Was reading some of Deadspin Drew's "Dadspin" stuff this morning, such as this article on raising kids and the internet:
http://deadspin.com/5920184/know-you...ng?tag=dadspin
How terrifying must it be to be a parent right now AND be aware of what is available to your children's virgin eyes on the internet? (I'm sure there's some of you here). There's obviously a difference between your 16yo stumbling upon goatse and your 6yo stumbling upon it, but neither seems rather desirable.
Like when I was growing up, the internet was probably just as scary, but it wasn't nearly as accessible. Plus, everyone having PCs and easy access to the internet didn't really even become a thing until I was 10-12ish. Google image search didn't exist and like Drew points out in his article, there was a bit of a lockstep progression of being exposed to terrible things. I don't remember stumbling across anything awful until I was well into my teens, and even then it's nothing compared to the horrors you can see how when googling something innocent.
What if your kid happens to watch the Daniel Pearl video? Or the icepick sicko that recently got caught? I mean, that **** would **** with me (thankfully I've seen neither clip). I can't even imagine what it'd do to the psyche of a 12-year-old.
I have some friends on their way to being knee-deep in this **** and they're struggling with the same stuff. They don't want to be authoritarian dickhead nazi parents who raise their children in a protective bubble, but at the same time they are FULLY AWARE of how easy it is to find some crazy **** online.
My parents had absolutely no tech savvy (although presently they are easily top 2 percentile in technological ability of people over 65), and I easily out-maneuvered them if they tried to block or restrict anything. I assume my eventual cursed offspring won't have the same luxury. My 13yo cousin actually called me up the other day asking for help in evading the content filters/parental controls my uncle placed on his PC so he could "install some violent games that really aren't so bad" (after he told me what the games were, I sort of agree, assuming this was actually his true intent). I felt like the biggest grown-up ******* ever when I said, "I can't do that. Your dad put them there for your own good!"