So I crush this guy a few times, he says im a fish whos getting lucky (which is true but not very nice to say), so I tease him a bit and call him 'me lady'. Then he gets serious.
Just to protect his privacy out of respect for his family.
Seems more like you're embarrassed for us to see what you said (but still had a need to make a really stupid thread?!?)...obv respect isn't something you possess.