allowed to defend yourself in kind without being charged with battery yourself.
Whoooohoooo for vigilantism.

Though i'd appreciate it if you stuck with one thing. You seem to be arguing that you aren't being antagonistic, but then argue 'but he did it first!"
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07-22-2011 , 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
You are right that I am most often the target of this, but the fact remains that it is a disruption of the forum. And I do not think that because I am a mod that I should be allowed to be harassed constantly. Not to mention that this harassment was occurring long before I became a Mod.
I don't think it's that much of a distraction, especially given the general nature of RGT chatter.

I think "jibninjas? Do you have any response to this?" is fine (and I'm sure I've made several posts like that over the years without any insult taken).

"jibninjas is ignoring this. Typical response because he's got no intellectual honesty, the moronic *******" is the kind of thing that should be deleted, IMO.
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07-22-2011 , 08:10 PM
Ok, I have gone through every post ITT and believe that I have answered all of the issues questions, at least to some degree.

Now I want to changes pace a little. The fact of the matter is that the posters here that are complaining about me have a very long history of not liking me. Hopey, Rize, and lok have never liked me and their hostility towards me existed way way before I ever became a Mod. So for them to say their issue with me is my modding is a little disingenuous. I don't really remember tpir from the early days, so I don't remember his demeanor towards me before I became a Mod. This can be more than backed up by the Regs and Madnak.

These posters (including tpir) are also the most abusive posters in the forum. Not just towards me, so the fact that their posts are deleted more than others is a reflection on them as much as it is on me. Regs (atheists mind you) like Batiar, Arouet, AIF, ILP, Our House, Bunny, and kurto, just to name a few, have probably never had one of their posts deleted by me. And the reason is not that they agree with me, as we agree on very little about the subject.

Rizeagainst, who is one of the biggest advocates of this thread and getting me demodded, had a long history of being abusive in RGT and SMP as well as in other forums. He as been infracted and had admin notes about his behavior by half a dozen different Mods in multiple forums (Including one of our Oranges!)

So it would be my contention that none of this has to do with my modding, but that certain posters don't like me and would like me to allow them to be abusive towards others.

So in closing, I would say that my biggest mistake as a Mod has been to be too easy on these posters throughout the years and allowing this to go on as long as it has. Their posting history speaks for itself. I don't think there there is another forum on 2+2 that would not have banned these posters long ago.
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07-22-2011 , 08:12 PM
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Originally Posted by bunny
I don't think it's that much of a distraction, especially given the general nature of RGT chatter.

I think "jibninjas? Do you have any response to this?" is fine (and I'm sure I've made several posts like that over the years without any insult taken).

"jibninjas is ignoring this. Typical response because he's got no intellectual honesty, the moronic *******" is the kind of thing that should be deleted, IMO.
I completely agree with the bolded, and I have a long history of responding to these types of posts. Let me ask you, if it was OrP that bumped the thread or even you, do you believe that I would have locked the thread? Have I ever reacted that way to one of your posts or someone like OrP posts?
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07-22-2011 , 08:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
Ok, I have gone through every post ITT and believe that I have answered all of the issues questions, at least to some degree.

Now I want to changes pace a little. The fact of the matter is that the posters here that are complaining about me have a very long history of not liking me. Hopey, Rize, and lok have never liked me and their hostility towards me existed way way before I ever became a Mod. So for them to say their issue with me is my modding is a little disingenuous. I don't really remember tpir from the early days, so I don't remember his demeanor towards me before I became a Mod. This can be more than backed up by the Regs and Madnak.

These posters (including tpir) are also the most abusive posters in the forum. Not just towards me, so the fact that their posts are deleted more than others is a reflection on them as much as it is on me. Regs (atheists mind you) like Batiar, Arouet, AIF, ILP, Our House, Bunny, and kurto, just to name a few, have probably never had one of their posts deleted by me. And the reason is not that they agree with me, as we agree on very little about the subject.

Rizeagainst, who is one of the biggest advocates of this thread and getting me demodded, had a long history of being abusive in RGT and SMP as well as in other forums. He as been infracted and had admin notes about his behavior by half a dozen different Mods in multiple forums (Including one of our Oranges!)

So it would be my contention that none of this has to do with my modding, but that certain posters don't like me and would like me to allow them to be abusive towards others.

So in closing, I would say that my biggest mistake as a Mod has been to be too easy on these posters throughout the years and allowing this to go on as long as it has. Their posting history speaks for itself. I don't think there there is another forum on 2+2 that would not have banned these posters long ago.
Hopey, Rize, and lok, it appears you have sealed your fate for making a thread criticizing his moding skills.
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07-22-2011 , 08:50 PM
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Originally Posted by rizeagainst
Odd how we all agree what's going on is wrong.
Untrue.
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07-22-2011 , 08:55 PM
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Originally Posted by smooth101
Hopey, Rize, and lok, it appears you have sealed your fate for making a thread criticizing his moding skills.
For the record, I didn't create the thread, nor encourage its creation in any way. I've been around long enough to realize that creating such a thread in ATF is at best a waste of time, and at worst will result in getting yourself banned.

