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Originally Posted by sethypooh21
Would you rather they have dates or booze? Would you rather have 2 good friends or have to pick one and the girl he's been seeing for 6 weeks? Do you want your soon to be wife's more whorish friends to bring randos or come stag?
both, but I also dont think you should have a wedding unless you can afford it.
2 good friends who can have dates if they want to. If money is an issue then have a get together with friends a few weeks before or after and do a small family wedding. I went to a wedding this summer where we were all allowed plus ones but only one of my 12 good friends brought a date while others came alone despite being in 2+ year relationships. I would rather people have the option of bringing a date if they wanted. I know that none of my friends without girlfriends even wanted to bring a date, but to not be permitted to is a different story. Allowing them to do whatever theyre comfortable with date wise makes the most sense. I have only been dating my gf for 4 months and would prefer to go to this wedding alone given I will have other obligations and she wont know anyone other than the other groomsmen. However, I would have liked to be allowed to bring her if I wished.
I dont care.