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Originally Posted by VeeDDzz`
"Desensetisation to violence" seems a popular phrase.
Does it actually mean anything?
Yes. It actually means something. "Reduced emotional/visceral response" is what desensitization means.
Ask anyone about their first experience field dressing a deer. Or any first responders first experience coming across a murdered body.
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As far as I know, and it's good sense to ignore what little I do know, not even veteran soldiers or professional soldiers report becoming desensetised. Maybe the 1% with psychopathic traits. Most leave the army with some degree of trauma and a newfound appreciation for diplomatic problem-solving. My father and all his friends were in the bloody civil war in Bosnia 35 years ago, and none of them talk about it in terms of "becoming desensetised".
Generally, it is best to seek knowledge if you start with "as far as I know." Use google. Spell "desensitization" correctly for best results.
Also, don't think in black and white terms. Nothing works that way in real life. To parallel your discussion of your father, I ate a salad last week and am not thin and fit. Weird, right?
The best thing would be to ask your dad whether he thinks you are more of a pussy than he is. Who would freak out more if presented with a stabbing victim?