This is the only post I made in this thread about the Jibby's modding:

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Well, it *is* the religion forum after all.

I cut down my posting in there once I started seeing just about every post of mine getting deleted. It wasn't worth the effort of actually typing them out anymore. Half the time I had no idea why my posts were being deleted -- I'd just look back at a thread I'd previously posted in and notice that all of my posts were gone. I finally just chalked it up to being one of the atheist "poo-flingers" that Jib doesn't like posting in his forum.
And Jib confirmed the last sentence of my post with his not-so-subtle threat to start treating me more severely were I to show my face in RGT again.
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07-22-2011 , 09:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
Ok, I have gone through every post ITT and believe that I have answered all of the issues questions, at least to some degree.

Now I want to changes pace a little. The fact of the matter is that the posters here that are complaining about me have a very long history of not liking me. Hopey, Rize, and lok have never liked me and their hostility towards me existed way way before I ever became a Mod. So for them to say their issue with me is my modding is a little disingenuous. I don't really remember tpir from the early days, so I don't remember his demeanor towards me before I became a Mod. This can be more than backed up by the Regs and Madnak.

These posters (including tpir) are also the most abusive posters in the forum. Not just towards me, so the fact that their posts are deleted more than others is a reflection on them as much as it is on me. Regs (atheists mind you) like Batiar, Arouet, AIF, ILP, Our House, Bunny, and kurto, just to name a few, have probably never had one of their posts deleted by me. And the reason is not that they agree with me, as we agree on very little about the subject.

Rizeagainst, who is one of the biggest advocates of this thread and getting me demodded, had a long history of being abusive in RGT and SMP as well as in other forums. He as been infracted and had admin notes about his behavior by half a dozen different Mods in multiple forums (Including one of our Oranges!)

So it would be my contention that none of this has to do with my modding, but that certain posters don't like me and would like me to allow them to be abusive towards others.

So in closing, I would say that my biggest mistake as a Mod has been to be too easy on these posters throughout the years and allowing this to go on as long as it has. Their posting history speaks for itself. I don't think there there is another forum on 2+2 that would not have banned these posters long ago.
Also, this whole post (in regards to me) is a load of crap. At worst, I'm a too sarcastic when I reply to posters that I disagree with. I wouldn't characterize my posts as being abusive (though maybe those with a very thin skin would disagree).

Jib just appears to have a grudge against me because he thinks that I don't like him. In reality, my feelings towards Jib as a person are completely neutral. I never complained until now about his itchy trigger finger when it came to deleting my posts -- and my post in this thread about my post deletions wasn't even really a complaint, it was more of an observation as to what has been going on.
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07-22-2011 , 09:18 PM
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Originally Posted by batair
You bumped it after he said it would take him some time, so you had more then nothing to say.
You're not following. I said after i bumped it, had he said, "still looking into this guys, but thanks for the interest" or whatever there is no other reasonable response besides, "ok."
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07-22-2011 , 09:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
So in closing, I would say that my biggest mistake as a Mod has been to be too easy on these posters throughout the years and allowing this to go on as long as it has. Their posting history speaks for itself. I don't think there there is another forum on 2+2 that would not have banned these posters long ago.
Also, I've been posting in multiple forums on 2+2 for the last 7+ years, and the RGT mods are the only mods who have ever had a problem with my posts. I've never received an infraction in any other forum other than RGT. And I've only ever received two 10-point infractions in RGT, despite my "abusive posting style".
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07-22-2011 , 09:51 PM
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I don't think it's that much of a distraction, especially given the general nature of RGT chatter.

I think "jibninjas? Do you have any response to this?" is fine (and I'm sure I've made several posts like that over the years without any insult taken).

"jibninjas is ignoring this. Typical response because he's got no intellectual honesty, the moronic *******" is the kind of thing that should be deleted, IMO.
I completely agree with the bolded, and I have a long history of responding to these types of posts. Let me ask you, if it was OrP that bumped the thread or even you, do you believe that I would have locked the thread? Have I ever reacted that way to one of your posts or someone like OrP posts?
No - which is why I think the following rule is bad:
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Harassment of another poster is will also not be tolerated:

Harassment includes, but is not limited to, gossip about other posters (ex. Poster A is a spoof account or this might be a picture of poster B) and continually bumping of a thread
If I'm allowed to continually bump a thread (and I have bumped threads several times over a period of months until the poster I'm debating says or implies "we're done") then the rule is obviously not targetting the problem.


