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Originally Posted by SycoMosh
eh.. im no pro or anything buttttt
i know you had a large cash, your confidence was at a high etc... but taking a shot that big? big no no imo...
like u, im a big gamer... you need to start treating the different levels in poker just like one - you do well, you eventually advance up to the higher levels organically
what ur doing is the equivalent of using cheat codes.. and as hardcore a gamer as you seem to be, i highly doubt you use them.. you were pwning goldeneye for the challenge and it kept u comin back like fat kids to cupcakes cuz u seem like the type of dude who can't settle for defeat - you WILL conquer your goals. using cheat codes likely would defeat the whole purpose for you.
why treat poker differently? its just another video game
you have to treat climbing like a challenge - how do you know you CAN beat these levels? I think you need to prove that to YOURSELF. taking high shots is just going to make these levels feel meaningless. i think this is a huge problem for you - i dont think you can just call it a "just for fun" thing because it just won't be as exciting when you finally EARN your move up. moving up a level, say from $2 to $3 or $4 when you are craving playing $55 games, just doesn't feel exciting.
i know the money down there feels meh, but believe me - you keep at it long enough, you stop thinking of it as money, and just keep track of it like you would in a video game.. its just ur score - once you have this mentality, you will start to care about the smaller amounts because you had to put in a ton of work to earn it, and if u take poker seriously enough, you will go through this initiation process
anyway im sure you've heard this stuff before. i figured id spit it out this way because it made a huge impact on me when i took on this mentality. and even if im not understood, maybe someone will eventually convince you, but i figured i could at least give it a shot - you seem like a cool dude man, i dont wanna see you becomin a pro guinea pig... one shot and gtfo imo
This is an excellent perspective, and it frustrates me that I have so much difficulty incorporating it. I think it's due to playing for so long with bad habits... just means I have to work extra hard to correct them. You're right, I never use cheats on games, takes all the fun out. I'm going to read and reread this post until it has soaked into my brain.
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Originally Posted by Vexed?
Gratz!!!
When you were final table/hu was everyone else awake railing or were you the only one desperately trying not to scream or shout?
Best of Luck.
Everyone else was asleep, by the time I made it to the final table it was around 5am. The only form of encouragement I got from in here was farting and snoring, amd the occasional strange, repressed moaning/sleeptalking that is standard from Bed 1 (WHOLE other story there :P)
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Originally Posted by Imagy
This is the downfall of so many players. Good bankroll management especially in tournaments is key. Playing high volume, achieving a solid ROI and then selling some action w/ a markup is the fastest way to move up and it's not even close.
Build the bankroll, don't touch it until you're at the level where you are happy playing. I know you must have heard this before, but its true!
P.S. did anyone check out the book yet?
Thanks man, and I always learn best through repetition, it lodges the info in my head. I wonder how many players fail because of just these things? If someone has a decent grasp on the fundamentals of the game, surely poor brm is the deciding factor on wether or not they will be successful. The sad part is many may not even realize it, and will probably lose any belief in themself as a player.
The ebook is great, and is helping me rebuild my keeness for hold 'em theory. Unfortunately the others in my group aren't willing to do any reading on the subject (like I mentioned before none ever vsit 2+2), so didn't show any interest when I offered to give them copies.
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Originally Posted by Grindcore
This thread is awesome and I wish you nothing but the best, and because of that I'm afraid I have to make a harsh post as I strongly believe it's for the best. I really hope you see the truth in my post and don't write it off as some random nagging, so to hopefully increase the impact of the post: I'm a Deuces Cracked instructor and have been living of poker for over 2.5 years now, last 1.5 being full time.
This proofs that despite what you may think, you've learned nothing. You used the first available excuse to play way outside of your roll, and also very likely much higher than where you had an edge. I'm not trying to demoralize you or anything, but sticking to BRM is EXTREMELY important, especially for a guy like you. That one shot you just took is like that 18 months clean guy doing heroine just one time. You've essentially just degened away the $5 transfers of 11 friendly people that gave it to you thinking you'd change. Write down your bankroll rules on a piece of paper, or even better, make a wallpaper (or have someone make it if you don't how to) for your laptop with the BRM rules on it. And stick to it. Maybe even make a deal with a friend that if he ever catches you breaking your own rules, you're forced to transfer your entire bankroll to him and quit poker for good. This will really help you stay on track.
I really hope you don't take this the wrong way. I'm really hoping you make it and wish you the best of luck.
Bart
Harsh was necessary, and you're right. Despite playing poker for 3 years, there's never been anyone to give any advice or guidance, it's taken me a long time to see the things that most others probably learn quickly. Thanks for your advice man, it means a lot coming from someone in your position, and I appreciate you sharing your expertise with a labrat like me
I'm real happy you have been liking the thread, hope you check back on me soon!