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11-30-2012 , 12:47 PM
Someone needs to post screencaps of his four pages of infractions, should be some good stuff in there
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11-30-2012 , 12:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Shark Sandwich
I'm all for freeing TuT (even though he's probably found a new identity as a certain slot receiver), but that has nothing to do with dkgo.

CDL is right though - all the rape jokes here make me feel uncomfortable. WHAT DO YOU SAY TO THE WOMEN WHO POAST HERE?

Or we could just get a thicker skin.
Rape jokes are not meant to be offensive. The intention isn't there. When dkgo spouts off racist **** it IS MEANT TO BE OFFENSIVE.

Kind of similar, but not the same thing.

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Originally Posted by CalledDownLight
I dont care a single bit about any of this personally as none of it adversely affects me, but the double standard is silly.

I do have a close female friend who was raped and if anyone even uses the word she freezes up and cant speak for a few minutes. The way she explained it to me once (after she had a breakdown because someone used the word) was that her coping mechanism was to completely forget it ever happened and that even tiny things like meeting someone with the same name as the guy could trigger flashbacks to the event which put her into physical shock. I have never heard of anyone having a reaction to a racist comment that is anything near this bad, but I guess its possible. There is no reason to have a double standard on this where something with lesser effects is punished and something that could actually be crippling to a person is let go.

Like I said, I am all for letting it all fly, but lol at the mods if they think racist jokes are worse than throwing out comments about rape.
Racist jokes are one thing, I love my a good racist joke, but openly posting racist **** is way worse than casual rape comments.

dkgo either needs to stop being ignorant or keep getting banned. Simple as that.

It's just so ****ing stupid too. IF YOU DON'T LIKE BLACK PEOPLE THEN STOP WATCHING PRO SPORTS CAUSE THEY ARE CLEAR BETTER AT IT THAN US WHITEYS.
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11-30-2012 , 12:48 PM
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Originally Posted by CalledDownLight
The way she explained it to me once (after she had a breakdown because someone used the word) was that her coping mechanism was to completely forget it ever happened and that even tiny things like meeting someone with the same name as the guy could trigger flashbacks to the event which put her into physical shock.
Uh, does the guy have a common name? Is it Ben? If so how does she watch TV or otherwise interact socially if she is going to have such a visceral reaction? Not making fun of her, that totally sucks, but it seems like it would come into play a lot.

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Originally Posted by Richard Tanner
DK hasn't been funny in 6 months because he's been forcing all the racist **** to get a reaction. Its stale now and its getting guys like yeota and more recently phb to say stupid racist **** for the same reason.
To be fair, if fig guy baits phb into posting enough racist things to get permabanned it will be his crowning achievement.
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11-30-2012 , 12:49 PM
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Originally Posted by yeotaJMU
Nobody has ever called an asian person Lucy Liu or Jackie Chan before? Gtfo

I also called this white guy Gerard Butler because he had a beard that was straight of out 300.

Lots of butt hurt.

Last edited by RT; 11-30-2012 at 12:52 PM. Reason: Well that was odd
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11-30-2012 , 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted by tuq
No, but they have one for him.
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11-30-2012 , 01:10 PM
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Well I'd have to see the exact quote to be sure, but if it's what mutigers poasted earlier then this is just a complete misrepresentation of what dkgo said

Intent matters. Yes dkgo makes racist comments, but he's practically never mean-spirited about it. Unless he's referring to Sham or Rivera specifically.

I didn't see the post either, but if we assume it was this:

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let those fruits be naked if they want but if there is a kid around charge them with sexual abuse of a child"
It's doing exactly what I suggest. It's mostly a bad joke and not like super vile, but it is more than just calling a gay dude a fruit. It was a thread about public nudity in San Francisco. At no point had homosexuality meaningfully come up in the conversation until dk's post.

I agree that he's not usually intentionally mean spirited- but ignorance of the impact of your post isn't exactly a defense. However, in terms of the desires and rules the site, intent really doesn't matter. If you want to post on the site, color within the lines.
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11-30-2012 , 01:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Dids
I didn't see the post either, but if we assume it was this:



It's doing exactly what I suggest. It's mostly a bad joke and not like super vile, but it is more than just calling a gay dude a fruit. It was a thread about public nudity in San Francisco. At no point had homosexuality meaningfully come up in the conversation until dk's post.

I agree that he's not usually intentionally mean spirited- but ignorance of the impact of your post isn't exactly a defense. However, in terms of the desires and rules the site, intent really doesn't matter. If you want to post on the site, color within the lines.
lol wat

"fruit" here does not mean gay dude imo. Nor does "child" mean "boy"

Your reading comprehension is frankly terrible if that's what you got from that comment
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11-30-2012 , 01:24 PM
Anyone who wants fig guy banned clearly has forgotten week 4 of the National Football League. Some hilarious posts include:



http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/sh...postcount=1702

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/sh...postcount=1802

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/sh...postcount=1837

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/sh...postcount=1936

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/sh...postcount=1953


And of course led to this amazing post (which ultimately led to a few day ban):

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/sh...postcount=1971


There were other racist comments by others in that thread. 2+2 is fairly lenient on this, which is fine by me, and I think in the context, these comments are hilarious, especially when you are watching this all unfold. I think most of the time, fig guy is being racist in a context like this. I don't want him to be banned unless he is literally just going around and being racist to members on the site. In this case, him making racist remarks over people that aren't on the website in this context was quite humorous considering how Carolina completely blew the game.
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11-30-2012 , 01:28 PM
That's not an issue of comprehension but interpretation. If you think dk used the word "fruit" in that context just to mean "freak" or something, I think you're really stretching to give him credit he doesn't deserve. Find me a similar context where "fruit" doesn't suggest homosexuality.
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11-30-2012 , 01:37 PM
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Originally Posted by tuq
Uh, does the guy have a common name? Is it Ben? If so how does she watch TV or otherwise interact socially if she is going to have such a visceral reaction? Not making fun of her, that totally sucks, but it seems like it would come into play a lot.


