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Originally Posted by Bobo Fett
Just dropping in quick to say I've received lots of good feedback and haven't forgotten this; I'll get to it over the weekend.
And then we don't hear a peep from him for almost 3 weeks...what an *******.
Sorry about that, wasn't my intent to skip out, but I've had little time for the forums recently and this thread needed a fulsome response IMO.
As I said, I took this to the mod forum for discussion. I mostly wanted to get opinions on the general principle that once someone has their account permanently banned, it typically remains banned with few exceptions. I got mixed reactions both on that principle and the idea of unbanning Rich's main account. The end result being, I'm still feeling fine with the idea that a ban is a ban, but we make exceptions.
Now to address a couple of things Rich has said about me. One is the idea that I don't like him - not sure if he's posted it in this thread, but he's certainly PMed me as much. I've always considered that an odd idea, that I'd dislike someone because of things they post on a forum - I don't know them, how the **** would I decide I don't like them? If I had some personal dislike for Rich, I would've nuked all of his accounts from orbit by now after some of the PMs I've received from him. The second thing would be this:
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Originally Posted by SimpleRick
It's illegal for Bobo to agree with me on here because expressing the truth as I've stated it is a crime in Canada. So he has to pretend he doesn't care about children and wants them misled and chemically castrated. (I wish that were true instead I think Bobo actually believes chemically castrating mixed up kids is the right thing to do. That's horrifying.)
I'd assume this was some weird hyperbole if not for PMs I've received from you on this topic. But I have no idea how you arrive at such weird ideas when I've never said anything of the sort. I've actually told you multiple times I didn't want to get into the issue with you in the venues you chose. But I'll make an exception here to clarify this for you. I can't imagine a world where it would make sense to be "chemically castrating" young children, but I also don't believe this is happening anywhere. Medical procedures for 16 or 17 year olds? When done with proper consultation with medical and mental health experts, I don't know that I have a problem with it. Kids in the middle getting things like puberty blockers? I'm definitely not knowledgeable enough to offer up an opinion on that, and I doubt that more than a handful of forum posters are either. On all of these things, I'm good with letting
properly vetted experts figure this stuff out in conjunction with the kids and their parents. When needed, some government oversight could be in order, but not with crazy overreaching stuff that ties said experts' hands.
I post this not to get into a debate as this isn't the thread for the topic, but to clarify so you can stop with the "I think Bobo actually believes chemically castrating mixed up kids is the right thing to do" nonsense.
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Do you think this site is correct in labeling me as a bigot? (I'd appreciate a yes or no answer from you, thanks)
It hasn't.
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Yes it has. The site has an infraction against me, multiple continued infractions in fact, for "transphobia".
There is precisely one infraction against you for a homophobic post. That doesn't mean you haven't made more such posts (as the infraction says "Continued Transphobia"), just that you have only one infraction labelled as such.
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Originally Posted by SimpleRick
I won't be labeled a bigot by this site and then have the mods lie about it and try to gaslight me.
Going further with this - it says nothing about you being transphobic, or a bigot. Does someone making a bigoted post make them a bigot? I have no idea what's in their heart. Maybe they made a mistake. Maybe they're confused, or misguided. Or maybe they're a ****ing nasty bigot. Giving you a single infraction for a transphobic post really isn't saying anything about whether you're a transphobe or not. And the site has labelled you nothing - the site has recorded the infraction I gave you for a transphobic post, and only mods and admins can see that. To take that and suggest the "site is...labelling me as a bigot" is a stretch in many directions. But if that continues to be your belief, I guess we'll have to agree to disagree.
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Tell me how I should behave in that timeframe and I'll do it.
OK, but...
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I'm not going to fundamentally change
So I'm a little concerned about this. The idea isn't that you just behave for a bit and then go back to the same old routine. That said, it's not that you need to "fundamentally change", but rein things in. Quite a bit, at times.
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Is it unreasonable to ask to be unbanned in a year from now? Tell me how I should behave in that timeframe and I'll do it.
So back to this...OK. And I'll do you one better. Rather than a year from now, let's talk next summer, after your somewhat great country's next birthday. As for expectations, I'd say they're pretty simple. Number one would be knocking it off with this kind of thing:
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Hey stupid, you're talking to no one right now. Rayz is gone. This thread wasn't being derailed because BS is back on ghost mode dummy. Bumping my thread after me not posting in there for half a year isn't cool. This is why this site is garbage, it's garbage stupid mods like you Mark. What was the point of moving a few posts over to that thread? To clean up this godforsaken mess of a thread over here? Because you're dumb enough to think Rayz is coming back anytime soon? Hey Mark, how did someone as stupid as you get to be a mod, how does that happen?
I don't think you need to refrain from any and all criticism of mods. But I also don't think this sort of thing is necessary over a simple move of some posts from one thread to another.
And the other thing would be to knock off the transphobia, as it is viewed on 2+2. I get that you probably don't agree that saying all transgender people is mentally ill is transphobic, but that's the way it's viewed here on 2+2. I'd think you'd be wise just to stay out of topics on the issue, with maybe the exception of those in the Politics forum, but even there you need to follow the forum rules.
I think those are very reasonable requests, especially since this is a better deal than what you've asked for here.