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Being perfect is not about that scoreboard out there. It's not about winning. It's about you and your relationship with yourself, your family and your friends. Being perfect is about being able to look your friends in the eye and know that you didn't let them down because you told them the truth. And that truth is you did everything you could. There wasn't one more thing you could've done. Can you live in that moment as best you can, with clear eyes, and love in your heart, with joy in your heart? If you can do that gentleman - you're perfect!
- Coach Gaines, Friday Night Lights
Gentleman I would be the first to commend all of the selections so far, and to defend you all in the face of anyone who says you have not begun to prove yourselves experts in the criteria of bad sports posting. You have identified posters with the worst traits of fandom, who have truly made this forum AIDS with their unintelligence, incoherence, homerism, and their general flouting of opinions one would consider themselves unfortunate to encounter on the rail of your local sports bar, never mind in the place we consider home, SE.
However, I would like to raise the bar. And I would like to do so by having you all get philosophical with me for a moment about what it is we do here. As much as anyone in this forum lives for that moment when their favourite team seals a huge win, or when transcendental moment occurs that we can all appreciate, what truly makes SE great is the perspective that it can provide at times when we need it. We get it in small doses on a daily basis in the FAQ thread, where sports fans turn into real people talking about their lives, where stuff like politics occasionally gets discussed at a far more mature level than anywhere I could imagine. We get it like we did recently during the Boston bombing tragedy, where this forum was again great in its understanding of the times when the game must take a backseat to something else. And I believe we got it most clearly during the now infamous Penn State scandal, where SE distinguished itself from the mass media and just about everybody else in its collective empathy, understanding, and prioritization of what this was really about. To all of you responsible, I give my congratulations.
However, there was one who stood out in this mess, who so antithetically opposed the principles I have outlined above, that make SE so great. He was unwavering, relentless and awful in his OVER 500 posts in the Penn State thread, and I will do my best to highlight how badly he should feel about it, as soon as I introduce him.
BDIDD
Let us reminisce on the facts of what happened at Penn State. Assistant Coach Jerry Sandusky was convicted on 52 counts of child molestation from 2004-2009, though it is suspected this abuse went back as far as the 1970's. Former FBI director director Louis Freeh put together an independent report that concluded that "senior leaders" at Penn State showed a "total disregard for the safety and welfare of Sandusky's child victims" for 14 years and "empowered" Jerry Sandusky to continue his abuse. This includes iconic coach Joe Paterno, who was told by Mike McQueary that he witnessed Sandusky molesting a child. Paterno told not the police, but the Athletic Director, and the cover-up ensued. The Penn State student body and community subsequently humiliated themselves with extreme displays of support when action was taken against Paterno for his role in COVERING UP SERIAL CHILD RAPE.
I quote much of the following from wikipedia. To get a true grasp on the impact of child sexual abuse it would be necessary to read countless testimonials on how the victims are never able to trust again, to have proper relationships, to recove from the physical and mental scarring and to overcome the lack of self-worth. Adults with a history of sexual abuse often present for treatment with a secondary mental health issue, which can include substance abuse, eating disorders, personality disorders, depression, and conflict in romantic or interpersonal relationships. Research has shown that traumatic stress, including stress caused by sexual abuse, causes notable changes in brain functioning and development. Various studies have suggested that severe child sexual abuse may have a deleterious effect on brain development.
Now, most of you are familiar to the Penn State thread, it is SE's largest ever non-season thread after all. But for anyone who isn't, or to remind those who were, the feeling in the early pages of that thread before all the information had come to light, was one of instant condemnation of anyone who could be involved, above anything else.
However, on his arrival to the thread, Bdidd introduced himself with his remarkable ability to focus on WHAT DIDN'T MATTER.
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In the interest of full disclosure, I am a PSU fan. Didn't graduate from there but am a fan.
With that out of the way, these guys aren't going to be scared off by this. Hell it may actually make someone like Dungy more interested than he may have been previously. Meyer has already publicly commented that he would love to have the PSU job after Joe goes. Granted, that was before this mess but I don't think it would scare him off. If anything, these type of high character guys would see it as an additional compelling challenge to the job in bringing the glory back to the program.
And lets not forget the oodles of money that the administration will be more than willing to spend in this spot to bring a big name into the mix. That won't hurt either. But i guess I'm the naive one.
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Eliminating the football team, especially now, would harm the university greatly. That is certainly not the answer.
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That is a good point about this upcoming game. They either come out completely flat or incredibly inspired.
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Meyer is the favorite to become next PSU head coach according to Bodog.
On the cover-up itself, Bdidd gave us some more awful posting, looking after his main man, JOEPA:
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The GJ presentment is not clear to any degree regarding what McQueary actually testified to in terms of what he told Joe. It doesn't say he told Joe he saw Sandusky having anal sex with a child. It simply says something to the effect of he told him "what he saw."
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I forgot, not rushing to an ultimate judgement and allowing all of the facts to surface first is always a ****ty line to take. Should have just shoved it all in pre. My bad.
