Ha, yesterday the forums went down just as I was writing this post. Perhaps the server had something to come to terms with.
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Originally Posted by RigMeARiver
Please enlighten me. If you are 100% sure you are going to die and there will be no afterlife, why are you not on hard drugs right now, or randomly shooting up a school or something. I just don't get it at all.
Well, I on the other hand don't get how the fact that it's going to end takes anything away from life. I just don't get it at all. My morning coffee is not ruined by the fact that eventually I will have drank all of it. A lovely music track is not ruined by the fact that it's going to end eventually. Enjoying the company of a good person is not ruined by the fact that we will part ways at some point. On the contrary, the fact that it will end makes everything only even more valuable.
I'm not hard on drugs because then I would lose even the little prescious few decades I have left. I'm not randomly shooting up a school because not only am I completely void of any wish do it, the mere idea of doing that actually fills my every braincell with extreme disgust.
You obviously associate nothing but utter despair with the thought of of everything coming to an end once. You do not seem to think that it is possible to feel nothing but utter despair at this thought. But it is. And I think it is so even for you, though you cannot seem to imagine it. Human mind is generally not so incompetent as to be poisoned by its own product.
And I don't think delusion is the answer. It's a crutch, and it might be necessary for some people in some situations. But the real cure is to embrace reality, whatever it is. It might seem bitter at first, but a healthy human mind has the wonderful ability to over time come to terms with almost any situation. The species wouldn't have made it otherwise. Neither you or me have any clue what is true despair, what it is like to see most people around you, most of your family, your children, die randomly, violently, suffer from disease, starvation, terror, struggle every day just to survive. Yet, that is the life our ancestors had for hundreds of thousands of years. It seems silly to me then to be convinced that a mere abstract idea that a human mind itself came up with in the first place could be something it cannot overcome.
It might be painful at first, but if accepting it is the only choice you leave yourself with, then that's what you are going to do. The agony usually doesn't last more than a couple of days. Then you are going to feel terrible but at least barely functional for a few weeks. Then you are going to feel low for a few months.
Then you're going to be fine.