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02-03-2008 , 05:33 PM
Any chance this could be added to the little popup menu over people's usernames? I like to browse NVG sometimes...
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02-03-2008 , 06:00 PM
you can choose to ignore users at >my 2+2>control panel>ignore. no, there is not a toggle switch that you can ealisy turn off and on.
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02-03-2008 , 06:31 PM
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02-03-2008 , 06:39 PM
that seems about right.
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02-03-2008 , 07:05 PM
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02-03-2008 , 07:13 PM
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Originally Posted by dotbum
oh that was soooo cute
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02-03-2008 , 07:15 PM
I feel all warm and fuzzy inside.
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02-03-2008 , 07:28 PM
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Originally Posted by its_just_me
oh that was soooo cute
I was going more for brag (not limesparks-level brag obv).
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02-03-2008 , 08:22 PM
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Originally Posted by dotbum
I was going more for brag (not limesparks-level brag obv).
afaik limey has me on ignore.
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02-04-2008 , 04:15 PM
great great function
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05-17-2008 , 06:58 PM
Thanks
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05-17-2008 , 07:05 PM
Who are you wishing to ignore? Is it MicroBob?
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05-17-2008 , 08:15 PM
You post the name of the person you're wanting to ignore and the reason why, and mods will take care of it for you.

For example:

Person: tuq
Reason: He makes me uncomfortable.

Last edited by Phil153; 05-17-2008 at 08:16 PM. Reason: just kidding i love tuq! tuq is the best
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05-17-2008 , 09:20 PM
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Originally Posted by mike2129
How do I ignore someone?
1. Click on the name, for example, JoeSchmoe, and a pop down box will appear.
2. Click on "View Public Profile" in the pop down box. ("Public profile will appear).
3. Click on "add JoeSchmoe to your ignore list."

You'll still see where JoeSchmoe has posted, but you won't see the avatar or the written message.

And you can take anyone off your ignore list just as easily.

Buzz
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05-17-2008 , 09:24 PM
Steps:

1. Ask yourself this: Ignoring someone is a serious decision and it could really hurt them- make sure you're ready to cut ties with this person for good. Don't plan on ignoring someone for a day or week just to get attention, if you can approach the person directly with your problems first, then turn to ignoring them if they still won't solve them. Remember that people make mistakes. If you feel you've come into contact with someone toxic or tried every way of solving the problems you need to get yourself out of the situation or relationship.
2. Know the motive behind his actions. Before you resolve to ignoring someone, consider not only what they did to bring you to this point, but also why they did it. Don't just ignore someone to make a point- that is immature and will slow down any resolution. If you need time away from them then you should tell them so. If you've reached the point where you really can't put up with them any more they are probably aware of the problem too, before you give them the cold shoulder you might try voicing your concerns or telling them you need to "take a break." If you can both see the good in separation everything will be more peaceful and less intense. But they may not take things so well so..
3. Be direct with them. Firmly tell them why you don't want to know them any more. You don't have to be nasty about it. You can be polite and respectful. But you need to let them know you aren't available any more. Some people will still refuse to accept this though so you will have to be very clear. Stop taking calls from them. Don't read their emails. Block them on instant messenger. Don't be rude or rub it in and don't give into their attempts to provoke you into response. Just stop communicating with them at all. Don't bicker. If they approach you in public or start making rude comments clearly tell them you want them to leave you alone from now on. If they continue seek help. Tell them that if they do not leave you alone it is harassment and you will inform [a fitting authority.] In most cases things will not escalate to this level, but if they do you need to show them you are willing to put an end to it and fast.
4. Understand the consequences. This person will be angry. Being rejected by a friend is hard to cope with and some do it better than others. Prepare yourself. Inform mutual friends that you intend to end contact with this person and if they have questions answer them- don't be too eager to talk about this person though. The point is removing them from your life and dwelling on the issue will be counter-productive. If you need to, inform family members you don't want to be contacted by them. Don't try to get others to join your "side" or get involved- if your target tries to do this to you react by letting people know that they can make up their own minds, but they know your position and you just want to let it go and be left alone. Most people will understand this and if they don't they eventually will.
5. Ignore the steps below if the steps above have helped. But if wish to be immature about it or waste your time and efforts or even if you are just plain petty then please continue to the other steps below.
6. Focus on your reasons again. Why do you want this person to get out of your life? Remember the ways in which they limited you, how they hurt you. Feel good about your mature reaction. Ignoring someone can be difficult and is the last step you should take, so your reasons must be firm.
7. Refrain from all communication with the person. You should already be doing this, but they will try to make you pay attention to them- first by being angry in return, then by trying to let you know what a bad person you are for ignoring you, once you don't give in they will try to work through other people, eventually they may become vindictive- showing up where you work or yelling at you if they catch you alone. Even if you don't want to pursue legal action the threat alone may get them to stop. If it continues seek the help of an authority figure, even if that means contacting a lawyer.
8. Stop greeting him. Don't feel like you need to say anything to them for etiquette's sake, minimize contact with this person to begin with, but don't respond even when they say hi. If they really won't stop, just say "Please don't talk to me." and walk away.
9. Never make eye contact with the person. Ever. Not even accidentally. Don't acknowledge their presence. If they say things like "You can't even look me in the eyes!" Don't respond. Tell them assertively that you want them to move on.
10. Manage your schedule. This is to ensure that you don't come into contact with that person. Except for if you're breaks are very predictable and almost routine, then you're screwed.
11. End all connections with the person. Block them from everything you can, everything else change or suspend. Change your phone number, email, and IM address, cancel MySpace and/or Facebook if necessary. Don't allow any friends or relatives to give out your personal information to this person.
12. Forget all those bitter remarks that the person makes about you. Even if they say your house smells like rotten pumpkin. They're just attention-seekers and they want to annoy you.
13. Keep yourself busy. Spend time doing your own activities like knitting a sweater or falling frequently in a soccer match, maybe try to develop a new hobby just to get away from the person. Do not invite them to watch any of these activities. They may be oddly attracted to you afterwards.
14. Celebrate the freedom! Enjoy the peace of mind knowing that person is not actively a part of your life (at work).