To be fair, if fig guy baits phb into posting enough racist things to get permabanned it will be his crowning achievement.
I have no idea. She wouldn't tell me anything more specific than about how long ago it was and the very very vague details of what happened. I know she also didn't report it due to not wanting to relive it though she did go to the hospital a day or two after it happened and apparently did a lot of intense therapy. She also seemed to imply that it didn't always trigger the response, but could and she couldn't control when it did, but I really never pressed it as it came up organically when she froze up and I could tell something really bad was wrong and took her home.
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11-30-2012 , 01:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Dids
Find me a similar context where "fruit" doesn't suggest homosexuality.
in the all-too-common event that the naked people are secretly sentient fruit
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11-30-2012 , 01:40 PM
dk getting banned for using the word fruit is like Al Capone getting imprisoned for tax evasion.

Last edited by GusJohnsonGOAT; 11-30-2012 at 01:40 PM. Reason: If he basically sticks to SE and completely avoids politards, he'll be fine.
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11-30-2012 , 01:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Dids
That's not an issue of comprehension but interpretation. If you think dk used the word "fruit" in that context just to mean "freak" or something, I think you're really stretching to give him credit he doesn't deserve. Find me a similar context where "fruit" doesn't suggest homosexuality.
Fruit is also slang for "strange person"

If you look at it in the context of the sentence he is clearly saying that grown adults should not be naked around children and should be arrested if they are.

OMG HOMOPHOBIA
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11-30-2012 , 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Shark Sandwich
lol wat

"fruit" here does not mean gay dude imo. Nor does "child" mean "boy"

Your reading comprehension is frankly terrible if that's what you got from that comment
Shark is correct

Mods are reading into it cause of anti jackets bias


Look chill thinks he deserved the ban; doesn't that mean it's wrong?
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11-30-2012 , 01:45 PM
SS is usually dead-on, not sure what exactly is going on here.
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11-30-2012 , 01:47 PM
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Fruit is also slang for "strange person"
No, it's really not. Only inasmuch as "strange person" implies homosexuality. At it's root, when the term is used as an insult- it's implicitly homophobic.

(and I have no anti-jacket's bias, I wish he wasn't such a bigot, but he's hilarious and I wish he'd stop getting himself banned.)
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11-30-2012 , 01:49 PM
This thread has turned into ATF crossed with politards plus a dash of extra AIDS.
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11-30-2012 , 01:51 PM
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SS is usually dead-on, not sure what exactly is going on here.
Just standing up for the oppressed classes by giving a voice to the voiceless imo
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11-30-2012 , 01:53 PM
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Originally Posted by yeotaJMU
Nobody has ever called an asian person Lucy Liu or Jackie Chan before? Gtfo

I also called this white guy Gerard Butler because he had a beard that was straight of out 300.

Lots of butt hurt.
this is a honest question

do you not have friends to tell you how much of a ****ing douchebag you come across as when you go up to Asian girls and speak fake Mandarin and call them Lucy Liu?

i mean what did you expect the response to be ITT when you posted that story? "LOL good one yeota you sure showed those slanty-eyed bitches" or something like that? are you just that clueless as to how your actions are perceived?

unlike dkgo, who knows exactly what he's saying and what reactions it will cause, i get the sense that you're legitimately baffled by the unanimously negative responses you've received.
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11-30-2012 , 01:59 PM
as for dkgo, it's not hard to avoid breaking forum rules on racism when you've been repeatedly asked to stop with the racism. if he chooses to continue with it and gets perma'd, it's on him and no one else. completely up to him.
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11-30-2012 , 02:03 PM
fruit isn't really a word applied to gay people because they are gay, it applies to the super flamboyant people. It's pretty clear to me that if you are a walking around in public in the nude you are a huge attention whore. The whole nudist ban discussion came up because there were a well known group of naked men (who happened to be gay) who were regularly standing around these businesses and lo and behold they lost some business because most people don't enjoy looking at ugly naked americans. . Using fruit in that context is not much different than making fun of goths or hipsters to me. Admittedly it gets murky because when people call their friends fruits it implies gayness. But that's because it's pretty obvious there is a higher percentage of flamboyant gays than flamboyant straight people.
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11-30-2012 , 02:03 PM
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as for dkgo, it's not hard to avoid breaking forum rules on racism when you've been repeatedly asked to stop with the racism. if he chooses to continue with it and gets perma'd, it's on him and no one else. completely up to him.
Agreed. As much as I'll defend the guy it's clear that the mods can't just let open rulebreaking slide all the time.

Unfortunately "stop whining" isn't a rule
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11-30-2012 , 02:04 PM
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Originally Posted by mutigers5591
fruit isn't really a word applied to gay people because they are gay, it applies to the super flamboyant people. It's pretty clear to me that if you are a walking around in public in the nude you are a huge attention whore. The whole nudist ban discussion came up because there were a well known group of naked men (who happened to be gay) who were regularly standing around these businesses and lo and behold they lost some business because most people don't enjoy looking at ugly naked americans. . Using fruit in that context is not much different than making fun of goths or hipsters to me.
Yeah I'm probably wrong then. lol.
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11-30-2012 , 02:07 PM
I don't see how that changes much. How many straight men do you really expect to walk around naked in San Fransisco.


anyway I'll drop it, it's really not a big deal and noone cares I'm sure.
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