You will likely see your friend approach but never cross horizon and then it will take forever to see him disappear past the horizon until the moment you passed also (that will happen in finite proper time though for you) (you will stop making sense of what you see from him just a little before crossing likely because its all so fast and spread out and there are not infinite number of photons emitted). After that point you will no longer see him (forward darkness) if you both follow identical radial orbits to the center. No light geodesic exists that has increasing r when inside. So light from them cannot reach you anymore unless it was radiated sideways and orbits are potentially doable like that. So you can see inside your spaceship up to a point. (how it looks inside has to be consistent with what kind of geodesics for light are allowed that cross your falling geodesic basically you intersect at lower than emitted radius or not at all.)
You will find the truth about what happens inside (that they are not correct that there is a singularity at the center by the way) after crossing the horizon when its too late to go back but all this makes sense only if we are talking a very large black hole because on any smaller ones even typical galactic ones (unless ultra huge ones with 1 bil solar masses etc) gravity and tidal forces at the horizon are enormous even if of course still finite and not singular. Therefore any human wouldn't be able to survive the event typically with a body that wasn't torn apart.
See some properties here (like check out gravity strength at horizon for even 1 bil suns black hole hence "interstellar" movie claim of realistic physics is bs moreover Kip Thorne in the team who probably should have or did protest it)
http://xaonon.dyndns.org/hawking/
The sun is 2*10^30 kgr or 2*10^27 tons.
Notice once you cross the horizon it takes 10^-5*(M/Msun) seconds to hit the singularity at the center (but which i doubt is that way so even less time to hit the "truth")
Basically the nearest black hole wont do it. Since astrophysical black holes at order 3-100 Msun often making surface gravity 1 billion g lol and time to the center only 10^-3 sec. So the concept of seeing your friend taking forever to cross the horizon isnt even registering in human senses as it all happens so fast for nearby black holes.
If you had 10^9 Ms galactic super black hole (largest speculated from observation of distant galaxies is near 10^10 suns) then it would take 2.8 hours to hit the center and at horizon gravity would be still 1000 g making it insanely tough experience.
So its not gonna happen nicely anyway and its the kind of physics that gedanken experiments are false approach usually because all kinds of phenomena take place that invalidate classic rigid horizon concepts that go about the idea that you see them freeze forever as they are crossing etc. It aint happening like any of this at all that you see in the usual books or lectures etc.
Last edited by masque de Z; 04-07-2018 at 01:51 AM.