If you need help, please contact Alex Maciag. He is an expert in the field of ignoring.

Tips:

* If you ever come across this person in a shop or store, pretend you don't see them; use tunnel vision. Change your walking speed, stop, and turn irrationally. If they say something to you, tell them that you are in a rush and you really must go. If all else fails, just keep quiet.

Warnings:

* If you decide to really ignore someone for a prolonged period, you must expect that he/she will never talk to you again and be okay with that.
* Ignoring someone can cause feelings of deep animosity. Be aware that the person you're ignoring might potentially physically assault or try to harm you in response to your treatment, but most of the time if you will ignore someone it will be over. Walk away from them, do not ignore them and then try to confront them or even try to confront them at all let them come to you when they are ready again.
* At some point, you might want to communicate with the person that you have decided to ignore and settle the argument. Remember this may not always be possible or reasonable and you don't have to. If it is a person that you have to work with or associate with then at some point you may have to, so be nice.
* Don't fall for the other persons sweet talk. Stay strong and be confident.
* Don't just ignore someone who is abusive. It wont work and will most often make it worse. Get out of the situation!
* One of the better options to avoid the animosity by completely freezing out would be to keep it simple and straight. Acknowledge if you see the person by saying a "hello" with a smile but make sure do not extend beyond that. If the person stops to have a conversation, try not encouraging it by making some reasons such as "running late for something" or "in a hurry". If that is not possible, try giving answers which will not encourage further questions such as "the usual", "nothing interesting", "alls fine". This way you give strong signals that you do not want to extend the interaction but also do not burn your bridges.
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05-17-2008 , 10:18 PM
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05-18-2008 , 09:03 PM
I want to ignore shortstackingyo from MSNL, for obvious reasons.
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05-18-2008 , 11:33 PM
I could really use some help ignoring my neighbor's dog, it's driving me INSANE.
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05-19-2008 , 01:26 AM
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Originally Posted by David Berkowitz
I could really use some help ignoring my neighbor's dog, it's driving me INSANE.
A+
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05-19-2008 , 07:15 AM
Can't you just not read their post?
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05-19-2008 , 05:46 PM
Ignore is actually pretty sweet. Since half of what the person I just put on ignore posts is annoying crap, I don't have to read it. The other half will usually be quoted, so if it isn't stupid as hell I can read it then.
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05-19-2008 , 06:13 PM
NozeCandy,

Who is on your ignore list?
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05-19-2008 , 06:54 PM
Epippen. The first person ever on that list.
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05-19-2008 , 07:12 PM
Good use of ignore IMO.
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05-19-2008 , 07:42 PM
How come you're not allowed to ignore yourself, but you can put yourself on your own buddy list?

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