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Originally Posted by natediggity
A very good friend of mind just got diagnosed with MS (2 days ago). He's only 27. Do you guys know anyone who has/had MS and what his life may be like????
It really depends on how the person is affected. Some can function fairly normally, some cannot. I knew a guy who had it. I didn't know him all that well, but he was a friend of one of my close friends. I think the best thing for him was that my friened continued to treat this guy just like any other friend. He'd have him over for bbq's, card games, etc. and he'd bust his balls just like he would with anyone else.
Of course, it was obvious to me that my friend overcompensated a
little bit by making sure that the guy was invited to everything or that events were held at times he could attend. In the end, I think it was really good because one thing that seemed to happen (and I have other experience with similar situations) is that the victim loses friends along the way and cannot put himself in a postion to replace the ones he lost. It's pretty slow march towards lonliness and depression.
In your case, if this guy is your buddy, you are going to have to be strong and come to the realization right away that like it or not, you might be the last guy standing with him. It will be a big commitment to hang in there with your buddy. You being
that guy will be almost as much as a burden than having MS yourself.