As I said to rizeagainst above - I think the problem is tone, not content/opinion. Inevitably, it seems to me, the issues arise when people stop talking about what people say and start talking about why they say it. Note that you accused Hopey of hating you - I would dispute your ability to know that, unless you've had lots of discussions I'm not privvy to. I pretty much agree with his characterisation that he is sarcastic but not abusive. Similarly with lok2thabrain, though I tend to scan past the 'you-said, he-said' threads so perhaps I'm just missing bits.

"Do you have an answer?" posted every few weeks in a debate thread with some unanswered questions doesnt sound like harrassment to me. "Do you have an answer or are you hiding like usual you intellectually dishonest, moronic, lolbad-moderator." seems unreasonable.
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07-22-2011 , 09:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
Ok, I have gone through every post ITT and believe that I have answered all of the issues questions, at least to some degree.
I think the changed name of the images thread probably deserves some comment. Plus - why was the prayers/special intentions thread unstickied?

They both seemed like peculiar decisions in the current climate, unless I missed some discussion about them somewhere?
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07-22-2011 , 10:09 PM
i'm going to defer all decisions regarding rgt to bunny. at least until i come back from dinner and maybe forever.
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07-22-2011 , 10:18 PM
Sigh.... Lee, when a child is born does it immediately go... wow I love Jesus? Religion is passed on from person to person, there is no genetic religion. Does it really take faith to continue thinking that there is no master power out there?

/derail
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07-22-2011 , 10:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
To address this first it needs to be made aware that the bump of the thread was 2 months after the thread had died. So I did not just randomly lock the thread. The reason that it was locked was the invitable bitch fest that it was going to turn into from posters like loK and rize (possibly others) about what terrible person that I am and how stupid I am etc. There is a long history of this happening in RGT by these posters. I wasn't going to continue with that thread at that time, and the last thing that RGT needed was yet another thread where these guys bitched about.

As to loK stating that this action of mine caused animosity, well that is not really true. I will get into this later, but people like loK and rize and Hopey have a long history of hating me and this was way before I became a Mod. I will get more into this later thought.
Dude, get over yourself. You're stuck in the past. We've had our squabbles, yes. But I took a looong break from RGT and it's been roughly a year since you and I have had any confrontations.

Locking a thread because of what you think someone will say is not reasonable. Not only that, but your original reason for locking said thread was because we trolled you when we bumped it. Now you're saying that's not the reason? Which is it?
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07-22-2011 , 10:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Mat Sklansky
i'm going to defer all decisions regarding rgt to bunny. at least until i come back from dinner and maybe forever.
Whenever RGT has been in need of a new mod, Bunny's name is always the first to come up as an ideal candidate by atheists and theists alike. He's seen by both sides as being the most reasonable and fair poster in RGT. However, Bunny has so far refused to take on the thankless job.

Had Bunny agreed to become RGT's mod, you wouldn't have ever seen a thread like this in ATF.
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07-22-2011 , 10:23 PM
I haven't spent much time in RGT lately as I used to, so I'm not up on the current state of the forum, but I've got to agree with Jib that there are a few posters (who have posted ITT) who have basically had a hate-on for Jib since before he was a mod and - from my perspective anyway - relentlessly went after him subsequently, attacking both his posts and his modding at every instance. Frankly, it got a little tiresome (IIRC I made some posts about this back then when things were pretty bad).

At the time anyway, Jib was often virtually the lone theist handling dozens of substantive posts from various atheist posters. While he didn't get back to everyone, and either abandoned - or forgot about - a number of posts, given the sheer number of posts to respond to I think he gave it a good faith effort. (Keep in mind that I'm an atheist and pretty well always disagreed with jib, but I appreciated his effort).

Jib put up with an astoninshingly high amoung of abuse from some of these guys, and I was surprised he let them get away with it.

So while I'm not completely up to date with these recent complaints against Jib, they seem to be the same old same old. Is Jib perfect as a mod? Of course not. But the people who attack him are not always, imo, objective when it comes to jib, and quite frankly are lucky they weren't banned a long time ago for the abuse they heap on a mod, who gives his volunteer time to help run this forum.
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07-22-2011 , 10:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
I am more that willing to take constructive criticism about my modding. In fact the regulars of RGT can tell you that I have changed the rules and my modding style multiple times based on what I felt the majority of the Regs wanted. Most recently was the creation of HC threads and to have a very light style of modding for the rest of the forum in order to try and please more people and compromise.

But I think that you will see that for some (loK, tpir, rize, hopey etc) it has nothing to do with my modding style, but the fact that they don't like me as a person.
This is completely false.

I have made a very specific point about your modding style, and all you have to say is, "well, surely poster X, Y, and Z would have derailed the thread so I locked it before that could happen."

That is the worst reason I've ever heard for locking a thread.

I've told you multiple times to stop living in the past. To start fresh and understand that I've realized I was a bit too negative with my posts. That was a long, long time ago, yet here you are acting like I just told you to **** off yesterday.

Why can't you just let the past go?
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