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What Sandusky did is as despicable as it gets. I understand the anger. What I don't understand is the 'shoot first ask questions later' approach to everyone else in any way associated with Penn State University.
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The board wants the message to be that Joe Paterno is a bad person?
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I've also seen articles that indicated that Joe stopped McQ as Mike was explaining telling Mike that he needed to take this to Curley and Schultz. The articles indicated that Joe stopped him prior to it getting too graphic. My speculation is that Joe may have been uncomfortable (for any number of reasons) with the conversation and may have indeed stopped him. I would see this as being a possibility but I obviously have no idea.
Yes, Bdidd went balls to the wall for JOEPA until the last possible moment when all doubt about his true scumbag nature was clear.
On the miscellaneous front, a horrendous grasp of relativity:
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McQueary is a guy who once stepped in and broke up a player-related knife fight in a campus dining hall — a fight police admit could have been very ugly. But this week, he is getting blasted by the public for doing too little.
Some of the posting is indescribable without the use of gifs:
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The football program helps the overall campus tremendously. Hell, a spokeman for the victims said that he believed the victims should have been consulted as to whether Joe should actually have been fired.
Perhaps his worst display of posting ever was his liveblog of JOEPA's funeral, who I will again state in all caps is a man who's legacy will forever be of a man WHO COVERED UP FOR A SERIAL CHILD RAPIST.
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Incredibly moving speeches by Phil Knight and Jay Paterno.
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RIP Joe Paterno.
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What a beautiful service that was today. To be replayed again tonight at 10pm on BTN from what I understand.
Bdidd's defense of PSU got more horrible as it went on. When the whole thread were talking of how embarrassing the behaviour of the PSU community was, we got these gems. Another insight into Bdidd's absolute obliviousness to any kind of moral compass.
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$11,000,000 expected to be raised.
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LOL. $11,000,000 bro. $11,000,000
You are embarrassing yourself bro.
In fact it's amazing that anyone invested so heavily in the WHOLLY EVIL side of the PSU conflict went this far without a good 'ol spate of victim blaming:
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Ben_Jones88:
RT @cvmikesisak: Neighbor says Victim 1 mother boasted about being getting "nice big house in the country" when #Sandusky case settled.
And of course, horrific examples of awareness:
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Idiotic, childish comments are going to get a response from me. I'd also suggest that a majority of those making those kind of comments were haters of PSU long before the Sandusky story broke.
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What I'm suggesting is that sophomoric statements like "kill em all" or "drop a bomb" etc etc are primarily from those who either had a lifelong beef with PSU or are just too ******ed to come up with some intelligent discourse on the subject.
It was all just so AWFUL, over 500 posts worth of this excrement, amorality, cultishness and all around shamefulness and lack of decency.
When he was kindly asked to stop talking about PSU football in the thread, because, tbqh, AINT NOBODY WANNA HEAR THAT ****, Bdidd started a thread in the single season subforum.
He, inexplicably, titled this thread PSU Football: We don't give a **** what you think.
A true window into a soul, I'd say.
Which meant that while others were concerned with the behaviour of the PSU community, their martyrdom of some pretty evil people, and hoping fervently for justice to be dispatched upon the transgressors, Bdidd's thoughts on PSU were occupied in a different way:
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BOB gets his first commit from the class of 2013 and its a good one. QB Christian Hackenberg. Offers from Florida, Alabama, Tennessee and a bunch of others. His grandfather was a teacher of mine back in high school.
Big time recruit from a great family.
Great news.
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Next big commit hopefully will be Adam Brenneman. Top TE in the country. Local kid from the Harrisburg area. If we can get an early commit out of Brenneman this class might be headed in a really great direction.
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And now a four star cornerback from Ohio becomes the second commit. This has been a great day for PSU football.
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WOOOOTTTTTTTTTT!!!
Some truly shameful ****.
All in all, Bdidd did what some of the other bad posters on this forum failed to do. He disgraced himself forever on a moral and human level with his continued obvious concern for the institution and even some of the people responsible for one of the most horrific sports-related crimes in history, rather than the victims. He set himself up in opposition to goodness, empathy, justice, all while being so totally blind and oblivious to what really mattered and what was really at stake. So while from time to time I might get rustled @ Ray Horton's inability to select a good gif for a situation, or @ Systolic's loud ignorance of what makes a football team good, or even Andz's horrific communication skills and awful football, basketball and sociopolitical "opinions", none of these posters have, imo, even come close to betraying everything good about SE like Bdidd did with his long, stubborn, horrifically misguided campaign and subsequent fandom of Pedo State. **** You Bdidd.
Bdidd has also been tried and convicted of defending himself and even worse ACCUSING OTHERS of bad posting in the thread that inspired this draft. He has 65 posts in that thread and tbqh it's 65 too many.
One post in the thread sums up the lack of self-awareness Bdidd has about how truly bad he is:
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I really rustle plzbealevel's jimmies for some reason lol?
Yes Bdidd, FOR SOME REASON, you really do.
But thankfully in digging up all these examples of awful posting, I did manage to find one example of good posting so that we can all finish this post with a sense of optimism:
For sure.