Yeah rmt need some more info. Is the baby's dad around or is she kinda a slut or was it really just a one night thing and her first time doing something like that or what?
Kind of a slut. Claims to have used protection but condom broke (not sure I believe it). Was dating this dude for like a month but he turned out to be a huge dbag with anger issues. Certainly not mine. LOL. I'd be on the roof swanning right now.
Well, she's out right now getting a 2nd preggers test cause of the 2 she got 1 said preggo, one came back inconclusive. She's preggo. FML.
Like, I'm going to want to tell her to stfu constantly, she's going to be extra bitchy, etc etc... and I'm going to feel like an ******* because like... babies and life and stuff, man. bleh
She seems like an adult, ready for child. She's wearing pajamas outside but other than that I think she's ready. She can set up an ESA and put $2,000 in there this year.
seems like an obvious abortion spot unless shes morally opposed to them
haha, well that's initially what she wants to get done.. but she's obv going through all kinds of emotions / scenerios and says she doesn't know how she'll feel about it when it comes. Her family is super against it (I believe). Adoption is an option, but at the end of the day I honestly think she's just going to keep it. Which is scary for sure. I'd probably look at her differently if she aborted / adopted honestly even though I know it's best for her right now. Weird topic. Really dunno how I feel about it.
While hardly an expert on the subject, if she is not prepared to raise a child yet opposed to abortion, she should consider putting it up for adoption. Apparently there is always a very long waiting list for American babies. A friend of mine and his wife recently adopted a child in a similar circumstance when someone around 20 years old got knocked up but wasn't yet prepared to raise the kid. So it was a win-win, and evidently the birth mother is allowed to keep in touch going forward although I presume they has potential for awkwardness in the future.
Presumably this is something she is already very well aware of but it seems like kind of an obvious choice if abortion will cause problems going forward.
